What kind of marriage life makes men feel "comfortable" in middle age?

What kind of marriage life makes men feel "comfortable" in middle age? Wang, 49, construction worker: Although I haven't been married for several years, I seem to be tired of it. I really don't want to be controlled all the time. As far as I know about myself, I am not such a stupid person, and I will never shirk my responsibility to my family. What's more, my working atmosphere is in those remote construction sites, and I have to deal with a large group of old and young men one day. The only woman I saw was probably the aunt in the canteen. I really don't have a chance to do something that really hurts a family. But my wife doesn't think so. Every time I don't answer the phone, she will scold me for coming with a wild woman. Sometimes there are others beside me when I call, which really makes me lose face.

The more she is like this, the more I don't want to answer her cell phone, and the more sensitive and suspicious she is. This is a vicious circle, and the relationship between husband and wife is getting stiff. When she comes home during the Spring Festival, she will definitely check my mobile phone, turn over the mobile phone WeChat and find every abnormal object. What makes me most unhappy is that she quietly deleted my friend without calling, which makes me embarrassed. Once, the contractor of another construction site joined me and asked me how to delete him. He decided to talk to me about the construction site next year, only to find that he was not a good friend.

It was really embarrassing. I can only say that it is possible that the child accidentally deleted it while playing with his mobile phone and kept apologizing to him. I think my wife deleted it, because his picture is a woman, that's his girlfriend, and I thought I was having an affair with her. Just this one thing made me lose my affection for him even more. Do you think this kind of thing will make me uncomfortable?

Fu Yuanshu, 4 1 year-old, artist: I think I am very satisfied with my feelings now, much better than the object I am dating now. I can see each other every day and enjoy what happened in the day with each other. My daughter-in-law and I met at an event. We fell in love for five or six years and got married only a few years ago. My wife is a lovely woman. Her wechat facial expressions are all in the style of cute girls, and her tone of voice is very short. Sometimes I get the illusion that I "abducted" a person under the age of 18. After marriage, the only change is that we spend more and more time together, and there is no difference in other aspects. I think * * * is quite harmonious.

She is very gentle and doesn't get angry with me easily. There are basically no differences between us. Recently, the COVID-19 epidemic in residential areas, everyone is isolated at home, more together. A few days ago, a funny thing happened. My wife went to cook instant noodles after the meeting on the Internet. She wanted to add some lotus white, and decided that there was a bug, which scared her badly.

She ran to my arms and shouted that there were bugs there and asked me to clean them up. I used to see that it was just a small cabbage caterpillar, but it could scare her into my arms, which is also its contribution. I let her lie flat on the fabric sofa and I cooked instant noodles, which surprised her. Everyone's daily life is almost this style, which is very relaxed. Getting married actually makes us more integrated into each other's lives.