"Dink 20 years ago wants to hug someone else's child now." What should she do with her 50-year-old sister?

I always say that you should study hard while you are young and don't think about anything else. When you grow up, you should get married and have children. Life is similar. You have come all the way, although the scenery along the way is different and the terminal is the same.

Although, many chicken soup texts now say that only love should get married, and there is no age for marriage. The same is true of having children. If you want to have children, you can have them. If you don't want to have children, don't force them.

This statement is correct at first glance. In fact, after in-depth research, I think if life does not follow the normal track, I will ask you, will you regret it when you are old?

"Dink 20 years ago wants to hug someone else's child now." The confession of a 50-year-old elder sister, she didn't moan, but felt it.

Sister Lin is 50 years old now. When she reached retirement age, she always felt that life was too idle, she died too early and gave birth too late. She is thinking about what to do after retirement, so as to keep herself busy and less empty.

02.

Sister Lin is an executive of the company. She has made a lifetime contribution to the company, but she has also made a lot of money, and she is not worried about providing for the elderly. But now, she and her husband quarrel when they are free: "I said at that time that having children would affect my work." Now I see that other people have children, but you don't, so I envy and hate. "

The husband was worried about Lin's sister angrily, and Lin felt that she had nothing to say. At that time, the company was at the critical moment of promotion and salary increase assessment. Sister Lin is very enterprising and doesn't want to miss this opportunity. If she has children, she will have to go home for maternity leave and come back to work, and she may not even be able to keep her job.

Sister Lin decided not to have children for the time being as soon as she discussed with her husband. Although her husband was not very happy, she respected his wife's decision until her work was put together and she sat down.

After three passes and five generals, Sister Lin finally won the position of department manager. As a leader, Sister Lin is busier, working overtime every day and traveling everywhere.

Let alone have a baby. Sometimes, the husband just wants to make out, and it is difficult to find opportunities.

Women who want to fight for their careers are doomed to sacrifice their personal time and family.

Sister Lin is like this.

03.

My husband has hinted many times that he wants to have a baby. Sister Lin always says, wait, wait, I promise you to have a baby in two years.

However, after waiting for two years, Sister Lin put her work first after all, and her husband is also very busy at work. Neither of them wants to give up their jobs, so the matter of having children is put off again and again.

As sister Lin's position is getting bigger and bigger, her private time is getting less and less. Anyway, the couple travel wherever they have time, but enjoy it.

For a while, I heard my peers complain that raising children was too hard and too worry-free. Sister Lin felt that life was much easier without children. Others can't travel because they take care of the children. She and her husband can go anywhere they want. It's not easy and it's not short of money.

At the age of 50 in a blink of an eye, retirement is not far away. Sister Lin's time is at leisure, and she has no actual power, just hanging an empty post.

Whenever I see the children of relatives and friends, whether they are just born or can walk, Sister Lin can't help hugging. Another feeling.

04.

"Although I have wealth, I can think about it and find myself a lot less. And this lack is something I can't make up for in my life. I can't understand the happiness of being a mother. " Sister Lin can't help feeling.

What she lacks is a feeling of being a mother, which others can't pass on to you. You can only experience it yourself.

Yes, it's hard and tiring to be a mother, but why are there so many women desperate to be a mother?

Because, ah, this is a rare life experience. When you are old, you will look back on your life and find that you have nothing to regret, and then leave with a smile.

When my child was young, I often disliked that my son was too annoying and tired to raise him. As my son grows older, he will communicate with me normally now, repeat my words and help me with some simple housework. I feel that having a child is really a very happy thing.

He slept beside me, and I rubbed his soft little face and couldn't help thinking, "Thank you for choosing me as your mother, because you have brought me rich life experiences."

Finally, I suggest some young people that China people like to live in groups and enjoy being lively. No matter what kind of small family life they live, they still like family happiness in their bones.

Never choose Dink at the age when you should have children, and wait until you are old to regret it.

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