How to evaluate Buddhist friendship?

With the growth of age and the pressure of modern life, people suddenly began to make friends with Buddhists in such an advanced and developed communication society, and getting along with friends, colleagues, classmates and relatives around them depends entirely on their own mood. I think this is a very bad phenomenon. I am afraid of being isolated. I don't want "Buddhist" friendship. We need to maintain friendship, not "Buddhist" friendship.

I think too many people, like me, can realize their laziness. Don't fail to maintain friendship because of the development of communication now. A group of our good friends sat and talked about this phenomenon, and I also asked our most diligent friend to maintain friendship. His practice was very useful!

1. respond positively.

He said that he would respond positively to his friends at any time. For example, if a friend gives me a gift, I will tell them in time, and I must tell them that I like it very much. If you need any help, just ask me.

In fact, many people will miss our friendship for more than ten years now. You don't need to make such a response. All your friends will understand you. In fact, if you don't say anything, all your friends around you may not understand. When he goes abroad, he will bring some local specialties to everyone. We always expect him to come back, not because of the specialties, but because of the feeling that he takes our friendship so seriously.

2. Warm help.

The contemporary society is under great pressure, at least our friends in this circle have their own pressures. When we feel the most uncomfortable and need someone to chat and drink together, it is still him. He will appear when we need it most, no matter what, no matter what time. His enthusiasm brought all our friends together.

3. positive energy.

We often affect our mood because of something, even if it is reported in the news. He will always actively express his opinions and talk about some philosophies of life, so that the lost mood of friends around him will get better.

4. comity.

in the circle of friends, there will be some friction contradictions more or less. Because of the bickering of simple views, the wrangling is red-faced Especially when drinking too much, I feel that no one is right and I am the only one. And he has never had an argument with any of us. He just said, "You're right." Laugh it off with mirth.