Why do many couples break up after traveling to Gulangyu Island in Xiamen?

Love is a way for people to get to know each other. Don't add any unnecessary conditions to this way. Many conditions make both sides very tired. Breaking up is an option. Why do many people choose to break up after returning from Gulangyu Island?

First of all, I probably just want to leave a good memory before we break up, so I chose Gulangyu Island in Xiamen. Gulangyu has many beautiful scenery and many products to recommend. Among them, I went to a seafood restaurant in Gulangyu, and we were ready to punch in. As a result, the girl selling things told me that Gulangyu would not come again. I asked why, and she said Gulangyu would not come again. He said it's a small custom, so it may be a curse, that is, two people will break up if they don't look back.

The second reason may be different ideas. Even in the process of traveling, there will be some small frictions. In fact, they broke up not because of Gulangyu, but because their ideological collision never stopped. Even in places like tourist attractions, Gulangyu has many beautiful scenery, good life and good accommodation. So why they broke up may be because of different ideas, not because of Gulangyu.

The third reason is that their behavior is different, because some people think that it is better to travel to Gulangyu than to Xiamen Island. Of course, some people compromise in their quarrels. After the compromise, the pressure is still there and the spirit is still there. That's why they decided to break up after they came back from Gulangyu. Of course, this is also because they behave differently. If two people don't want to mediate, they will eventually break up.

Of course, breaking up is the choice of two people, and we should respect it. However, after all, we have spent so much time together, why should we hurt our feelings because of a little thing? Even if our feelings are gone, would it be better to keep a common memory?