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Do men’s psychology and physiology change much in their 20s and 30s?

From the age of 18 to 80, men’s physiological changes will not be too great.

The 18-year-old boy said: I want a beautiful 18-year-old girl.

A 30-year-old man said: I want a beautiful 18-year-old girl.

A 40-year-old man said: I want a beautiful 18-year-old girl.

The 50-year-old uncle said: I want an 18-year-old beautiful girl.

The 60-year-old man said: I want an 18-year-old beautiful girl.

The 70-year-old man said: I want an 18-year-old beautiful girl.

The 80-year-old grandfather said: I want an 18-year-old beautiful girl.

Therefore, men’s physiological changes are not big, but their physical strength changes greatly. However, what is commendable is that the man's pursuit remains as single-minded as ever.

Brother, you are definitely very big. Let’s put it this way. When you are 20 years old, you carry 50 kilograms. When you are 30 years old, you will definitely have to double the weight. If you are ambitious at the age of 20, you can do it immediately without fear of failure or mistakes. If you are ambitious at the age of 30, you will hesitate, weigh, always seek stability, and dare not make mistakes (if you have a strong family background, pretend I didn't say this). When you are 20 years old, you can spend thousands of yuan to buy New Year things for your parents. When you are 30 years old, you will hesitate to spend more than 500 yuan, because sometimes it is not only your parents but also other people's parents, and you cannot treat them differently. When you are 20 years old, you find more things to be a challenge, and sometimes you enjoy doing things that are unrewarding. At the age of 30, one thing after another will only make me tired and exhausted, and anger and depression are always with me. Don't even look at things that have no value or meaning. When I was 20 years old, I had to have a lot of fun playing games, stay up all night, and have a lot of fun hanging out with friends. When I was 30 years old, I played some games. I looked through my address book and found no one. I didn’t dare to stay up all night. I didn’t know whether I would go shopping the next day or have a temporary job. When playing a game, you have to look at the eyes of the people around you. If you find that something is not right, it is common to temporarily quit the game. More often than not, I feel that gaming is not as comfortable as lying in bed and watching videos. My 20-year-old self always thinks about delicious food, but my 30-year-old self doesn’t feel hungry even after eating two meals a day. .........Too many, that's all.

As a man who is about to enter his thirties, it is the most convincing way to answer this question [呲呲][呲呲], I think not only Not only the physical and psychological changes, but also the changes in people's thoughts are all very big. The main points are as follows:

1. Psychologically, I know that I am no longer a child. Even if you fail at something, you won’t feel much pressure. Now you will consider a lot of things when doing things. You will always think about how you will make up for it if you fail. I no longer do things recklessly as before, I have a lot of structure.

2. Physiology should be the most obvious change in the past ten years. When I was 20 years old, I exercised for one day and nothing happened the next day. At 30 years old, it is almost impossible to exercise for one day. It takes several hours. You will feel very tired when you get down.

3. After ten years of accumulation, your thinking will mature a lot.

Of course, these changes all depend on how we use these ten years. This can be regarded as a golden decade for anyone. Study hard and exercise well. I hope you will be good at this moment. If you are in your 20s, seize your youth and live up to your time!

Time flies by like a fleeting moment. Yesterday, we were secretly passing notes in class, but in a blink of an eye, we have plunged into the torrent of society, working hard for our families. As time goes by and I grow older, I gain more understanding of life. For example, in terms of friendship: when you are 20 years old, you firmly believe that as long as you are a friend, you will last a lifetime. At the age of 30, along the way, you find that you can count your friends on one finger, and they all have families, and it is no longer easy to get together. This is even more obvious when it comes to work. When you are 20 years old, you can't wait to graduate as soon as possible. Your heart is as high as the sky, thinking that you can step on the sun and the moon at any time and move toward the stars and the sea. At 30, you spend most of your time working just to support your family. It doesn’t matter morning or evening, or weekend. You are no longer harsh on love. When you are 20 years old, you believe that love is a kind of faith. If you say it will last a lifetime, a day, an hour, or a minute will not last a lifetime. When you are 30 years old, you will no longer talk about "love". You just want to find someone to spend the winter with, that's all. There are also obvious changes in your body. When you are 20 years old, you never worry about your body and can stay up all night for several days in a row and still feel energetic. At the age of 30, you find that many things are beyond your ability, and you are often accompanied by insomnia. A thermos cup and wolfberry become standard equipment.

The biggest psychological difference between boys in their 20s and 30s is: whether they are "mature" or not. Generally speaking, 30-year-old men are more mature and excellent in all aspects, and are more likely to win the favor of women. In comparison, the same is true in terms of physiology.

