Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Travel guide - What are the old-age living conditions that move you or yearn for?

What are the old-age living conditions that move you or yearn for?

Let me see: of course, a few girlfriends are holding a group to support the elderly.

I have seen a movie called "Sunshine Sisters Amoy" before, and there is a sentence that impressed me deeply: "There are some people who walk barefoot in your life, smiling, neither long nor short. But it is enough for you to experience happiness, experience pain and recall life. "

They are not your lovers, but they know you better than lovers; They are not family, but sometimes they can give you more warmth than family. They are friends.

I don't know if you have ever thought about where you want to go when you are old. I have never thought about this problem carefully before, and I always feel that, like most people, one house, two people, four seasons. If I'm lucky, maybe I'll get a cat and a dog, and the children will go home occasionally and have dinner together. Some people say, I hope you can have someone to eat, drink and have fun with when you are old. What is the most desirable old-age life? Just someone to accompany you, playing cards and chatting. Let's dance or have a tea party in the evening. If the weather is fine, let's go out and take some nice photos together.

It was not until I saw an issue of "Nursing Home for Five Single Sisters" broadcast by Dreamweaver some time ago that I found that this is simply my dream retirement life! !

The story begins with five sisters. These five sisters are all Sichuanese, with an average age of about 55. They all have one thing in common-being single.

The picture comes from watching the news.

The first two members of the girlfriends group, Cai Jie and Hu Jie, met on 1996. A year later, they met Ji Jie, and the friendship of the "Iron Triangle" began. Although the three are not family members, they are as close as family. If you have nothing to do, let's get together and travel together. Life is very comfortable. So 20 17, the three of them are together, since they are all single, it is better to live together. But when making a decision, they found a problem-three people are too few! Because the three aunts are all Sichuanese, they all like to play mahjong, and three people living together can't make a table of mahjong. How boring. So they decided to "bring people in" halfway. In this way, Sister Li and Sister Song joined the "girlfriends group". Coincidentally, the two sisters are also single, so everyone's ideas and life concepts are very similar. It didn't take long for five people to become good friends, and they all said "like-minded". This sentence still makes sense now.

"Since we want to provide for the aged, we should find a place with beautiful scenery and fresh air. Stay away from cities, tall buildings, smog and exhaust. So in order to find the best place, five people drove out to step on it. As early as 20 17, they almost traveled all over Sichuan.

When passing by a place called Songpan County, several aunts were moved. It is far away from the noise, beautiful scenery, grasslands, snow-capped mountains, lakes ... you can think of all the scenery here. Living here, you can see the vast grassland and blue sky when you open the window in the morning, and it is not bad to walk around by horse. The residents here are simple, kind and enthusiastic, and they will have a sense of belonging here. But there are still many problems when the United States returns to the United States and really wants to live. Because it is too far away from the hubbub, many infrastructures here are not perfect enough. Not only is there no supermarket canteen, but even the health clinic is far away. Life, in addition to poetry and painting, also needs daily necessities, so they set out armed to the teeth and planned to go further.

From Sichuan to Yunnan, finally, they came to Lijiang.

Lijiang is a place that everyone is familiar with. Here, "every family has water and every family has flowers", which is a paradise that many people yearn for. Every family has water, flowers, antique buildings and modern living conditions. Everyone wants to live such a comfortable life, so in the end, after careful consideration, everyone decided to set the retirement place in Lijiang.

After choosing the address, they began to look for their favorite house. There are many quadrangles in Lijiang, and they chose this house by all means. The difference is not bad: it is located on the half slope, with a large space of 520㎡, a wide field of vision and a panoramic view of the ancient city. If you say yes, it's pretty bad: old, broken and rotten.

However, the aunts still hold a beautiful vision, bite their teeth and buy it, and ask someone to rebuild the base address. But this rough house, no matter how you look at it, feels like a farmhouse or a factory building, which is always far from your home, so several people decided to completely transform the yard after discussion. Although five people have the same personality, everyone has their own ideas about where to live, so they find a plan to seek the help of designers.

"I don't want to walk, so the elevator is necessary."

"It would be better to have a private kitchen."

"It is best to have a style in every room, and everyone can take turns."

"I'm allergic to ultraviolet rays. Although there should be sunshine in the room, it should not be too strong. "

"I want a bigger cloakroom and a gym."

Faced with these demands, the designer broke the original pattern of the house and began to transform it.

Generally speaking, the overall structure and detailed design of this house need a lot of effort. It's time to witness the miracle-

The first entrance is a big yard. Is the dream yard, the yard is full of flowers and plants, there is a veranda, full of dreams, the afternoon sun is particularly warm, here to bask in the sun, chat, tea is excellent, if it rains, it doesn't matter if you can't go out. In the corner of the room, there is such a teahouse. "Sitting under the eaves in my spare time, listening to the rain and hitting the window."

The overall color of the room is mainly warm, giving people a warm feeling of home. The large French window in the living room allows people to enjoy the scenery outside the window at any time.

Simple and bright restaurant, where you will feel very happy to have breakfast.

There is also an open kitchen, enough for my sisters to cook here. The integrated cabinets in the kitchen also hide huge storage space.

There is a partition with a fireplace between the dining room and the living room: in winter, we live a fairy-like life around the fireplace, warming ourselves and humming songs.

Next is the sisters' bedroom. The bedroom on the first floor is connected to the yard, so the scenery is very good.

Every window in the room on the second floor is a scene, and the trees, sunshine and good scenery outside the window are brought into the room.

There are two rooms connected by a balcony. Standing on the balcony, you can see green leaves and breeze when you reach out. The so-called "quiet years" is like this.

There is also a small retreat garden on the second floor, which is small but full of happiness. Taking care of flowers and plants or staring blankly is excellent. Isn't it very happy to find a favorite city and keep a small courtyard with friends?

In fact, "supporting the elderly with your girlfriend" is nothing new. There are many such stories both at home and abroad. Five sisters, all over 500 years old, have no fear of their parents' illness or short-term difficulties, and some just laugh.

In fact, their lives are not smooth sailing: their families don't understand and don't get married; The cold reception suffered during divorce; It's hard to raise a child alone ... but at this moment, they decided to put everything aside and live for themselves.

Compared with them, we are more tired in the city now. Actually, I envy them. They have a rich spiritual world and can do what they want smartly. Although we can't choose the way to be born, we can choose the way to get old. Work hard, be confident and calm, be nourished by life, be surrounded by love, do what you like and live the life you want. This is happiness.