How can young people effectively counterattack?

Reversal does not mean being irresponsible, nor does it mean lying down. Instead, clearly understand yourself, what you need to do and what you don’t need to do. In fact, my point of view is more inclined to think that self-reflection is to have a clear understanding of oneself and set a good position for oneself.

When it comes to rolls, we have to mention the Koreans. Koreans are very popular recently. Everyone says that among the three countries in East Asia, the Chinese don’t talk about sex, the Japanese don’t eat, and the Koreans don’t sleep. Some bloggers said that the Koreans in their group only sleep 4 hours a day, love PPT, and use PPT to introduce themselves. When doing homework, they will urge you to complete your part at 1 o'clock, 2 o'clock, and 3 o'clock in the morning. At the end, the commander will say lightly, "Brothers and sisters, thank you for your hard work!" I would like to advise everyone to join a study group and never join a Korean group.

However, what if you force your friends in the same group to make a beautiful PPT? In Korea, you can't enter a big company and can only continue to take exams indefinitely. Giant companies like Samsung account for about 20% of domestic GDP, but only provide 0.2% of jobs. This got me thinking: what is the difference between volume and effort.

Effort means being able to feel that you are approaching the goal quickly or slowly (there is a head start), while volume means putting in a lot of effort but still being far away from the goal (efforts often feel futile).

To solve the problem of effective re-rolling, we need to understand why young people roll and what reasons they have for re-rolling.

For young people, some people are pushed by parents and schools because of their childhood experiences. If they don’t work hard, they will fall behind, and if they fall behind, they will be beaten; some people have a stronger competitive spirit.

Then why do you want to roll back? Because it is too tiring and often makes people feel meaningless. This meaninglessness refers to meaninglessness at various levels: life is meaningless, life is meaningless...

Change your mentality: For example, as qualified workers, the boss buys our time to work, During this time, I work for my boss and should complete my responsibilities. When the time comes, I should get off work. Hopes for promotion (or salary increase) should be placed on one's own good physical condition and excellent professionalism, rather than on the number of overtime hours. Having a good physical condition requires rest time to adjust the soul, and professionalism is enough to grow during 8 or 9 hours of work every day. Your overtime hard work is not worth the nepotism of others, nor is it worth the more capable people. If you can't get promoted, you should leave work and stay the same. You can also secretly work hard elsewhere and try to change jobs and get a salary increase. The general environment is not good, so there is no shame in being a person who is standing still, or even regressing a little. We are not supermen, and we can just live our ordinary lives.

If I set my position as a boss, it will be different. Rewinding is not suitable for bosses. The boss is a fighting character in business, and business is an environment where the jungle is the strongest. This is a life-or-death environment. If you rebel here, you will lose everything.

Of course, this is just a simple metaphor. There are many identities. In a competitive environment, it is inappropriate to backtrack. The tool role will feel much more relaxed. In most cases, there is no need to have too much ownership. Mentality, just follow the rules.

Another effective effect of anti-rolling is that I have experienced it myself. I pay more attention to my own feelings and respect my inner thoughts. On the contrary, I am more actionable in many things.

Originally I wanted to work hard and make some achievements, but I was tortured by my boss for two months and did a lot of things that wasted time and worked overtime (I changed the PPT to version 36 and finally used the first version) ). Since I gave up working with a sense of ownership, I refused meaningless jobs, gave up on promotions and salary increases, and turned to learning free diving and traveling. I participated in the exquisite camping and Frisbee that were popular this year, and also traveled several times during the epidemic. I felt mentally enriched, my complexion was much better, and I was in a high-spirited state of mind. My friend introduced me to a new job opportunity, and I got a job with a lot of salary increase. In this general environment, I unexpectedly went against the current.

The offer received

Changing jobs is an unexpected surprise. Apart from this, several other activities are enough to make people feel happy in life.

Of course there are still a lot of helplessness in life. Gradually reducing one or two things that consume you will indeed lead to a lot of happiness.

Practice freediving on weekends

I will also go to barbecue outdoors with friends on weekends

Our entire society is very anxious, and I have been anxious since I was a child. There was a time when I I often see people on forums sharing how they went abroad on their own, how much money they saved, and how much they earned from their side jobs. It makes me very anxious. Am I the only one who is such a waste? I forced myself not to read the forum for a week, which relieved me physically and mentally, because the people around me were still ordinary, with similar incomes and similar lives. So how can young people effectively counterattack? Some apps also have a button called "Not Interested." My way to combat involution anxiety is to get off work on time, do what I like, and shout out that I am an ordinary person! Look more at the people and friends around you, live in reality, and recognize yourself, which is the best way to fight against involution.