"Daughter, I heard that you want to take your in-laws to travel? Also bring me and your dad, and your brother. " What should I do?

In this world, there is one kind of interpersonal relationship that is the most difficult to deal with, and that is getting along with family members.

Especially when there are some contradictions and differences between relatives, there will always be a sense of confusion.

Just like my own experience, one side is my husband's family and the other is my family. I am in a dilemma and don't know how to balance the relationship between the two.

I met my husband on a blind date. Because we all live in the same city, we have many similarities in living habits and hobbies.

It is also for this reason that we quickly established a love relationship, and after getting along for one year, we walked into the marriage hall hand in hand.

In fact, I am not only satisfied with my husband's own conditions, but also take a fancy to his family conditions.

Because my husband's parents are businessmen, they have no financial burden, and their family life is very good, which is above average in our city.

In contrast, my family's family is much worse. My parents are ordinary working-class people. Because my income is not high and I have to support a younger brother who is ten years younger than me, my life is not very comfortable.

Nevertheless, my husband's family recognized this marriage, not only didn't ask for any dowry, but also gave me a lot of bride price. Even the new house for our wedding was bought by my parents-in-law.

In addition, my parents-in-law are also very open-minded, not only not discriminating against my family, but also treating my parents well.

Since we got married, the parents of the two families have moved frequently. On the surface, they get along well.

Just one year later, I gave birth to a baby. In order to take better care of the children, my mother-in-law actually put down her own things to help me.

Later, when the child was a little older, I went back to work. In the next two years, my mother-in-law took care of my children alone, and she also kept our lives in order.

Nevertheless, my mother-in-law never asked me for a penny, and even took out her savings to subsidize us. I am naturally filled with gratitude for what my mother-in-law has done, and I am secretly determined to find opportunities to repay her in the future.

Not long ago, the opportunity finally came. Just in time for my mother-in-law's birthday, thinking of not repaying her mother-in-law at ordinary times, my husband discussed it and decided to sign up for a tour group and take her parents-in-law out to travel together.

What I didn't expect, however, was that when my mother knew about it, she said to me, "Daughter, I heard that you are going to travel with your in-laws? In that case, take me, your father and your brother! "

After listening to my mother's speech, I feel a little uncomfortable, because my mother doesn't care much about me and the children at ordinary times, and adding three people is also a big expense. However, if I refuse directly, I'm afraid my parents will be angry about it. I don't know what to do.