Phoenix man who often talks about divorce, should I let him get what he wants?

Wang Bin is a hard-working young man. He never comes late for class and leaves early, and his grades are among the best in the company. He is handsome and attracted the attention of girls when he first entered the company. After working for more than a year, many people in my hometown came to Wang Bin as a matchmaker, but he refused.

In fact, Wang Bin doesn't want to fall in love, but he has an inferiority complex in his bones. He was born in a poor rural family. There is a younger brother and a younger sister at home. They are twins. My younger brother and sister go to school, and their salary is not low in Wang Bin. Every month, I have to take out a part to subsidize my brothers and sisters at home. Therefore, Wang Bin never dares to spend money recklessly, and scrimps and saves every month. He once rejected two girls who took the initiative to be nice to him.

Another graduation season, the company has a new batch of interns, including a lively and lovely little girl, which suddenly caught Wang Bin's attention. The girl's name is Xiaoqing, and it can be seen from her dress and jewelry that Xiaoqing has a good family. Yes, this is a rich second generation. It's just a formality to come here for an internship.

After getting along for half a month, Xiaoqing was seduced by Wang Bin and moved by his simplicity and self-motivation. Xiaoqing thinks that a young man with no background can work hard under the stability of this city by his own efforts, which is much better than those who are old. Xiaoqing is an enthusiastic girl. She caught up with Wang Bin three months before her internship.

Two people talked for more than a year, Xiao Qing's parents disdained Wang Bin. They don't understand that their daughter is not far from such an excellent suitor, but she chooses a poor boy who wants nothing. Apart from having a job available, the family has a heavy burden.

Xiaoqing insisted repeatedly that she was determined to marry him, and her parents could only compromise. Wang Bin's family conditions are here. We can't afford a house or a car, let alone a sky-high bride price. Xiaoqing's parents were helpless and helped them buy a wedding room in full. Who told them they were only children? As long as the daughter is happy, nothing else matters. Looking at the newly decorated house, Wang Bin was deeply moved. He swore in front of the old couple that he would treat Xiaoqing well after marriage, even if he lent them the money to buy a house, he would pay back his hard work in the future.

Xiaoqing's parents are proud people, and they can't bear to see their daughter's wedding too shabby. So I paid for my daughter to get married. After getting married, Wang Bin worked really hard, got better and better, and soon got a promotion and salary increase.

When Wang Bin just got married, he discussed with Xiaoqing that it would cost a lot of money for his younger brother and sister to go to school. He decided to pay 3000 yuan a month to go home, which is a living allowance for his parents, as well as tuition and living expenses for his younger brothers and sisters. Xiaoqing knew this situation and readily agreed. 3,000 yuan is nothing to Wang Bin. His salary is more than 10,000 yuan.

Married this year, Xiaoqing accidentally discovered that Wang Bin had no savings at all. After careful inquiry, I learned that Wang Bin not only needs to provide schooling for his younger brothers and sisters, but also needs to decorate the old house at home and buy some new furniture, all of which are paid by Wang Bin. His salary this year and his previous savings are subsidized to his family.

Xiaoqing is unhappy. After a few complaints, Wang Bin quarreled with her, saying that if he was not allowed to help his parents, he would simply divorce. Xiaoqing is very angry. How can this man talk about divorce easily?

After several days of cold war, this matter finally passed. Soon after, Xiaoqing's father had a birthday, and Wang Bin went home to have dinner with her. This year marks the 30th anniversary of Xiaoqing's parents' marriage. They decided to travel and have a good time. They have signed up for a luxury tour group and asked each other for more than 20 thousand yuan. After returning home, Wang Bin told Xiaoqing that your parents are so rich that they can buy whatever they want and go wherever they want. Unlike my parents, I have never been out of the province for most of my life.

The next day, Wang Bin told Xiaoqing that my parents also want to go out for a few days. Let's sign up for a tour! Xiaoqing said nothing. She knew that if she objected, Wang Bin would quarrel with her. Let it be. Wang Bin didn't have enough money, so he asked Xiaoqing for 5000 yuan and went home happily.

After a year and a half of marriage, Xiaoqing found that the whole family was raised by her alone, and all the money earned by Wang Bin was subsidized to her parents, brothers and sisters. In this way, his own salary is not enough, and sometimes he asks her for money. My parents-in-law, brother-in-law and my sister-in-law, they are family with Wang Bin. If not, Wang Bin quarreled with Xiaoqing and kept asking for a divorce. Wang Bin probably took a fancy to Xiao Qing, and felt that her family were all proud people. She must be afraid of the bad influence of divorce.

Xiaoqing is pregnant, and the whole family is very happy. She told Wang Bin that there are many places to spend money with children, and we also have some savings in our hands. Actually, Xiao Qing wanted to remind Wang Bin that her parents-in-law and your brother and sister should not take the lion's share of everything. Wang Bin didn't agree, but she kept giving money to her parents.

When Xiaoqing was pregnant for more than five months, her in-laws said they would build a house for her second son to get married and let them pay 50 thousand yuan. How can Wang Can Bing have so many? It's ridiculous to say that Wang Bin, with a monthly income of more than 10,000 yuan, only has a living allowance of 2,000 yuan, and it doesn't even have 50,000 yuan all the year round, so it's necessary to ask Xiaoqing for it. Xiao Qing is annoyed when she listens. After two years of marriage, Wang Bin gave his parents at least100000 yuan. It is unreasonable to ask Xiaoqing for money to build a house for his brother now.

Xiaoqing and Wang Bin had a big fight. She is very disappointed in this man. She felt that Wang Bin didn't put his mind at home at all. When Wang Bin blurted out the word divorce again, Xiaoqing agreed without hesitation. Is this woman Wang crazy? Dare to divorce when you are pregnant? Aren't you afraid to be a single mother?

Without further ado, Xiaoqing found out all the documents and pulled Wang Bin to the Civil Affairs Bureau, saying that he was a grandson. Can this Wang Bin stand it? The divorce procedure was soon completed. Neither the car nor the house belongs to Wang Bin, and the child has not yet been born. Besides, Xiaoqing can afford it completely, so it has nothing to do with Wang Bin in the future. Wang Bin, a winner with a car, a house and a wife, became nothing overnight. He just packed his clothes and belongings and moved out of the house.

Wang Bin regretted it. He ruined his happiness by himself. Who is to blame? Xiaoqing wants to know that Wang Bin's home is a bottomless pit. If she doesn't get a divorce in time, she and her children will have no peaceful life in the future. Do you think Xiaoqing did the right thing?