Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Travel guide - Why do you have to travel to judge whether two people are suitable or not?

Why do you have to travel to judge whether two people are suitable or not?

First of all, when traveling, two people have a lot of time together. If two people can't stay together for a long time because of work or other reasons, then two people stay together for almost 24 hours. This kind of long stay together will reveal the personality characteristics between two people, and the shortcomings that have not been discovered before will also be exposed during the travel stage. Because during the trip, two people spend a lot of time in contact, so what they see is basically the most real. If they find each other's living habits during their travels, or have many inappropriate views with themselves, then this person is really inappropriate.

Second, when traveling, two people will be in a strange environment, which is the most test of their coordination ability. In the face of travel, there are many things unknown. It can be seen whether there are significant differences between the two sides in their ability to deal with emergencies. If there are significant differences, it means that two people are likely to have strong contradictions and differences in dealing with things in the future, so I think traveling is a test of two people's coordination ability and ability to deal with difficulties. If two people can face difficulties hand in hand, then they are at least in tune.

Third, when traveling, people are the most relaxed and show their true self. If there may be some constraints in daily life, and there may be masks that have not been taken off, then over time, we will basically put down our burdens and show our true selves to each other. So most of the people we met during the trip were real people.

From the following three points, we can draw a conclusion that travel is a good medicine to judge whether two people are suitable, but if we find each other's shortcomings during the trip, we should also have an inclusive attitude.