How to treat "partner" socialization?

The recent outbreak of college students' "special forces" tourism gave birth to the new word "travel companion". From "eating" to "taking the postgraduate entrance examination" to "traveling", the prevalence of "socializing with children" is a true embodiment of the life state of contemporary college students who can take everything.

"Partner" refers to a relationship in which people regularly carry out activities together. Different from ordinary relations, its core lies in the temporality and superficiality of relations.

Different from the dignity and fetters brought by long-term relationships (husband-wife relationship, parent-child relationship and cohabitation relationship), "partner" not only fills the gap in time, but also does not need to be responsible for the other party, so many people find it very easy to get along with "partner". The "partner" relationship is a revision of the fixed relationship and a supplement to the fixed relationship.

This new social model weakens the intimacy of social relations, and many things that were previously done with friends can now be done with partners. In fact, "partners" are friends in the vertical segmentation field, rice partners are friends in the eating field, wine partners are friends in the drinking field, travel partners are friends in the tourism field, book partners are friends in the reading field, and black partners are friends in the game field. ...

The reasons for this social relationship are: firstly, modern people have limited time, and their former friends are busy with their study and life, so it is difficult to maintain social contacts; Secondly, it is very expensive to establish extensive and in-depth friendship. Many people don't have time to get to know a person carefully, and with the decrease of social time, they just have a casual acquaintance with the people around them. Then there is the problem of "segmentation" of life roles. It is becoming more and more common that a person will have many roles in his life. Everyone will "divide" themselves into many parts, and each part corresponds to different functions. "Partners" socialize and establish different small circles with interest as the medium, so that every part of themselves can be fully stretched and free.

Human nature is a gregarious animal. People need to socialize, but sometimes they can't find the right person. A person will be very lonely. In order not to cater to others and wronged themselves, it is very important to bring a companion. Recently, the barbecue in Zibo has exploded, and many people are eager to try it. Bloggers with Tik Tok even called the director of Zibo Tourism Bureau from a distance and asked to send two single guys with a height of 180 to teach her the correct way to eat barbecue, so as to find themselves a "barbecue partner" in disguise.

The left-handed social model established with strangers is based on the same needs and has a certain sense of boundary. Its essence is mutual warmth and companionship, which is neither laborious nor flattering. You can express your demands directly in front of Sasako. Young people like "partner" socializing more and more, because it is a simplification and purification of interpersonal relationship, which dilutes time and emotional costs while meeting social needs.

The existence of "companion" relationship not only fills the young people's need for companionship at some moments, but also goes hand in hand with intimate relationship, which may be transformed into intimate relationship. So, don't be afraid of one person. As long as you take a step, you will meet all kinds of like-minded "partners"