A girl from Sichuan disappeared in Serbia for 2 months but refused to return to her country after being found. Why is this?

A Sichuan couple asked for help, saying that their 31-year-old daughter traveled abroad and lost contact with her in Serbia in August 2021. The woman went abroad in October 2020 and has been with her family during this period. We had intermittent contact, but the woman suddenly lost contact in the past ten days. Her family could not contact her, and they were very anxious. However, the girl's family abroad had no choice, so they asked the society for help.

This matter has attracted social attention. Many Chinese people have friends in Serbia. They all help spread the news and ask Chinese people in Serbia to help find her. The hard work pays off. The girl was found on the 12th. At that time, she was found by Chinese people in Serbia. Nothing happened to her, she was still alive and unharmed, but she was a little mentally and emotionally sensitive, especially to people with yellow skin and people who spoke Mandarin.

When seeing people who speak Mandarin approaching, the woman will be particularly nervous and unwilling to have too much contact. She always has the idea of ????leaving. The embassy also announced that the woman has already She was found, but she was unwilling to get help. When she contacted people, she said that she was unwilling to return to her country or contact people at home. She also said that she wanted to go to Russia. Now the girl has left the place where she originally appeared. Don't know where it went.

The person who was looking for her saw her in a park. It seemed that her mental state was not particularly good, but it was not particularly bad either. No one was controlling her. She was doing activities by herself and spending money. She has money and is not short of money. If she is unwilling to apply to the embassy to return to the country, then she cannot be forced to come back. As for why she is like this and is unwilling to return to the country and not want to contact the Chinese people, there must be reasons for these.

This can actually be analyzed from the behavior of her parents. In it, her parents did not explain the situation to the society. In all likelihood, they concealed some things. The hidden thing was that she was unwilling to contact her family. The reason is also the reason why her parents said she lost contact. This should be a conflict with her parents, and this conflict is still irreconcilable. Even the previous behavior of going abroad to relax may be because she does not want to stay in the country but wants to stay away. Her parents, this possibility is very high.

This is not just about her own willfulness, but also about the fact that her parents may not be able to accept certain things, which are generally unacceptable to children. So basically it is the parents who force their children to arrange their lives, or It is said that they have been spoiled since childhood, and they want to take care of themselves when they grow up, but they are unwilling to accept this kind of discipline. Therefore, in fact, there are very big conflicts within this family about their own problems. At least neither party is willing to compromise with the other. Every family has problems. There is nothing we can do about this sutra that is difficult to recite. We cannot teach others how to communicate and act.

Of course, every family has its own privacy. These privacy issues are family issues. It would not be surprising if they are not spoken out. However, this kind of conflict between internal communication within the family eventually turns into trouble for the public *** resources. In fact, this kind of thing is very inappropriate. The girl is unwilling to return to the country. The most important thing is that she is unwilling to come back to face her family. If she returns to the country, it will be much easier for her parents to find her. When she is abroad, she can do things that her parents cannot find. To herself, she does not need to be controlled or restricted by them. I guess this is what she thinks. Anyway, her parents did not tell the whole story, and there are many things that caused this incident.

In fact, it’s good that people are fine. Conflicts with family members are common to most young people. As for why they had the idea of ??deliberately losing contact, these outsiders don’t know, but now that they have been found, it has been so long. Instead of escaping, we should face this kind of thing head-on. Escape is neither a solution nor a solution to the problem. Therefore, this kind of thing is often caused by impulsiveness and leads to lifelong regret. By then, even if you regret it, there is no cure. .