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Mothers, will you hire a nanny to take care of the children?

Sometimes it's not right, but there is no other choice. My parents are both working, and I don't want to be full-time when I am promoted at work, so there is no other way than to invite my aunt.

Our aunt took care of us when we were born. Up to now 16 months, we have met a good aunt. She takes good care of her children with love, and she also does the daily housework. It is not bad to live with the elderly. She's doing well.

But there are a few suggestions you can refer to:

1. If you can, you'd better find someone who knows the roots and let your parents look for them in their hometown.

2. Please communicate with your aunt before, and you must monitor at home, at least the living room and the room where the children sleep. I had nothing to do for the first few months. Look more.

3. Observe the aunt's attitude towards the baby and the baby's attitude towards the aunt from trivial matters. For example, our family Bao sleeps with my father and me. She is very happy to see her aunt every morning. There are four or five children of the same size in our community, who play together almost every day. I added my own mother, WeChat, to get a private understanding of their views on my aunt. Observe the aunt's attitude and expression when Bao cries; My aunt's attitude towards Bao (monitoring) during my absence and so on. I think nature can cover up for a while, but it can't cover up for a long time. If the problem is not serious after several months of observation, you can rest assured in the future, but the monitoring cannot be withdrawn. Now I just watch the crying alarm every few days, and sometimes I forget to watch it.

4. Auntie's choice is good, so it can be much easier in the future, otherwise it is not good for the baby to change aunts frequently. I and a few friends are aunts with children. A friend changed four aunts before and after her house. We have concluded that aunts who are generally simple, kind-looking and have a healthy family are more likely to be satisfied with each other.

We have enough respect for my aunt. We treat menstruation like an elder. We will go out to eat together, take short trips together, buy small gifts for Chinese New Year's birthday, and basically take care of the baby on weekends. She can relax a little. She sleeps alone in a room with some baby clothes and supplies, but we never go in without permission. We will inform her in advance and take her to the physical examination every year. There is a dishwasher for washing dishes, a sweeping robot for mopping the floor, a baby washing machine, and an hourly worker for cleaning every week. Housework is relatively easy. As long as they are not bad people, they care more or less. Even if it is difficult for her to find such a family again, she will pay more attention to her baby.