Would you like to stay in a small city all your life?

I just saw a video yesterday, saying that there is nothing wrong with choosing to work hard in a big city or staying in a small county. It depends on your own situation.

Choosing a small county town does not mean choosing comfort and lying flat. In a small county, faced with lower wages, slower pace of life, less pressure, poor infrastructure, better ecological environment ... Choose a big city, you are exposed to fast and convenient information transportation and advanced medical education level. At the same time, the work pressure is high, and the air quality may be poor. Most of the time, you only have work and no life. ...

If I haven't been to Shenzhen, I think I should take an examination of a civil servant or career editor in a small county after graduation, and then get a salary of 3000/4000 according to my parents' arrangement, and then stay in a small county. ...

I am an ordinary college student from the countryside. I have no extraordinary ability, nor have I become a poor son. I was admitted to a good university. My parents are farmers and they didn't give me good guidance. It feels good to stay in the province. After finishing college in the province, I can find a job in my hometown, even if the salary is 2500, as long as I can rely on my own independence, but if I can never, I will definitely choose to go to a first-tier city and choose one. Because I majored in journalism, it's not very good in an area with underdeveloped information, but I have chosen, so accept it.

Personally, I still yearn for big cities. I envy the white-collar workers who go in and out of the office building every day, and the migrant workers who rush about for work every day, probably because they come from the countryside. Staying up late, working overtime, and taking a single vacation are not big problems for me. I have never been afraid of suffering, but I am afraid of meaningless suffering. Just like I went to Shenzhen as a cold worker last year and entered a factory, where the work was very hard and the production line was flowing, but I persisted because I thought.

Seeing the experience shared by a university teacher, I chose to stay in Beijing after graduation. A good friend of his chose to go back to a small town as a civil servant, because his parents are both civil servants, and he just wants to have a stable job. He was ill at that time, and his friends came to Beijing from a small county to visit him. Originally, the plane arrived at five o'clock, and he and his wife prepared meals for him at home. However, they didn't get through until after ten o'clock in the evening, and they didn't get through on the phone. When I arrived, I said that the plane station was too big to find the exit, and I groped for a long time before I got a taxi. That night, he chatted with friends until two o'clock in the evening.

In fact, he understands his friends very well. After graduation, I returned to the small county town, hardly went out, and it was normal to keep up with the development speed of big cities. Everyone should choose according to their own situation, parents' situation and personal pursuit. There is no right or wrong choice. You can choose to work hard in a big city for a few years and then return to a small county, but after a few years, if you adapt to the environment in a small county, you may not be able to keep up with the speed in a big city. You can also choose to work in a small county for several years. You may not be reconciled to the salary of a small county and then move to a big city, or you like a small county. No matter how to choose, first analyze your own situation and then make a choice as soon as possible. The longer the time, the longer the entanglement, and the higher the time cost.

Finally, talk about the situation around me. A boy in our country chose a good university major, studied in other provinces, and chose to stay in Shenzhen after graduation. Although he can't afford a house, his salary is very high. ...

I also want to go to Shenzhen after graduation now. Although I am very ordinary and average in ability, I believe that as long as you are willing to work hard and are not afraid of hardship, Shenzhen can earn higher wages than a small county. By the way, in fact, in a small county, if you don't start a business, you won't work in the system, but in the catering industry. The work is very hard, and the main salary is still very low.

There are many opportunities to go to big cities. Although it is difficult for ordinary people like me to get a foothold in big cities, I never thought about buying a house in those areas. For me, Shenzhen is a place to make money. If I choose to make money, I can't have a very comfortable life. Of course, most of the work within the Shenzhen system can't be tested, because I am a liberal arts major, and Shenzhen needs science and engineering or law majors. For my major, I can only take three unlimited positions in this province.

In big cities, loneliness is the norm. Last year, I couldn't come back for the New Year because of the epidemic. At that time, I went out to eat on New Year's Eve. I shouted at the empty road that I could spend the New Year at home next year. At this time, a passing girl said that she felt that she could go home for the New Year this year. In big cities, no one cares whether you are married or not, and everyone is busy with their own affairs. In a small county, it is easy to be urged at a certain age, and relatives and friends like to urge ... except Cui.

In the final analysis, let's look at our own pursuit.