Girlfriends met through blind date. Is it really necessary to try to love before marriage?

Trying to love me before marriage is now the default way for everyone to love. It is inevitable that two passionate opposite sex will collide. It is natural for two people to communicate normally in a romantic environment with the right climate and the right people. I don't think it's necessary to make a fuss.

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Sometimes, I will listen to the complaints of my elders and sneer at these young people's open minds and open actions. It is not difficult to understand that elders have such behavior, because they live in an era when love is not as complicated and open as it is now. According to my grandfather, he met his grandmother on his wedding day. He has never met her, and he has no chance to find fault with his girlfriend. Unlike today's young people, they just look for what they like according to their own needs, and there are not so many rules. I don't know if you have found a rule, but now it is popular again, which we used to think: parents' orders, matchmakers' words. Although the blind date is not so strict, it is also arranged by the elders.

Blind date people are generally divided into two situations. First of all, when I was young, I was busy with my work and career and neglected my feelings. When they succeed in their careers, there will be no suitable people. At this time, parents are the most anxious. The next blind date will fill the spare time of singles until the blind date is successful. Another situation is that the family conditions of both sides are similar, and both parents value each other's children very much. With the help of their elders, boys and girls started dating.

? What didn't disappoint the elders was that the blind date was successful and the two became recognized lovers. Eat together, travel together, do many meaningful things together, and increase feelings. It is normal for two people to have some physical changes involuntarily when they meet the right person at a special time. Although it is indecent to talk about sex, whether the relationship between the two sexes is harmonious is the key factor to determine the future marriage life.