QQ space classic talk collection: Learning to let go is not necessarily a bad thing, be kind to yourself

In life, many things do not belong to us. What belongs to us is just an experience, a growth, and an experience. Having too many desires will only add to the burden of life. A wise person knows how to choose, can give up at the right time, and can choose the direction of his life boldly. Only those who know how to let go of the past, let go of desires, and let go of greed can live a more fulfilling, relaxed and wonderful life.

There is a distance between the starting point and the end of life, and that is life; in the rush of the journey, don't be afraid of your own confusion, everything depends on people, and everything depends on God. Don't regret what you have done. It is often seen that many people feel sorry for themselves, regret the wrong things they have done, feel depressed about the past, and feel depressed because of the past. There is no regret medicine in the world.

Sometimes, people are like this. The person who treats them best is obviously around them, but they don’t cherish it and pursue something that doesn’t belong to them. When they lose it, they feel empty in their hearts. , the layer of warmth that wrapped my heart disappeared, and I realized that I regretted it. Regardless of the past or the future, the people in front of you are the most important. You must grasp the people in front of you well and don't regret losing them.

When you give too much, you will be unable to extricate yourself. What you can't let go of is no longer the person you like, but the self who gives silently. When you marvel at your own efforts, the person you fall in love with is actually just yourself now. In the end, in this one-man show, the only person who is moved is you. Learning to let go is not necessarily a bad thing, be kind to yourself.

Human energy is limited. When you spend your energy on certain aspects, it means that you give up on other aspects. Instead of spending a lot of energy on transforming weaknesses into strengths, it is better to focus on developing strengths, which will have a higher input-output ratio. This is to maximize strengths and avoid weaknesses.

There are always many reasons for doing nothing. But there is only one reason to do something, and that is because you want to do it. Coercion is just another way of saying doing something you want to do, or not doing something you are afraid of doing.

The people who make you trouble are here to help you; the people who make you miserable are here to save you; the people who make you resentful are the nobles of your life; the people who make you hate are there to help you grow. They are all different aspects of yourself, another self. On the contrary, the people you love deeply are often the ones who cause you pain and trouble. They are your shadows that you cannot catch even when you are old. Maintaining a good attitude to face it is the truth.

Life is a journey, which can also be understood as a statement of life. Walking on this road, there is liveliness and objectivity, but there is also unavoidable pain, and you can live a clear life. , No matter what troubles you fight, you can't annihilate your innocence about the world. Those paths that remain in your life, you need to be grateful that you didn't escape when you were vulnerable.

People are like this, the same eyes, different views, the same ears, different ways of hearing, the same mouth, different words, the same heart, different thoughts, the same Money, different ways of spending it, the same book, different ways of reading, the same people, different ways of living, look at it, think about it, see through it, see through it, and live a different wonderful life every day! This is life!

What you see with your eyes is someone else’s story; what you feel with your heart is your own life. Life is full of scenery along the way. Every step and every thought can be calm. Looking back on the years you have passed, if you listen carefully, deep in your heart, the fragrance of flowers is strong.

Although life is the most elusive, as if God’s will is the most unpredictable, in fact we think of life as a kind of complexity. Life is originally a dull continuation. What do you encounter, what accompany you, or what you think of? What, use a kind of tranquility to understand life and face life, why should you frown in vain and live to the point of forgetting words in life.

Life is like a road, so be patient. Living every day well is the greatest happiness. Happiness comes from feeling good every day. You are always worried about the risks of tomorrow, and you can never erase the shadow of yesterday. How can you live your life today? You always compare with those who are incomparable, and you always fantasize about those that cannot. Realized, how can I feel calm today?

Let go of what you can’t carry; look down upon what you can’t afford to hurt; don’t think about what you can’t figure out; and heal what you can’t hate. Whose tears fall in memories in the years, and whose sadness falls in the past in time. The past is like smoke, and I don’t know whose lovesickness is falling away; the memories are like a dream, and I don’t know who is falling away and whose waiting is falling away.

Everyone has their own way of tasting the same tea. The character and quality of each person are reflected in the tea tasting. After eating and drinking, the real purpose of tea tasting is Sip, drink a large cup of tea in a wine cup, drink it in your mouth without swallowing it, taste it, and reflect your gentlemanly demeanor and cultural temperament while tasting it.

Believe in your own strength and don’t blindly believe that others know more than you do. More often than not, others may not know as much as we ourselves. It is often blind people who make random comments and instructions. To believe in one's own strength means to firmly believe in one's own judgment and decisions, and not to listen to those nonsense and speculative opinions and explanations. With many people talking, issues tend to get blurry. It’s hard to agree with everyone, so there’s no need to listen to everyone’s requests.

