Why do couples travel together to test their feelings?

Zhao has a classic dialogue in Fortress Besieged: "A trip like ours is the best way to test a person's character. Travel is the most tiring, troublesome and exposed time. Only those who have gone through a long and arduous journey without hating each other can become friends. "

Traveling is easy to get tired, and people are easy to show their true colors when they are tired. Needless to say, couples are often different when I travel with my buddies. In the end, what kind of scenic spots to choose, what kind of transportation to choose, what kind of hotel to stay in and what kind of food to eat, all the choices related to two people, not to mention lovers, will be contradictory. If the other person looks fine at ordinary times, but looks tired during the trip, loses his temper with the service staff and starts complaining about this and that, then this person will also show such a face in the long-term family chores in the future. But if this person can still think of his partner's feelings when he is tired, take care of his partner silently, and even make you laugh without complaining, then you should cherish this person.

A friend's female colleague, in her thirties, is very decent and beautiful, but divorced, single and always alone. Once I traveled by bus with my husband (now my ex-husband). On the way, the car caught fire and passengers fled everywhere. She wants to jump out of the window, but she can't lie down. She was stuck in the window and in a hurry. She listened to her husband calling her name under the car. It turned out that he had left her and ran out of the car. I got divorced when I came back, because she thought this person was too unreliable.

Travel tests our consumption concept, is it consistent? One likes to live in a youth hostel to save money and make friends, and the other likes to live in a luxury suite, so it must be quiet and comfortable. One likes to buy at buy buy, but you don't like to save time, and you complain that you don't need to buy too many things.

Travel tests whether our living habits are consistent. When a person gets up at five or six in the morning and is ready to travel. You can't even wake each other up. Not only that, you slept until ten o'clock. One likes to sleep in pajamas, and the other sleeps without taking off his clothes. One likes noodles, the other likes rice, so we can't eat together.

There are so many contradictions in the trip, if they are still together after the trip, it is true love.