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Dress up your appearance before hitting on someone to get his attention. Let's take a look at the following strategies. Many bad boys and girls have a very important first impression of you, such as your appearance, dress, and whether you usually pay attention to hair care and facial care. For example, whether your body language and speech are stable and powerful, do not stutter, do not lean forward, speak slowly, speak clearly and pause, and make eye contact comfortable and relaxed. If your sister has a good first impression of you, she will naturally have the motivation to associate with you, as long as you pay attention to the above points. Second, we should pay attention to the construction of a circle of friends. Your circle of friends is the window to show your life. To make girls curious about your life and more interested in you, it is necessary to establish a circle of friends. For example, you must pay attention to the background and light when you publish photos, and try to choose places where the background is textured and the light is not too bright or too dark. The photos are based on the tone of your usual life, mainly to convey to your sister that you are a high-quality and high-quality man. Life is very emotional, will live, love life, positive and full of positive energy. After solving my sister's lack of motivation to interact with you, we will solve the problem of chatting. You should have a clear structure when chatting with my sister. Your chatting should be for invitation and service. The misunderstanding of many brothers is that I chat with my sister more in class to make her like me, or I am ambiguous, so I have a greater chance of asking out. In fact, many times, the more you talk to your sister, the lower the mystery and the more limited the topic. Your life is missing intersection again. There is nothing to say if you talk too much, and my sister gradually doesn't want to date you. So chat properly, say some basic information to make your sister feel safe, say some easy topics with close psychological distance, and let your sister have a certain familiarity with you, so that you can ask each other out. Here, everyone should pay attention to two misunderstandings in the love training class: 1, don't talk all the time, minutes. It seems that there is nothing to do but chat. Its value is so low that my sister can feel it. 2, don't be too heavy, deliberately cater to girls. Many brothers are principled in the face of low scores and can stick to their own framework when speaking, but they are completely panicked in the face of high scores. For example, I really didn't expect you to reply me. I thought you wouldn't talk to me anymore. Hello, goddess. What is the goddess doing? You are so beautiful. I don't think I deserve you. And so on similar low-value language. These low-value languages will make my sister feel that you and she are not from the same world. Originally, my sister didn't think she was a beauty, but under the contrast of these languages, my sister thought she was a beauty, and you were a low-scoring man who circled around her. What exactly is the love training class going to tell you? When chatting with a girl who just received it, we should first focus on the basic information exchange. Many brothers can naturally start chatting by greeting each other when they meet classmates or friends, but they forget the most basic social principles when they face girls. Basic information exchange, such as: Where are you from? What's your name? What constellation? What hobbies do you usually have? Wait a minute. After the exchange of basic information, you can gradually deepen the topic and open more interesting third-party topics, such as: What kind of movies do you like? What's the name of the only movie that makes you cry? What's your favorite dish? Do you believe there is magic in this world? Wait a minute. The main problems of people who can't chat are interesting topics and expressing their feelings. Most otaku have a small social circle and lack of social experience, and their usual concerns are completely different from those of their sisters. The topics they cause will make sisters feel boring. At the same time, chatting with my sister only focuses on the results, that is, how can I make my sister like me and how can I ask her out? Instead of focusing on the expression of emotions, your words made me feel what you have experienced before. Therefore, otaku is generally based on basic information exchange, and then bored for a long time. There must be basic information exchange, but the main points must be stopped, otherwise it will become what others call "audit." Therefore, under the constant "audit", the girls gradually get bored and lose patience, so that they no longer reply to any of your topics, or simply pull black. Therefore, brothers, we must master some classic third-party topics that we can chat with our sisters for a long time, such as travel, food, constellations, Korean dramas, obvious scandals, pets and so on. At the same time, after you start these topics, you must express your feelings and opinions during the chat. I'll show you a classic third-party topic, and I can invite you directly after the topic: Me: What's your favorite dish? She: Braised pork me: It seems that you are a good girl. (snickering) (quickly confessing to narrow the psychological distance) She: Yes, yes, hey, hey, me: Guess what I like best? She: How should I know? Me: Let me guess. I'll give you two chances. She: Seafood? Me: (waiting for 5 minutes) You found me (in a daze), and my second sister invited me successfully! So, as I said, in chatting with my sister, we must express our feelings and ideas more, and at the same time, we must open more interesting third-party topics, so that the chat can continue to generate sparks and not be bored. In fact, it has been mentioned in the most classic "Cheats of Bad Boys' First Dating Skills" in girls' circles that instead of having too many purposes, it is better to enjoy chatting and feel the fun of interacting with girls. Many brothers are comfortable with girls with low scores, but they are a little worried about girls with high scores. The main reason is the mentality problem. So what I want to tell you is that even girls with high scores are still girls. As long as the right way of chatting is adopted, she can also date successfully. I hope I can bring some gospel to my brothers who are still worried about not dating girls. Finally, I wish everyone can find a girl in their mind as soon as possible, treat her well and enjoy a good relationship!