Traveling with my parents, I haven't been shopping for a long time and feel very tired. Why?

First of all, they have different values. Their living habits and ways of thinking are different from those of modern people. In the process of traveling, they must be willing to spend money if they want to eat well. At this time, the elderly are often more polite, and they disagree with the younger generation about where to eat and what to eat. The idea of the younger generation is that it is understandable to travel, even if there is too much money, mainly because we want them to eat well.

On the issue of eating and spending money, the older generation and young people are likely to have conflicts because of different values. At this time, the older generation didn't think from the perspective of young people at all, because young people thought that it was a sign of filial piety to let their parents eat and have fun as much as possible through this trip. Young people are naturally tired because they are not understood by the elderly.

Living habits are different. After arriving at the destination and staying in the hotel, it is natural to communicate with your parents about your next trip. Everyone's travel mood is to visit as many scenic spots as possible. At this time, because of physical reasons, the elderly are often very polite and worried about causing trouble to the younger generation. Because of this courtesy, young people need to explain and work with the elderly repeatedly on many things, so young people's hearts will naturally.

Traveling with the elderly, worrying about their health, their safety, whether they are hungry or not, and worrying about all kinds of things, are often asked by the younger generation at this time, which is not easy for them to accept in their hearts, because many elderly people, although old, have no idea at all. They are not worried about their own safety. They think they have a lot of life experience, rich experience, and the younger generation talks too much.

At the tourist attractions, the old people are sightseeing. The younger generation really wants to take them to several scenic spots worth seeing, but at this time the old man has his own ideas. What they want is to take more photos, find a place to rest and see crowded scenic spots. Everyone's psychological expectations are different, and naturally there will be contradictions. In the end, I will work repeatedly, and if I talk too much, the old people will be upset.

Washing hands frequently and wearing masks are the most basic requirements during the epidemic. In some public places, the elderly may not pay so much attention to epidemic prevention, such as wearing masks under their noses and holding snacks directly with unsterilized hands. When the younger generation sees this, they will naturally be worried and will inevitably remind them a few more words. If we talk too much, the old people will think that we are too serious and take care of them. In fact, we are worried about their safety, but the old people don't realize it.

Old people also need to socialize, but we young people may be too cautious. When our parents casually chat with strangers in scenic spots, buses and hotel halls, we junior generations will kindly remind them, or because we talk too much, the elderly may think that we have not given them enough freedom and will inevitably be unhappy.

When traveling with your parents, out of respect, you must communicate with them in advance, negotiate with them in advance, and explain the specific itinerary of each day clearly. A little negligence will make them feel disrespected and tired.

When spending money, the elderly will also take out their own cash to pay. As children, we also worry about the safety of our personal belongings, such as cash, mobile phones and ID cards. And often remind us that this is inevitable. If we talk too much, the elderly will also have conflicts with us, and it is normal to be tired.

Finally, I want to say a few words. Why is traveling with the older generation generally tiring? Because they are their parents, because they want to be nice to them and let them feel our love for them, people who care about them are in chaos;

Unpleasant situations will inevitably occur. In the eyes of parents, we will always be children who are not sensible. No matter how old we are, they will never think that we can really be independent, because they have inertial thinking. In the past, they arranged for us. Now that we have grown up, when we take care of them, they naturally have a process of adaptation, especially when we travel. This is something that doesn't happen very often, and it will inevitably lead to contradictions.