How are you back from traveling? Are you feeling more confused in life?

A few days ago, I received a message from a reader. The conversation was as follows:

“I want to change my mediocre or even messy life through travel.”

< p> "Why do you have such an idea?"

"I have read many news reports and heard several people say that they all found the answer during travel. If you travel more, you will not Confused."

"If you hear other people's stories too much, you will think that it is your own life."

"I often see many people encountering rich and handsome people during their travels. Bai Fumei."

"You are talking about Ctrip's advertisement!"

Some people travel to eat, drink, have fun and be happy.

Some people travel, looking forward to seeing the local customs and customs, gaining insights and broadening their horizons.

Some people travel, imagining that traveling can bring about transformation in their lives.

It’s good to travel for food, drink and fun. Life requires relaxation and happiness.

It is also good to travel in order to increase your knowledge and enrich your knowledge. Life requires experience and learning.

Traveling to change your life, what? You said that if you go out for a walk during the holidays, you will have a profound enlightenment and reach the peak of your life. Why don't you just stay at home and buy a few lottery tickets.

There are many such people who think that the reason why they are unhappy and unsuccessful is that they have fewer places to go. After hearing other people's stories or reading similar reports, I regard travel as a springboard for success once and for all. I feel that as long as I travel more, I can reach the peak of my life.

"You know, so-and-so met a tall, rich and handsome man during his travels. The two of them are very sweet. I heard that they will soon get married." When you hear this, it turns out that traveling is such a good thing. You can eat, drink and have fun everywhere. I can also meet a rich young man while having fun. I can't stay at home anymore, I also want to travel. Don't think about it, she is a gentle, kind, educated and well-educated girl, but she is not liked by others.

"You know, after a trip to Tibet, so-and-so found his future direction. Now he is working in the environmental protection industry, making millions a year." When you hear this, no wonder I have always been so confused. It turned out to be because I had never been to such a sacred place. You can’t see the efforts and contributions that others have made in the early stages of this industry.

The original intention of your trip is just to envy other people's stories; the purpose of your trip is just to hope that you can encounter such good things.

You only see a very small number of people who have changed their lives because of travel, but you can’t see that people have made a lot of efforts to change their lives. A trip is just the last step. There are indeed stories in this world about people who found answers to their lives and ushered in changes during travel. Most of them are stories about a group of ignorant people who wanted to change their lives through travel and just used their wages to buy air tickets.

Some people have always been confused and can’t find the answer to life, so they place their hopes on a certain trip, hoping to meet a certain expert or a beautiful scenery, and do the same as others. A great understanding of life, trying to grow effortlessly.

Travel has become a haven for them to escape reality. They are confused, helpless and mediocre in their daily lives, dreaming that they can find answers by traveling. I think that as long as I go to many places, I can become a person who is free from vulgar taste and superior to others. More people just spent most of their wages traveling, stuck in traffic jams with everyone, and watched the crowds of people at crowded tourist attractions. In the end, the money was almost spent, and I was tanned. After returning from the trip, I was back to the starting point, and my life was still confused. They don't think about the various things on the journey, they just turn the journey into photos in their circle of friends, and they think nine photos are not enough. Such people, even if they can be touched for a moment, will be forgotten in an instant, because deep down, they are not ready to welcome new life.

After reading so many reports about carving words at tourist attractions, littering, and picking flowers and trees in scenic spots, you should know that travel cannot bring baptism and transformation to everyone. You may not be ashamed of the behavior of such people, but you should also understand that as long as you can afford a plane ticket, anyone can have fun and see the scenery, but can anyone gain great wisdom in life and transform and change their life? Some people may have been all over the world, but at best they are just nouveau riche who can afford air tickets. On a spiritual level, that's all.

You have returned from traveling, you are tanned, and you have spent almost all your money, but you are still confused, your life has not changed, and you still have to go to work under pressure every day. You are even more confused, have you not gone far enough and have to go to Thailand, North America, or Australia? Why has my life not changed even though I have been to so many places and seen so many customs and customs?

Many people think that they cannot keep up with others in their thinking and knowledge because they have not gone to enough places. Because he himself is just a shallow person, no amount of travel can give him profound wisdom.

People who are indolent and indolent usually do not work hard, study or work well, so they look forward to taking a vacation to travel and receive the baptism of life. They look forward to the transformation that travel will bring to them, and from now on, life will no longer be confused. The future is bright. If you go out and play around with your life, you will be enlightened and enlightened? There is nothing so cheap in this world.

You can travel to have fun, eat and drink, relax, or expand your knowledge, but don’t take changing your life as the purpose of travel, otherwise you will most likely be disappointed when you return from your trip.

The answer you are looking for is not in the distance, but in every moment of your life. The most important thing is to take every step well.

The life-changing opportunities during travel should be reserved for those who are wise, thoughtful, and hard-working. They have worked hard for a long time and paid a lot, and they have built up momentum and are ready to change their lives.

The world is so big, wait until you are ready to see it.