When I no longer pay attention to the status of the circle of friends

?I don’t know when it started. I found that I was checking Moments intentionally or unintentionally to look at other people’s updates. I didn’t stop until the information I saw was the last time I checked it. Before I knew it, time passed. After that, I looked around the circle of friends. She posted delicious food again, she went out to travel again, he ran again, and he studied again. I found that they were all other people's states. In addition to envying other people's "goodness", The "status" of others has nothing to do with me, so I simply found the settings on my phone and closed the circle of friends. If I really wanted to know someone's latest friends, I could just click in and have a look. I didn't feel comfortable with it at first, so I took Every time I pick up my phone and open WeChat, I always think about something I haven't done yet, but I can't bear to put it down. I gradually get used to it and don't care much about what others post in Moments.

When you no longer pay attention to the status of others, but pay more and more attention to yourself. In fact, we have no way to tell whether the updates in the circle of friends are true or false. He posted a update and who liked it. , who didn’t like it, I posted it to a circle of friends, why didn’t you give me likes, which invisibly added a lot of anxiety to myself. Now I no longer pay attention to these, and I feel that the world has suddenly become clean. At this time, Only then do you have space to think about what is the truest state of your heart? Drinking a cup of coffee is about savoring the aroma of the coffee, not thinking about how to take a good photo and post it on WeChat Moments.

?When you no longer pay attention to the status of others, you will find that the people who care about you the most are your family members. No one will have any influence because you don’t post friends or look at their circle of friends. They have passed them. Yes, you are just a passer-by. At this time, you will find that no matter what your status is, only your family will pay attention to you and care about you immediately, not the people in your circle of friends.

?During this period of not looking at Moments, my time is becoming more and more focused, and I am paying more and more attention to myself