Why didn't Ma Bao have any friends after taking care of the children?

I gave birth to a second child for four months, and after giving birth to the second child, I completely lost my circle. Even if I take the baby with me every day, it is not convenient for my friends to ask me to go out to play. You said you might as well stay at home and have a lot of comfortable things. I am a child now, and I was particularly uncomfortable at first. I'm used to it now, and I enjoy it. I'll be fine after these two years.

I have no time or mood.

Thank the author for this question, which immediately caused my sadness. Yes, before I got married, I felt very happy and full every day. I can go out to eat, go shopping and often travel with my friends and classmates. However, this kind of life became my extravagant hope after I got married. When my baby was young, he spent most of his time at home except going out to buy food. After she goes to school, she has to send her to and from school on time every day, prepare meals for her, clean up the house and help her with her homework. She suddenly turned herself into a housewife and slowly lost contact with her classmates and friends. Every baby follows her ass and goes out to play occasionally. I can't go back to my old circle of friends. This is the sorrow of a woman in her thirties and forties. How many people are like me?

Married for a long time, with four children, taking care of four children. I don't have any friends, and even my relatives don't move much. Every day, I revolve around the children. When children go to school, they will have a lot of trivial things to do. I feel physically and mentally exhausted every day. How can you have time to make friends?

The most important thing is that I don't have time, and I'm unlikely to take my children to various parties. After a long time, I have basically lost contact.

This is not absolute. It's not that you don't have any friends after you become a treasure mom, but you may not be very sociable and have many friends before you become a treasure mom.

I am a nanny myself now, but if you say I have no friends, it doesn't exist. Not only I have a group of new friends, but also my son has a group of new friends.

When the baby was more than two months old, she asked her mother-in-law to go back to her hometown and start taking care of the baby alone. At this time, I began to take the baby out for a walk. When I meet a babysitter like me, I will take the initiative to say hello. My baby is about my age and has the same topic. Plus living in the same community, I slowly got to know seven or eight.

We are all full-time nannies of similar age, the oldest is only 30 years old, and there is only a gap of three or four months between children. My child is the youngest. I think I should be the happiest, too. I can learn from their experience. Children like to play with older children, and my children are very happy with them every time.

A group of our precious mothers often get together to walk the baby, go shopping and organize trips together. On weekdays, we go shopping together and study what to make delicious food for our baby. This kind of life is really full and interesting. Usually, anyone who needs help will arrive at once. The baby needs help to look after. Let's take the baby to the hospital for a physical examination. This is our way of helping each other.

Speaking of which, you may want to say that you are a new friend. What I'm talking about is that your old friends are no longer in touch.

Let's talk about myself. I am cheerful and always like to socialize. Since studying, I have made many friends, all of whom have been good friends for more than ten years. It can't be said that after I became a nanny, we began to reduce contact, but after leaving the society, we didn't get together often and we all had our own lives. But when they are free, they will chat together and organize fun together. Including becoming a baby mother now. I am not the first to get married, nor am I the last to get married. Friends are getting married and having children. Usually when we are together, the topic will start to change, but the feelings will remain the same.

In addition, my husband and I have been living in other places, and many friends are near our hometown. Every time I go home on holiday, my in-laws take care of my baby. Then we will invite friends to play together! Of course, you can also play with the baby and help look after it together. It doesn't matter.

Therefore, whether you have friends or not depends entirely on yourself! Don't lose yourself when you have a baby!