What are the precautions for lovers in love when they travel for the first time?

1, division of labor and cooperation in the early planning stage.

Many couples may experience quarrels in the planning stage and eventually give up traveling. Indeed, this stage involves many key factors, and if two people hold their own opinions, it is easy to have differences.

The most important thing is to decide the destination. Many people think that the destination is the most important. When two people go to different places, there will be differences.

When we are planning, I am a travel expert, and I will give my boyfriend several feasible destinations for him to choose according to my past experience and interests, while my boyfriend is a little white who doesn't have much travel experience and doesn't have much disagreement when deciding the destination.

Considering time and money comprehensively, we finally decided on the Kansai region of Japan.

After determining the destination, the next step is to book machine wine, apply for a visa, buy insurance, find a strategy and change money.

Because I have a lot of travel experience before, and I like to be in charge of the overall situation myself, so I do all the ordering of machine wine, and then I look for Kansai Raiders, who is responsible for changing yen and buying tourist sockets at the bank.

My advice to you is division of labor and cooperation. The biggest taboo is that one person worries about everything and the other person is indifferent. The attitude of "I'll do whatever you decide, no problem" is the most likely to lead to conflict.

Although traveling is a holiday, the preparation in the early stage is also very complicated. If the two sides work together at this time, two people can discuss and make decisions together, and they can also cultivate a tacit understanding to accomplish one thing together.

2. During the journey, complain less and communicate more.

The first three days of travel are usually full of excitement and novelty, and I am particularly happy everywhere.

I remember the first day when I arrived in Osaka, I casually found a restaurant to eat that night, and the result was unexpectedly delicious. I also sat in a very exquisite Japanese private room. This little surprise is a good start for our trip.

On the fourth day of the trip, you will feel a little tired, especially since the whole trip is only about seven days, and the second half will start on the fourth day. At this time, various negative emotions will also appear, and conflicts are likely to occur during this period.

Although we didn't seem to have any conflict on that trip in my impression, according to my boyfriend's memory, he said that during my stay in Kyoto, I sometimes lost my temper and complained about this and that.

For example, lying in bed after taking a shower at night and brushing my mobile phone, I have been looking for strategies for the next day, such as what car to take in the morning and the opening hours of scenic spots, but my boyfriend only knows how to brush his circle of friends and chat with others, so I will complain to him: "I need to worry about everything, and you don't care about the next day's trip at all!"

But it's not that my boyfriend doesn't care about the next day's trip at all. It's just that he's used to being led by me, and he's worried that I'll be unhappy when he makes suggestions. It's better to let me decide everything.

Small contradictions will definitely exist during the journey, no matter who you travel with, but for lovers in love, small contradictions may lead to big conflicts if they are not resolved in time, so instead of complaining about each other blindly, it is better to speak frankly about each other's thoughts. The spread of negative emotions is not good for both sides.

I am a person who likes to travel alone, and this is my first time to travel with my boyfriend. I think there are two main advantages to traveling alone: first, accommodation can save money, and at the same time, the food that two people can enjoy together can of course be more diverse than that of one person; Another advantage is that when you meet people around you during the trip, you can experience and share beautiful things immediately.

So don't let two people's travel become the same thing as two people traveling alone. Communicate more and share more feelings during the trip.