Henan man took his 80-year-old mother to the opera by bike. What other ways can you be filial in life?

In Zhoukou, Henan Province, a man rode a tricycle with his 80-year-old blind and hemiplegic mother to go to the opera 80 kilometers away. His behavior was praised by many people, and even the stage manager was moved to contract the meals for the two of them during their "going to the opera". I have to say that this man's filial piety is still very intimate. So, in your opinion, what other desirable ways of filial piety do we have in our daily life? Let's discuss it together.

First, provide material security for parents.

My parents are old, and we have grown up. If you want to be filial, you must at least protect your parents' material life first. Especially when parents have lost their labor force, we should make money to support our parents. This is the first thing to do when I was a child. Now I occasionally see some reports on the Internet that some young people are unwilling to give money to their parents and don't care about their parents on weekdays. Every time I see such news, I feel sorry for these parents. After all, I worked hard to raise my children, but I didn't want to repay them in the end. It's really tearful.

Second, try to spend time with your parents with high quality.

In addition to accompanying children on weekdays, we should also pay attention to parents' emotional needs and satisfy parents' spiritual desire for affection. If there is an opportunity, try to live in a community with your parents; If it really doesn't work, at least try to find time to visit the elderly on weekends. If you are too far away from the elderly, you should also find time to chat with the elderly on weekends. It is best to realize video calling. Nowadays, many young people have gone to work in cities, and the elderly have basically stayed in the countryside. The separation of parents and children can easily make elderly parents feel lonely. So, if there is an opportunity, don't miss any opportunity to get together with the elderly.

Third, as long as we don't break through the bottom line, we can accommodate the elderly appropriately.

We advocate filial piety for the elderly, but we don't recommend blind filial piety. We can accommodate the elderly appropriately without breaking the principles and boundaries. After all, my parents are old and there are not many days left. If parents have unfinished wishes, try to help them finish them. If parents sometimes behave irrationally, we should tolerate them more and make them live more comfortably, happily and simply in their later years. When the old people reach a certain age, they also hope to have the opportunity to be old children. We can pamper them appropriately, which will make the old people feel that the happiness index of life is very high.

These are some filial piety methods I can think of. Do you agree? If you have anything to add, please leave a message directly in the comments section at the bottom of this article!