After a class reunion in your 50s, most of your appearance has changed. It would be better not to see each other than not to meet each other. Do you agree?

After the age of 50, when classmates get together, most of their appearances have changed. Is it better not to meet each other?

No one retains their youthful appearance at fifty. When I get together with classmates, I pay more attention to similar temperaments and similar outlooks. Appearance changes are not at all important to spiritual communication.

The year before last, I went to Kaili to meet a classmate I had not seen for more than 20 years. When she learned that I was going there, she received 20,000 to 30,000 yuan in cash in advance to prepare for my arrival. I repeatedly told her that I am coming with my friends, no interruptions, and you don’t need to prepare. I was just passing by. When I arrived at the hotel, my classmates had been waiting there for us and cooked chicken feet and double yolk tea eggs for us. The delicious taste was always in my mind. We also prepared a thick portion of Guizhou specialties for each friend. The classmate is still tall, with long hair and a warm smile. Embracing her is like embracing those times gone by. The mellow warmth that youth does not know how to taste ferments in middle age. Early the next morning, my classmates came to see me off early again. The gentle burgundy cheongsam and straight back kept reappearing in front of my eyes. When we parted, we burst into tears. The water in Peach Blossom Pond was a thousand feet deep, and it was not as good as Wang Lun's gift to me. Every Chinese New Year, she would prepare sausages, bacon, community rice, and braised pork with pickles for me, and send them to me from faraway southeastern Guizhou to Suzhou. With the warmth of being both a sister and a mother, how can one feel that it would be better not to see each other than to see each other? I just want to go on forever, warming each other and touching each other. I hope that students who have retired from the police force will come back to Suzhou to study, so that we can get together again and not be separated.

We junior high school classmates went to Yan'an to jump in the queue together. We all gathered together, basically reminiscing about the past of jumping in the queue. We get together several times every year, go to the park together, have a meal together, and go to KTV to sing together. Appearances may change, but friendship lasts forever.

A primary school classmate who I hadn’t seen in more than 30 years suddenly formed a WeChat group, and someone wanted to get together. This house made me excited, and I wanted to take a good look at the goddesses in my heart.

I secretly teased myself the night before. I can’t let my wife know. Is there something wrong in my heart? The few hairs were stranded and stranded, but there were still few strands. There are several age spots, and after repeated rubbing, there are still several. The fat and deep grooves on the neck cannot be blocked no matter how hard they are covered. I have no choice but to do this.

The next day, I arrived at the hotel door early and waited, looking forward to seeing what was going on. We finally met. Oh my god, my heart is so cold. The moment they shook hands at close range, she was not a goddess, she was clearly the neighbor's aunt. Her hair is quite dark, probably dyed. She has more age spots, fat, and deep grooves than I do. The most terrible thing is that the big watery eyes are narrowed to a slit, and the corners of the eyes are still drooping.

From then on, if there was another gathering, I would try my best to find reasons not to go. When chatting on WeChat, take out the photos of your childhood and put them in front of your eyes, and chat with them in their pretty and cute ways.

In short, brothers and sisters, it’s better not to face reality bravely. Keep the best things in your memories. Reality is so cruel, will it cost you your life?

My classmates from more than thirty years ago are now my companions! So what if the appearance has changed? See! Of course we’ll see you every day!

If I have the chance, I will still attend high school reunions after I am over 50 years old, no matter how old, ugly or fat I look. why? Because I have a 30-year high school reunion memory that I will never forget.

When my high school classmates invited me to attend the 30-year reunion, I didn’t know if I could make the trip. First, I live overseas and taking a thirteen-hour flight is very hard. Secondly, children still have to go to school at that time, although they need to be picked up and dropped off. Third, I haven’t been back for 20 years and I don’t have many relatives there. My family is worried that something will go wrong. When my classmates at home and abroad said that they would take care of me when the time came, I bravely bought a plane ticket.

After I returned to China, they all tried their best to take care of me. My throat felt uncomfortable, so some classmates brought medicine and some brought honey to the hotel for me. I'll take a day off today and send me here and there. The other one will not go to work tomorrow and will accompany us all on the street. On the two days before the big party, more than thirty of our high school classmates chartered a two-day tour group. Everyone seemed to be back in high school, playing, laughing, chatting and laughing. When it came to the big party the next night, all the high school classmates came. Everyone was so happy to see each other. We don’t care whether you are a big boss or a high official, or whether you have money or not. All expenses are voluntary contributions from everyone.

This time I went back and witnessed the tremendous changes in my motherland and the improvement of people’s living standards. I have become a stranger in the hometown of my birth. We all agreed to have a big party again in ten years.

Even though I am 51 years old, I will still attend my high school reunion this year, no matter how old, ugly or fat I look. why? Because I have a 30-year high school reunion memory that I will never forget.

When my high school classmates invited me to attend the 30-year reunion, I didn’t know if I could make the trip. First, I live overseas and taking a thirteen-hour flight is very hard. Secondly, children still have to go to school at that time, although they need to be picked up and dropped off. Third, I haven’t been back for 20 years and I don’t have many relatives there. My family is worried that something will go wrong. When my classmates at home and abroad said that they would take care of me when the time came, I bravely bought a plane ticket.

