Why is tourism the best way to test the disharmony of the three views?

When traveling is strange to both of you, your's emotions will be displayed to the greatest extent, and your mental state and solutions when you encounter difficulties will be presented most truly. It is possible that you two will be more resourceful and tolerant when you get along in a stable environment, but in some extreme cases, that is, in various emergencies of tourism, your's views and true attitude may be presented. It's hard to say whether you can continue to be such good friends after you come back from your trip at this time.

If you travel together, especially independently, you should not only plan tourist attractions and tourist routes together, but also consider how to share all kinds of consumption on the road. These problems may be the factors that cause contradictions, so if you have different views with him, there will be many inconsistent conclusions on the journey. If we can't reach a unified view, we can't act together.

There is no absolute right or wrong in these things, but if the gap you choose today is too big, it means that your three views are very different and may not be suitable for each other. On the other hand, if you can always reach an agreement, that is, after you get married, you can reach an agreement on all kinds of things, then in an ordinary relationship, if you let them travel several times, it is easy to break up. Because two people are in a hedonic mode together, they rarely solve practical problems, and they all show their best side to face each other and cover up their shortcomings.

What we like is not the real entity, but the false image that is deliberately covered up. Therefore, when we travel again and again, we find each other's shortcomings, but we are unwilling to admit the ruin under these beautiful masks, so it is natural to attribute the reason for breaking up to this person's unsuitability, or this person's bad character and unwillingness to admit that it is actually our three views. In other words, two people break up because they only have the ability to love, but not to love someone. But in fact, if two really suitable people travel together, they will build a closer and deeper intimate relationship because of this experience.