Hope is the continuation after every determination, and happiness is the turning back after every contemplation. No matter the pain or happiness, they are never far away. The same mood makes the soul move closer to relaxation. It is difficult to live a long life. A hundred years, a hundred springs, every season is equally precious, and every winter is not used to hide sorrow.

The road may be wide or narrow, and life may be thick or thin. Many times, we make choices against our will and live helplessly. Reality often controls our wishes and cruelly shakes our souls. Everything is mostly nihility and rarely real. You must pay attention to maintaining yourself and live according to your own heart. Only in this way can you open up your own path.

Enjoy the sunshine and warmth in life with a simple state of mind, and treat everything in life with a calm attitude. You must have had times like this: someone pointed at your sore spot and laughed, but you could only smile stupidly. You are afraid that others will say that you can't take a joke, so you bend over with laughter, even crying. We will always accommodate others and hurt ourselves; so, be kind to yourself, because no one will treat you as the world.

Pretend to be strong, because you don’t want people to see your weakness; Pretend to be happy, because you don’t want people to know your loneliness; Pretend to be happy, because you don’t want people to see your wounds; Pretend to be sweet, because you don’t want people to see your tears; Pretend to be relaxed , because I don’t want people to find me sad; I pretend to be happy, because I don’t want people to see scars; I pretend to be happy, because I don’t want people to see loneliness. Now I'm fine, pretending everything is fine.

Even if we only have a brief encounter and a brief tacit understanding, at that moment, for us, it is eternity. We have passed by, but we have left traces; life is just a passing process. Those who dare not take risks are those who gain nothing. What is worse than failure is not trying. There are two types of failure: one is talking without practicing; the other is acting without thinking.

You don’t know what’s waiting for you ahead, but you have to move forward. Even if you are confused, time is still dragging you. So I don’t care what is waiting for me in front of me, I care more about who is accompanying me, and how far I have progressed compared to the past. Don't be pessimistic or optimistic. If the front is flat, just stride forward. If there is a wall in front, then smash it. After all, only those who move forward can meet those who also move forward.

The years will pass by bit by bit like this. The pain of life is not at the beginning, but the feelings that arise later in life. Come by destiny and leave without destiny. This is how things are in the world. What is supposed to come will come naturally. It is useless to hope for what is not supposed to come, and it is useless to ask for it. If there is a destiny, don't push it. If there is no destiny, don't ask for it. Welcome when you come, watch when you go, let everything take its course.

Life is just a passer-by, why bother with thousands of knots? Life is a leaf, it is inevitable when it becomes green and withers; youth is a flower, it blooms and withers naturally; career is a game, lose and win Feeling is like a cup of tea, whether it is strong or weak, it is natural; life is a funnel, when you gain or lose, you are happy.

When you reach the intersection where your paths diverge, it’s time to make a choice. Many times we keep procrastinating, thinking we can escape the point of making a choice, only to realize when we are far away that we have made the choice unconsciously. You can't escape, you will grow up, encounter injustice, and suffer setbacks; you can't escape, you will bear, learn to accept, and encounter loneliness. Your future is determined by you now, so don't hesitate when it's time to make your choice. Don’t hesitate in the first half of your life, and don’t regret in the second half of your life.

There are many choices in life: some choose to accept, and some choose to give up. Some choose to get closer, and some choose to go further. No matter what the choice is, just follow the wishes of your heart.

A person with great wisdom must be humble, a person with great kindness must be tolerant, and a person with great pride must be humble and peaceful. People who have a great sense of accomplishment must also have a mind that tolerates all things and is tolerant of all living beings. The little wise man is aggressive, the little kind man is careless, and the little pride shows his arrogant face.

Still water can identify objects, and quiet people can observe the mind. With a heart of letting go, you will be more free and easy; with a normal heart, you will be more calm; with a heart of compassion, you will accumulate more kindness; with a heart of gratitude, you will be happier; with a heart of cause and effect, you will be more sensible; With a heart of tolerance, you will be happier; with a heart of cultivation, you will be wiser; with a heart of self-knowledge, you will be clearer.

Cherish the happiness at hand, don’t always care about what others do, the most important thing is to do more of your own things; don’t always look at what other people are doing, no matter how tired you are, people will ignore you; don’t always pester When you look at others, they will say: If you are not tired, I am still tired; don’t resent others, what should I do if they have been waiting to complain about you; don’t always evaluate your position in the hearts of others. Living in the eyes of others is tantamount to losing yourself. .

Instead of envying others, it is better to be yourself. Superficial envy, boring comparison, and clumsy imitation will only make you live in the shadow of others all day long. Blind comparison will not bring happiness, only trouble; it will not bring happiness, only pain. Each of us should recognize our current selves, find our own place, and take our own path in life. The harder we work, the luckier we will be! Children who smoke are not necessarily bad children - QQ Space Talk

“ Some people are better not to know than to know." "Some things are better not to know than to know."

