Husband often contacts his first love, spends his birthday with her and travels. Do you mind?

Sure, you should mind. This is a very immoral behavior, especially when your husband is married to you. You should completely sever contact with your first love, whether she is married or not. Since your husband chose you, don't keep in touch with other women, and don't date alone. He remembers her birthday. Looks like he didn't keep it from you. That's obviously disrespectful and bullying you. You have to talk to him. If you do this again, you will give an ultimatum. Today's society is not an era of polygamy. He should be single-minded to you, don't listen to those excuses. Who else is pathetic? Just stay with her once or twice. Anyone can live without her. Besides, what your husband said was a lie of their shameless behavior. If you want to live up to you, you must let her go. If you want to fail her, don't want you. In case there is a film and television drama scene, she will be terminally ill or something, and she won't live long. You must accompany your husband several times, or you will go with her if she dies unsatisfied or something. )