Want to know when he will make a love commitment to you? Is he romantic enough for you? Will your sex life be harmonious and satisfying? Now use the criterion of age to easily classify men! 20 to 24: Impetuousness and restlessness "The early 20s are the transition period when men tend to fall in love quickly and retreat quickly." Is it really related to age? That's right! On the one hand, boys in transition are constantly producing male hormones that make them long for the opposite sex, but on the other hand, they cannot let go of enjoying the free life they are used to.

What causes it? Dr. Li said: "Obviously, at this age, he has not yet fully matured. In other words, his skills in handling emotional relationships are not enough." "Civil wars" between lovers at this age will frequently break out, Don't worry too much, this kind of "civil war" sometimes arouses each other's enthusiasm. Romance Index If you are not his first love, he will be more attracted to you. "He will put you on the lotus throne and worship you devoutly like you are facing Guanyin Bodhisattva." Bedside Joy Be prepared, he is often energetic at this age that will surprise you. Maybe its "quality" will be unsatisfactory, but its "quantity" will definitely give you great satisfaction. Experts point out: "The physiological structure determines that men can often only show their feelings through sexual behavior during this period." - The important thing is that he loves you. Declaration of Love Maybe he will give you a flower every day at first and feed your pets every day, but this does not mean that he will always be willing to do these things silently and only for you. He will gradually become more willing to meet other friends and go for a drink together, or go hunting together on the weekend, or even agree to travel together for a few weeks. "Oh my god! He doesn't love me as much as before!" - Don't worry unnecessarily, listen to what the experts say - "This is determined by the group consciousness of young people. Today's young people are becoming more and more distant. Without the constraints of tradition, collective behavior has become their subconscious standard. "Men of this age usually put their instinctive reactions in a very important position, so Dr. Li provides us with a tip: let yourself get them as soon as possible. Love, the best trick to make this relationship "a diamond lasts forever, a diamond lasts forever" is - "give him space and let go of the constraints." If he feels no pressure when he is with you, he will not leave you easily. 25 to 29: Dilemma Most urban men begin to tie a "knot" for themselves emotionally around the age of 27. The age of 25 is a sign that a man has entered a new stage, a stage where he begins to face his life with a serious and serious attitude. Dr. Li said: "At this age, he will have an ideological struggle between his own interests and the interests of others around him. At this time, if he finds the person he likes, he will not give up easily, but he also does not want to Lose other things you already have. " Romance Index For him who has certain relationship experience, your relationship must have a certain degree of realism. Men of this age attach great importance to equality and balance between each other. Men of this age are increasingly inclined to choose to live together before marriage to test the relationship between themselves and their partners. Generally speaking, they will not try to win a partner. The concept of romance in their minds is no longer as strong as it was in their early 20s, and it is not as rigid at the same time. The psychological and physiological maturity of pleasure in bed makes men of this age pay more attention to the mutual adjustment and cooperation of both parties in their sexual life, in order to achieve the purpose of sexual pleasure with the couple. Declaration of Love: Men approaching the age of 30 hope that their girlfriends will have their own opinions, their own careers, and their own lives like themselves. They already have a certain sense of responsibility and can calm down and think carefully. They hope that they can find a partner with whom they can live and grow together, rather than a simple playmate. For men of this age group, it is time for men to get married, but the ensuing "marriage phobia" makes a considerable number of men behave in particularly weird and bizarre ways. But this is not enough to make people lovable. You don’t have to worry about being beautiful, generous, gentle and kind - he just doesn’t want to make a decision so rashly, which is also a reflection of his sense of responsibility. "The vast majority of men will eventually get married. Generally speaking, he will gradually be conquered by your charm and completely get rid of his 'marriage phobia.'" 30 to 34: The peak turns around and the year passes, and a man's social circle will gradually shrink. , I no longer like to have fun like I did when I was young. Recent survey data shows that 55% of 20-year-old men go out for activities more than three times a week on average, while by the age of 30, only 15% of men go out for activities three times a week on average.

Twenty-year-old men are an ideal age. I just want to have a good future. Physically, have a good life, marry a wife, have children, and support your parents. 30-year-old men are the age to persist in their careers and do a good job in their careers. Physiologically, only by doing a good job can your wife and children live a happy life. You can also support your parents and do something meaningful for society and others.

It varies from person to person. Physiologically speaking, there is no difference at best, but at worst it may lead to death from exhaustion. Psychologically, the common situation is stunted development, without real growth, but becoming worldly. Sophistication is false maturity.

This should be different! Each age will have their own experiences and experiences will be different