My father-in-law will take my stepmother to travel again. I am so angry that I can't sleep. Is it psychological gloom?

My own grandmother died young. My grandfather wanted to have a son after giving birth to three daughters, so my grandmother was pregnant with her uncle when she was in her forties. This is also the sorrow of women in the old society. My grandmother was an elderly woman, about 70 years ago. At that time, the medical level was poor, and he died not long after giving birth. My grandfather found a second wife, which was very bad for his three daughters and good for his younger son, because she had no son of her own. Anyway, it's all kinds of love for my youngest son. Moreover, when my grandmother died, my uncle was too young to remember his mother or her biological mother. My mother is the boss. She has bad luck and suffered a lot. At that time, she was hungry or ate some lettuce, which is no exaggeration.

Now my grandmother and grandfather have passed away, but my mother and uncle are going to break up because of their funeral, because my uncle only recognizes my stepmother but not my mother, and the memorial tablet at home is definitely for my grandmother and grandfather, but my mother thinks it's all or nothing and can't be partial. From my uncle's point of view, I think it is understandable, but it is not worth taking care of my grandmother. Women, no matter when it is your life, are the most important. So, what about protecting adults and children? Look at my grandmother. My desperate son refused to recognize her, and the result was such a tragedy. Therefore, I have always believed that a person must cherish and respect himself before he can get the love and respect of others. Parents treat their children in the same way. Too much doting and connivance can easily raise unfilial sons. Therefore, no matter how much you love this child, you should teach him to distinguish right from wrong, instead of indulging blindly and distorting his outlook on life and values. You have become a selfish person who doesn't know gratitude and what love is.