There are such a group of dear people around me. Smile openly without saying sadness.

If a relationship does not make you a better person, then it is a pity that you are with the wrong person

﹌ You just got offline. And I miss you like crazy. . It turns out that I love you so much

Give the other person the best care. that is. Change for the better. More powerful. Happier

I try not to think about it, but my mind is still filled with your figure, slowly. To overflow. All, all is you.

◇゛If there is such a person, I hope that I can sense my presence in dark places.

Everything has changed. Now I know that I am dispensable to you.

When the whole world wants me to give up, I still hope someone can tell me to try again.

If there is an if, I will give you all my love without hesitation, even if you don’t love me.

Everything and everyone will become a thing of the past, don’t If we can't get through it, no matter how difficult it is, we must learn to withdraw.

Love is a light, friendship is a shadow. When the light goes out, you will find that you are surrounded by shadows

Often in some people’s lives, you can’t even be certain people. Your qualifications are gone

Your first mistake was to leave me. The second mistake gave me the opportunity to realize that I could live without you.

My dear, you are my incomparable beauty, and your heart cannot compare to anything.

The person a person thinks of when he is drunk must be the person he loves the most and the person who hurts him the most

We were so in love with each other back then, but now we are We are so strange

If I am not a place where you can stop, we will stop here and don’t have to force it anymore

Life is like a punctuation mark to express your current feelings. Life, until it comes to a perfect end.

Angry Birds is very awesome. The birds laugh when they win, and the pigs laugh when they lose, and each laugh is more sinister than the last.

The reason why I won’t leave and am still waiting is because you will feel bad when you look back and see me.

What is reluctance? As long as you have the next person to accompany you, you will never know the feeling of reluctance.

Leave a place. The scenery no longer belongs to you. Miss someone. That person has nothing to do with you.

In the dark corner, quietly looking at your back, waiting for you to come back to me

Some smiles are like band-aids. Although they cover up the wounds, the heartache is still there.

You said that I am not delicate enough, but how many men are very delicate?

A child who smokes is not necessarily a bad child, he just has a hurt in his heart and has no place to talk about it.

In fact, you are very low-key, and you have become the second child, although I can understand it.

What you say is what you say when we are together, but after we are separated, we can no longer find a reason to obey

Your heart, my tears, the perfect ending, but they are just memories , forever memories

You can’t give me what I want, and you can’t stand my temper, so please don’t get entangled in my world

A room without lights, Sad music, lonely me" I still have to show off that I am strong and pretend that I am happy.

At a young age, I don’t want to see through so much. It would be boring to see through everything.

Isn’t it just that I am sad and hiding alone? Isn’t it just that I am sad and there is no one to tell me? Isn’t it just that I am hurt more thoroughly this time?

Life gives us souls, but it doesn’t teach us how to walk

The relationship over the years has been separated as soon as it is said to be separated. There is no room for maneuver

The only person you can hurt is the person who loves you the most in this world, because it is impossible for others to care about you.

The wise man’s Leshan mountains are picturesque, and the benevolent man’s smile is boundless. A glass of wine calmly, a cup of tea indifferently

Do you think we will be destined to be together in the next life? On the road of reincarnation, and then endure the pain of reincarnation together

I think I can get used to living alone. I think I can pretend that I have never loved you and erase your promise from my memory.

In some people’s lives, you are no longer qualified to be certain people. Talk about letting go of love: Letting go is not necessarily about loving but also about letting go

1. Why am I still like this? Worried about losing you, even if you are no longer mine

2. It is difficult to say goodbye when we meet. The east wind is powerless and the flowers are withered. The silkworms will die when the spring silkworms die, and the wax torch will turn into ashes and dry up with tears.

3. Never say what I think, because I think it is the most unreliable

4. You touched my sincerity, how could I forget it so easily

5. Only when love leaves can you understand the pain of being abandoned by love

6. Letting go does not necessarily mean loving but also letting go

7. I didn’t say I hate it But if you are on fire and I have water, I will drink it in front of you

8. If you need a ring to prove your love, then the problem is not just as simple as the lack of a ring. .

9. When love fades away, it is like a car speeding on the highway. It cannot stop even if it wants to.

10. As long as it passes, I will love myself more and my world will never have your vow again

11. In fact, the best days are just me making trouble. You are smiling, so warm for the rest of your life.

12. Friends are like wind. Friends are like rain. With friends, you can control the wind and rain.

13. I am speechless in front of you, so I can only turn a blind eye

14. Because the earth is round, we will meet each other

15. Just because I love you does not mean that I want to be with you, but it means that I will never hurt you. Being indifferent does not necessarily mean forgetting, but it must mean alienation

1. No one can accompany someone for a hundred years, and no one can truly treat someone for a lifetime. There will always be times when you get bored.