We are all college classmates born in the 1960s. We just got together today. They are from the United States, Guangdong, Hong Kong and Guangxi. It is not easy to meet them. Cherish them! Being a classmate is fate.

I once participated in a college class reunion. It was a bonfire party on the mountain. I was eating pheasant that was roasted on the outside and tender on the inside. I was very happy. In the middle of the party, the host suddenly called the male classmate to give him The girls they like offered drinks, so some girls lined up with many boys in front of them. There were two girls who had no boys offering drinks. One of them was me. I was so embarrassed. Damn it, I will never attend any bullshit class reunions again

< p> It's true. Many classmates didn't come to the party at that time. They came because they had a good time while studying. I didn't want to go, but we were in the same dormitory and I had a good time and wanted to go, and they insisted on inviting me. Go, I just went. The host was the monitor of our class when I was in college. At that time, he was still working for a big newspaper in Chengdu. What was his mentality in doing this? Is this an appropriate suggestion at a party?

The purest friendship in the world comes from childhood

When it comes to friendship, in addition to the upbringing of parents, the brotherhood of brothers and sisters, and the blood relationship of relatives, the first The most important thing should be the friendship of classmates, and then there will be the friendship of comrades-in-arms, colleagues, friends, etc.

When we were classmates in childhood, both men and women had the purest friendship. There were no selfish thoughts, only sympathy for each other. There is no intrigue, only progress hand in hand. Although men and women sat at the same table at that time, there was a "38th parallel" between them, and no one dared to "step beyond the boundaries." Later, men and women were divided into separate tables, and everyone used "notes" to pass on information. Or fold a paper airplane, write what you want to say on it, and then trace the target and "swish" it over the heads of other students. Even if the words on it don't fall off, all the students understand it. If the "plane" lands at the wrong place, kind-hearted students will take the opportunity to pick it up and pass it to the place where it should land like a "relay of love". This is a childhood sweetheart or ignorant "game". This is also the foundation of unbreakable classmate love after youth!

Seeing or not seeing is just a matter of a thought.

After the end of their student days, a group of people who used to be good friends actually went their separate ways. The feeling of parting is self-evident, and this may be the first time many people have had such an experience, unconsciously interpreting the meaning of the phrase "young people don't know what it's like to be sad."

From then on, we were separated from each other, living in different places and working in various walks of life. During this period, maybe a class reunion is organized every few years or once a year. Everyone gets together because they are all new forces on various fronts (industries). Because they are all young, their appearance has not changed much. Everyone is very happy. very warm. Everyone who attended the party must have the same feeling: there are so many students at the party, and the theme of the party is very beautiful!

As time goes by, the former youth has passed away, and the appearance begins to change. Some even surprise yourself. It seems that the change has gone too far, and the feeling of sad years arises naturally. At this time, what I fear most is the class reunion. Afraid of facing the confession of a boy or youth, afraid of the once passionate gaze... In fact, no one can escape the reality of aging slowly. Don’t be afraid to see yourself in the mirror. Therefore, when attending a reunion of classmates who are over 50 years old, whether to go or not is a matter of one thought! And this moment of thought is the truest reflection of your future life in old age - your mentality!

The reunion of classmates who are over 50 years old is a happy superposition!

I am not in the same city as my childhood classmates, but I often go to class reunions. Every year, I face the same people and things but also changes. Now that I am over fifty, I still enjoy attending class reunions. Occasionally, a new face will appear at the party. That's because this classmate has never attended a party. His name and appearance obviously don't match up, but he seems to have a shadow of the past. It opens and closes in an awkward moment. Everyone Everyone will smile and praise the greatness of the years. When they meet, all the male and female students will hug each other one by one. This is a sign of respect for youth friendship, and also a longing for current happiness and future life!

(Thank you for reading! The above is only my personal opinion. If you don’t like it, please don’t comment! Welcome to leave a message in the comment area! The pictures are from the Internet and personal mobile phone albums.)

For me I would care more about the current situation of my old classmates rather than the changes in their appearance. If my life is very poor and miserable, I think it is better not to attend the class reunion, otherwise it will make myself more uncomfortable.

After all, everyone will grow old, and it is interesting to see how everyone looks like when they get older. I once met an old classmate on the road. I thought she was very kind. After thinking for a long time, I recognized that so-and-so. I was very surprised. I couldn’t help but sigh that time has not been kind to us. I remember that she was a very famous class star back then. , the family background is also very good, I heard that she married well, and she is not very old now, but she has no charm left at all. On the contrary, some people who were very inconspicuous in the class later became more and more beautiful.

Fifty-year-olds are almost like grandparents. When they have grandchildren, they will take them with them. Maybe they will not get together to talk about their feelings after separation, but more like competing with each other. Your grandson is more beautiful and cuter, right? That's quite interesting.