My boyfriend suddenly disappeared and couldn’t be found. Is this a unilateral breakup with me?

This may be a unilateral breakup with you. Some boys are shy in character and do not dare to face difficulties directly, so they will solve problems by evading them. At this time, you can let go of this boy in your heart, block all contact information, and start looking for your own love again. If you want to get to the bottom of it, you can contact your boyfriend's friends and ask him what he means.

Some boys do things that make girls very uncomfortable, that is, they don’t dare to really solve the problem in love and just want to escape. For example, this girl's boyfriend suddenly disappeared and could not be found, and her friends did not know where the boy had gone. Before leaving, the boy left a letter to his girlfriend, saying that he was disgusted with his current life and wanted to travel for a while. After that, he turned off his cell phone and didn't tell his girlfriend what he needed. This approach makes girls very uncomfortable, but girls will slowly let go. Now that the boy has unilaterally said they broke up, girls should pursue their own lives again and stop focusing on this boy.

Many people should know the tacit understanding between adults. For example, if you don’t communicate, you have given up on the relationship. Because everyone's life is relatively busy, there is simply not enough time to deal with some very complicated relationships, and they want to deal with them coldly. Although this is a bit bad, it is indeed what most people do. Some girls don't like them very much and insist on making it clear to boys, but boys will just keep running away and waste girls' time. The editor also hopes that girls can let themselves be free and stop caring about this relationship.

Everyone is an independent individual and can decide how to solve problems. But some methods are not very good and may cause the opposite sex to be particularly troubled. I hope that there will be fewer and fewer such boys and they will change their methods.