What do you do with your husband after work?

There are many special couples in the world, who build wooden houses together, live in a paradise, travel around the world together, and couples who have been away from home for many years or even decades.

And most of them are partners who get along with us from nine to five. What are you doing at home for 3-4 hours every night?

I asked a lot of friends, and most of them replied: one plays mobile phones, the other plays games, and of course those who don't play games are still playing mobile phones.

When you see an article you like, forward it directly to him instead of telling him in person. If you quarrel, you can also send a WeChat expression. After all, a picture is worth a thousand words.

We are so smart that hugs and kisses can be done on mobile phones.

With a baby, everyone is even saying that there is not enough time. I have seen an interview with 1000 people before, and I don't even have time to give birth.

However, there are still some interesting people who will try their best to "toss".

A friend often goes to her husband's company for lunch break and watches movies together, because they will tell stories and play puzzles together at night. The point is that she is in the imperial city, for two people, even if most of the time is wasted on the road.

Another friend always puts a bunch of flowers on her desk. She said that her husband ordered it, so that when she saw the flowers every day, she would think of him. This is called flirting.

There is also a girl who is always on a business trip and dresses very simply, but she dresses beautifully as soon as she comes home. She said that it is because she has less time together that she wants the other party to see her good.

There are others who can take the baby to the movies alone. Once I went to see Bourne ultimatum, there was a family of three next to me, and the little girl screamed with fear. Then her mother said, just close your eyes. After a while, the little girl said that she was afraid of hearing voices. Then her mother said, cover your ears. So it became sitting in the cinema with your eyes closed and your ears covered. After a while, I seemed to fall asleep with my mother in my arms.

I understand very well that it must be the husband and wife who want to see a movie, but no one is taking the children, so we have to make do with it, or we will take the children to watch cartoons. But there are also many people who think that taking the baby away from quiet places will affect others. This is really tangled. Is it necessary to give up your hobby for a baby?

It's like a family trip, the preferred destination is always the seaside, in order to let the baby dig sand. I am a selfish mother. I hope my husband and I can be as happy, not just to satisfy the children, but to fantasize that she is particularly happy because of her "sacrifice".

I made a list of "things I want to do with you". I hope I don't give in even if I have a baby. How many more can we finish this year?

1. Travel every two months.

Nowadays, some people overemphasize the benefits of traveling with children. Contrary to "children can't remember anything anyway", they went to the other extreme. They are proud that their children have gone to more than a dozen places at the age of 2. Speaking of parent-child travel, in Sanya, Thailand, Japan and Singapore, they may never feel the beauty of home.

On the contrary, a friend takes Zhou Bianyou with him every weekend, every week! My husband and I are both family members, and we have always admired her mobility. You don't have to go far to travel. Small parks in urban and suburban areas are enough for babies. After all, it's just a family.

Take a walk hand in hand

Some couples will run together, just like falling in love on campus, and even better, take a walk together after dinner every day.

Not walking in tandem, but shoulder to shoulder, holding hands.

3. What can we learn together?

4. Watch at least one movie every month.

It used to be easy. You should work hard after having two children.

5. Just chatting

Frequent communication and constant adjustment of fantasies about the future are the basis for two people to achieve the same goal.

6. Stay away from electronic products one day a month.

A friend of four began to stop using electronic products every night. Why did I say that? Four people to accompany the baby? She said yes, I played the game of radish squatting all night yesterday.

As patients with severe electronic dependence, we need to take our time. How many families can see cartoonist Yueyue Zhou tear down the TV and replace it with a big bookcase in order to read more books for the whole family?

7. Go to the bookstore together

I had a book rental card before, and I could read it for one year as long as it was 888. There is also a rest area where many pupils do their homework on weekends. As a result, it closed down in a few months.

I always remember when my father accompanied me to the bookstore when I was a child. Whenever I stay, I never mean to buy books for me. I wish I could be such a parent.

There is nothing special on my list, just those who are used to being ignored by us day after day. I saw a passage to the effect that "some people are like lights that are always on. You can't feel their existence. Only when the lights are off can you realize their importance."

Family is such a special existence.

Accustomed, dependent, but forgotten, thinking that life is like this, my husband said that his favorite days are in the big house, growing flowers, drinking tea, reading books and occasionally saying a few words. This kind of life can start now, can't it?

Describe the life you expect and find that it is not difficult to do it. We just need to add some rituals and goals to this blandness, and it is also necessary for two people to create some memories together every year.

Just like photos, recording experiences and making two family albums every year are the best gifts of the year. After all, people are forgetful animals. I want to create and record moving moments, happy moments and growing moments.

Some people like to say, well, marriage is just cohabitation. Some people are unwilling to be dull, and they always want to stand on tiptoe and grab something from the cracks in life.

You don't need to be vigorous, and the exquisite daily life can be very special.

Leave a lamp for those who work overtime, and get up and give him a hug no matter how sleepy they are.

Wearing a new skirt, you look at me carefully and say that you are so fat, which is good, which shows that you are paying attention to me.

Sit together, don't talk, and then find someone else to accompany you, okay? Of course not, because that's you. There is something special flowing in the air of love.

I want to remind myself from time to time, cherish every day, these are actually very special, we are seemingly ordinary but different couples.