What's the worst thing you've ever heard about three views?

As a sister, or as an elder brother, you must make way for your younger brother or sister. I really heard this sentence since my sister was born, and now I am really angry and want to hit someone. I don't understand why the big one must give way to the small one. Who stipulated this? Is there such an obligation? If it is a trivial matter in ordinary daily life, such as my sister wants to eat this thing, as my sister, I can give it to him. This should be a kind of affection, not an obligation. But in the minds of many adults, whether right or wrong, as an older child, I must let the child go, which is particularly unacceptable to me. I think we should judge whether it is right or wrong first, and then let the children go with or without them. If a child does something wrong, he must be spared, which will not have a good influence on his education.

I think educating children should teach them the ability to distinguish right from wrong. If you always let the older children at home make way for the younger ones, it is equivalent to blindly doting on the younger ones. At the same time, it will also make him lose the ability to distinguish right from wrong. He always feels right when he goes outside. This character is very unfavorable. After all, no one will let you go out into society.

Although this sentence began to spread a long time ago, I really think it is a very incorrect sentence. Older children should really make way for younger children, but this situation exists when younger children have done nothing wrong. If the younger child does something wrong, the older child will still make way for him. I think it really hurts young children. I was poisoned by this sentence since I was a child, and it hurt a lot. I hope more parents will wake up from this sentence now, and don't use this sentence to hurt their eldest child.