When people get old, what's the difference between saving money and not saving money? Listen to the heart of three old people.

Introduction

Every elderly person wants to live a happy life in his later years. Often, there is too much gap between reality and ideal, which makes the hope go up in smoke. When he is old, he can't afford to get sick, dare not go out to play, and dare not enjoy life when he is old, just because there are still many things in his heart.

The older you get, the more afraid you are. You dare not do anything, and you dare not spend more money. I'm afraid you will be nervous when you use it.

when people get old, they are short of money in their pockets and feel panic, so they plan everything carefully.

when people get old, they still have to save enough money, so they have enough confidence and a hard waist.

What's the difference between people who save money and those who don't? Let's listen to the big truth of three old people.

1； Chen Fengqiang /65 years old

I have been retired for seven or eight years, scrimping and saving, and I have never traveled once. My son came as soon as my salary arrived, and I didn't save any money at all.

In the eyes of outsiders, I have the ability to live up to expectations here. I bought a big house in the city, but he is comfortable. I am sad. This monthly payment has become my repayment.

You came to my place to get your salary on time, but it's comfortable to pay. After all, my son is doing business, and the small shop opened by his son can't be done this year. He has to eat and drink because he is closed for three days.

as soon as my pension is paid, I will leave 5 yuan and give them the rest. In special times, children are also difficult, no matter who cares.

the Chinese new year is coming soon. I calculated it carefully. After seven years of retirement, not only did I not save any money, but I also emptied my old money.

in case you have something wrong, but you can't get a penny, you have to tell others that you have no money and you don't believe it.

this can't be done. I have to save some money for myself this year anyway. Do you think my son can expect to support me in the future in this situation?

I dare not think about it, and the more I think about it, the more afraid I am. It doesn't mean that my son is unfilial, and filial piety is rich. It doesn't work if he is sick!

2； Chen Chunyan /62-year-old

Every family has a hard book to read, so we can't mention it. It's full of anger to mention it.

My wife left early, and has been living alone since retirement. She never enjoyed happiness when she was young, and served her for six years. Now I have a headache when I talk about serving people.

I finally gave up my two children, and I thought I could breathe a sigh of relief, but I never thought that the things that bothered me were one after another. When my son bought a house, I gave him most of the down payment, and my daughter was not satisfied when she knew it.

Now my daughter's family wants to buy a house, and she wants to come. She called me the day before yesterday and asked me to prepare it for her. You said this mother didn't open a bank.

I'll pay 1, yuan even when I open my mouth. I paid most of my son's down payment. If I give it, I'll be completely empty. What's left of the pension?

I haven't made up my mind yet, but my daughter started to talk. Children are equal, and the family property can be abandoned. But the money must be drawn. You have to rely on me to wait on you when you are old.

Don't you think this is a threat to me? How can children become so snobbish and realistic now?

forget it, just pay my daughter's nanny in advance. What can I do? I'm in my sixties, and my brother and sister have completely hollowed me out.

I'm getting older every year, and I'm sure my health is getting worse every year. From now on, there will be diseases and disasters. Who wants to wait on you if you have no money? If you have no money, everyone hates it.

I've thought about it. First, I should start saving some money for myself. Second, it seems that I have to be rehired and go back to work, and earn more while I can still move.

With regard to the filial piety of children, Aunt Chen said with a smile, filial piety has to be supported with money. Sometimes the elderly can't blame the children. The family expenses are large, the income is small, and everything is expensive. Children have to have that ability even if they want to be filial.

Parents should communicate more with their children. Don't always say that their children are unfilial. You should show filial piety with your mouth.

Children are the hope and hope of the elderly.

3； An Zhijun /64 years old

My wife and I are the same age, and both have retired at home. My wife has to be maintained for decades of diabetes, which is the treasure of my family. I dare not fall ill.

I have to pay special attention to this every year in early spring and winter. I dare not catch a cold. I have a problem eating this disease, and I have to trouble my daughter to wait on it.

Although we both have retirement funds, I have saved them except for the necessary expenses. My wife's body says that hospitalization is necessary, and we are both getting older, so we must provide for ourselves and provide for ourselves.

I haven't thought about expecting my children. It's all an extravagant hope. If I or my wife are sick, it's unrealistic to expect my children to leave work to wait on them.

It is irrational for some old people to say that their children are unfilial even if they wait a little longer.

The older this person is, the more he should consider the problem from the reality of his children. Isn't it less likely to get sick if he takes more care of himself at ordinary times? Don't wait until the problem comes, then it will be too late.

everything must be prepared in advance and prevented in advance.

We won't give anyone our pension. I'm having a family meeting and it's on the table.

In view of the widespread problem of children gnawing at the elderly, I called my children together in advance to have a family meeting, so as to avoid future troubles.

I mainly emphasize the following things:

1. About our old couple's pension

Our old couple's pension is mainly used for our living expenses and future pension, and our children can't think about it or ask for it, so they have no money to find their own way.

don't open your mouth. I can't give the pension money to your life or other expenses. I'll find a way to solve my own problems.

Ask your parents if you want it, and borrow it from others. If you want it, it won't be considered as something you should do. If you borrow it, you must pay it back. You have to remember the mutual affection of others and you will be motivated.

I give you money to harm you, and it is easy to develop inertia. It is even worse to be happy for ten times and not to bear grudges with you once, which is not good for anyone.

2. In the future, when we are too old to move, we old couple will take care of ourselves.

You don't have to worry too much, money won't be asked of you, and people don't need your service. Your duty is to work hard and earn more money.

you can't move in the future, just hire a stay-at-home nanny.

3. What will happen in a hundred years

After a hundred years, one person will definitely leave first. At that time, you can't care about the division of property, let alone brother and sister who have conflicts and opinions over money.

Your mother and I have both left, so you should share the property equally. Don't care too much. Then there will be only your brother and sister as relatives, and there will be no one else. You must live in harmony.

4. When Sunday is free, the whole family comes back for family reunion.

If we get together once, the family still needs to be maintained.

Uncle An arranged his retirement and family affairs in advance, and put all possible problems in his future life on the table. His son, daughter-in-law and daughters agreed, and the old couple lived a carefree life from now on, and the whole family got along quite harmoniously.

Conclusion

When people get old, they should first arrange their life in their later years, and then consider helping their children if they have the ability.

When people get old, health is the first priority. On this basis, let's talk about what children worry about.

when you get old, you must save enough money for your old age, because something will happen that day, and once you can't get it, it's no use regretting.

when you get old, you will be practical in your heart!