How can you tell whether a man truly loves you?

A woman’s biggest wish is to find someone who truly loves her, and the two of them can hold hands together until the end.

But the most important thing about love is the synchronization of two people. If you are the only one who loves, it can only be regarded as unrequited love. Love without response is destined to be very painful.

So, when you are in a relationship, the most important thing is to judge whether he really loves you and whether he cares about you. If the answer is no, then leave as soon as possible.

If you want to know if a man really loves you, you can actually try not contacting him for a period of time. Most girls think that if you love someone, you should stick together every day, otherwise if he goes to you What should I do if someone else is killed?

But the fact is that the more you act like this, the more he will find you annoying, and the more he will want to hide away from you. In the end, the relationship between the two people will become farther and farther away.

Distance creates beauty, no matter how good the relationship is, you should keep a certain distance, so that you can maintain a sense of mystery and make him feel your importance.

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A man who truly loves you will definitely seek you out

If a man truly cares about you, he will be there the first time you leave. After discovering it, I started to contact you non-stop, and not seeing you for a day feels like three autumns. Maybe this is the feeling. For him, as long as you are by his side, he will feel at ease.

Weiwei went on a trip with her friends some time ago. She was a little hesitant at first. She thought that after she left, he would be alone and what would she do if he didn’t know how to take care of her? Having been away from him, I don’t know if I will feel uncomfortable.

Originally, she had made a decision in her heart and was just waiting to tell her friends, but her boyfriend quarreled with her and felt that she had to control him in everything and had no freedom at all. He was not a child anymore. , there is no need for everything to be like this.

At that moment, she made up her mind to leave him for a few days to try a life without him instead of staying with him all the time. She also had to find something to do, so that both of them could be happy. Calm down.

So, she went on a trip with her friends. It wasn’t until the moment before she got on the plane that she said something to her boyfriend, then turned off her phone and stopped caring about other things.

When she landed and turned on her phone, several messages popped up on her phone, all from her boyfriend. Some apologized to her, some told her to pay attention to her safety, and some said they missed her. When she saw At this point, I suddenly felt that everything was nothing.

If her leaving will only make him more angry, or even make him ignore her, then she will know what to do next, and if a person will take the initiative to find you, he will care about you. Whether he is used to it outside or tells you how much he misses you from the very beginning, then he actually still cares about you in his heart, but sometimes he doesn't express it.

A man who truly loves you will take the initiative to contact you when the two of them are disconnected. For him, quarreling is not a big deal at all. Your leaving is a big deal. Compared with admitting his mistake, He is more afraid of losing you.

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Only those who don’t love you will ignore you

A woman should not always think that you are always clinging to him and can’t live without him. The more he will love you, but the fact is just the opposite. The more you can't live without, the less he will cherish you.

If you want to know whether he loves you or not, the easiest way is to try not to contact him for a period of time. Of course, this time should not be too long, three to five days is enough.

During this period, the person who loves you will naturally take the initiative to find you, and will seriously tell you that he misses you and hopes you will go back soon; the person who does not love you will face you. If you leave, he will ignore you, and he will think that you are just acting like a child, and he will go back without any coaxing.

A reader encountered such a problem. She said: I thought he really loved me, but I went back to my hometown for something some time ago, but he didn’t even call or message me. Makes me doubt his love.

I asked him about this, and his explanation was, knowing that you are home, what is there to contact you with? Hearing this sentence, I gave up instantly. If you leave him for a few days and he is not nervous and ignores you, it only shows that he doesn't care about you at all and doesn't care about you, so he feels it doesn't matter. ?

Actually, what a woman wants is not constant contact, but more about your attitude. Even if you just ask about your daily situation every day, she will feel very warm, and you will not listen. Not asking will make her feel lost and like she doesn't matter in your heart.

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You will know if a man really loves you if you don’t contact him for a period of time

A person who truly loves you will care about your feelings. He will be afraid of losing you, and he will miss you when you leave; for someone who doesn't love you, he will feel that it doesn't matter. You will come back anyway, so what does it matter if you contact him or not?

If you find that during the time you left, he was indifferent to you and was dispensable to you, then stop the loss in time, don’t continue, don’t let yourself get hurt. .

His indifference can only prove that he does not love you enough, and his dispensability can only show that you are not important in his heart. What else can there be for such a person to miss?

You have to understand that someone who truly loves you will not let you be wronged, nor will he be indifferent when you leave. Even if he is away for just one day, he will feel like his days are like years.

Everyone deserves better love. Everyone hopes to have the happiness of being loved. I hope you can get it!