2. Remember, no one can see your beautiful soul through your sloppy appearance. This is true for both men and women.

3. In the end, you will find that what can connect you with others on a deeper level is definitely not labels that can be easily attached. It is not that you went to the same school, or came from the same city or country. , have the same zodiac sign or blood type. What can maintain you are the same beliefs, principles and values. Only by finding those who are on the same path as you will you not feel lonely.

4. I think others respect me because I am excellent. Slowly I understood that others respect me because they are excellent. Excellent people know how to respect others. Being respectful to others is actually dignifying yourself.

5. As a woman, you must first strive for financial independence, and then you can be qualified to talk about what you should strive for. From the age of fifteen to twenty-five, strive for opportunities to study and travel; from the age of twenty-five to the age of thirty-five, work hard, continue to study, start a family, and start saving; after the age of thirty-five, turn work into a career, redouble your efforts to study, Be sure to have some assets to defend yourself.

6. There is often a feeling of being temporarily forgotten by the world, just like the only chopstick that was forgotten and unwashed in the sink, or the umbrella hanging lonely at the door of the hotel, and no one has ever come to take it away. .

7. We are a kind of people who are not good at communicating. There is no big reason. It’s just that when you go over mountains and ridges, go through clouds and seas, and go through ninety-nine and eighty-one hardships to get to my door, maybe He won't turn around and walk away so easily. It’s just that when I plant pine trees and make wine, clear snow and cook tea, I have the same expectation for ten years, and I don’t just wait for someone to knock on the door and ask for directions.

8. After a long time, when someone praises you for being shrewd and prudent, and for being impeccable in your words and deeds, you will smile bitterly in your heart and thank God and those cool people who have taught you one lesson after another. In fact, It’s not that the world has become ugly, it’s just the way it is.

9. You can’t decide whether it will be sunny or rainy tomorrow, whether your lover will stay or go, and what you can get in exchange for your persistence at this moment? But you can decide whether to bring an umbrella, whether to love someone well, and whether to work hard enough. Don’t forget why you got here in the first place just because you’re afraid that the road ahead will be murky. Today's suffering is to see the gift from the future!

10. Those who have money give you material things, those who have time to accompany you, and those who have sentimentality give you romance, these are not love. The complete look of love should be: the carefree person is devoted to you, the playful person is stable for you, the impatient person waits for you, and the proud person is humble for you. Because you try things that you are not good at, because you want to become a better person, this is the stupidest and truest form of love.

11. No one cares how you cry in the middle of the night, and no one cares how many autumns you have tossing and turning. Outsiders only look at the results and support the process alone. When we all understand this truth, we will no longer be pretentious in front of others and talk around to seek comfort.

12. Don’t compare with others, don’t care about yourself, be determined to be a good person, immerse yourself in doing things, walk down-to-earth, and live life naturally. Being a human being is like drinking, and it is best to be half drunk and half awake; to do things like When holding the pen, half loose and half tight is the most natural.

13. Being indifferent does not necessarily mean that you have forgotten, but it certainly means that you are alienated.

14. Use a beautiful heart to see the scenery of the world; use a happy heart to look at the trivial matters of life; use a grateful heart to thank the growth that experience has given us; use a broad heart to appreciate the world. The heart tolerates the harm caused by human affairs to us; use a normal heart to look at the success and failure of life.

15. Remember that to maintain a relationship, in addition to your heart and sweet words, you must also work hard to become better.

16. People on the mountain should not look down on people at the bottom of the mountain, because one day they will come up the mountain to replace you. People who go up the mountain should not look down on those who go down the mountain, because you are still at the bottom of the mountain when he is enjoying the scenery.

17. If possible, I would rather write the story between you as a comedy.

18. Time determines who you will meet in life, your heart determines who you want to appear in your life, and your behavior determines who stays in the end.

19. Feng Guo Wuhen, after all, I forced you to stay. You once said that if you win, I will accompany you to rule the world, and if you lose, I will accompany you to wander the world. The oath is in my ears, but things have changed. I have gained rights, but I have lost you. I feel so cold at the high place. No matter how much I have, I can't compare with you. If I had known that the price of getting all this would be to lose you, I think I won't fight for it, just because you are more important than anything else, but there are no ifs in this world

20. When the flowers bloom, I don't know that autumn has gone, and I don't know that winter has deepened until the rain comes. A night rain outside the window chills the memories, but a flower blooming warms the mood.