While traveling with my boyfriend, I discovered many of his "special habits". How should I get him to correct them?

In fact, society is becoming more and more open now. If many people’s special hobbies do not affect others, we have no right to comment. But as his boyfriend, and if you ask If you ask this question, it means that this hobby will have a certain impact on you, so my suggestion is to talk to him openly and honestly to understand what he thinks in his heart, the reasons for the formation of these hobbies of his, and clearly state what you want him to do. Corrected thoughts and expectations.

In fact, generally speaking, if you have decided that you may stay with him for the rest of your life, it is better to deal with this problem early. Sometimes it is really easy to see a person's character when traveling. And through his usual way of dealing with people and some contacts between you two during the trip, you can easily tell whether this person has the same three views as you, and it is easier to judge whether he can accompany you and help you. It is better to make a decision before getting married.

In fact, many couples will live together for a trial marriage and travel together before getting married. Compared with living together, traveling together can examine more aspects, because you will not only live together, but also travel together. Getting along almost day and night. Going to a strange place together will make the two of you more closely connected. At the same time, you will encounter many problems and have to solve many problems in the process. You can also see in this process Do you two have the same thinking and outlook?

So I’m glad that you discovered this problem when we traveled together before getting married. First, have a good communication with your boyfriend to confirm why he has such a hobby and have a good relationship with him. Have a chat to see if it is possible for him to get rid of these special habits. You need to clearly make him aware of your incomprehension and discomfort with these habits, and let him understand that if he wants to be with you, he must pay. Try to get rid of these habits as much as possible.