Dong Huahua is divorced, Zhang Dayi and Jiang Fan want to take the upper hand when eating, how can a woman live without regrets?

We will encounter various problems in today’s marriage life. Today’s marriage is no longer a loyal contractual relationship. Faced with this complicated marriage, women want to live without regrets. You must do the following. First of all, women must have independent economic conditions and gain autonomy in marriage; secondly, women should not just focus on family and men, but should have their own careers and hobbies; in addition, women should not take love as a priority. It is so important to have a Buddhist attitude when facing love.

Many girls stop working after getting married and having children, thinking that their husbands supporting them is a sign of love for them. This kind of thinking will cause women to lose touch with social relations, lose their competitiveness in society, and ultimately become parasites dependent on men. Therefore, I believe that women must have their own careers, and more importantly, their own social relationships. Only when they are financially independent can they live a wonderful life and not be restricted by marriage because of financial conditions.

Secondly, many women start washing, cooking and taking care of housework when they get home, thinking that being a good wife and mother can ensure a happy marriage. In fact, this is completely wrong. Housework is the responsibility of two people to the family and should be borne by two people. Paying too much for the family will not gain the respect of men, and will also become a free nanny for the family. Therefore, I think women should balance the relationship between the workplace and married life, learn to have their own independent space, and not become a free nanny for the family.

In addition, women should not take love and marriage too seriously, let marriage take precedence over their own lives, and seek life and death as soon as they encounter a lovelorn or divorce. What they own belongs to them. Women should maintain their competitiveness in the workplace at all times and constantly improve themselves, which can not only improve their current living conditions, but also play a positive role for their children. In addition, women should learn to look at life and marriage more rationally instead of blindly acting on emotion.