My girlfriend of 8 years doesn’t want to come to the city where I work, what should I do?

Women say that men should be generous, so they cannot argue with women. But that's also a scoring situation. If you tell him that you want to travel with a man. He still tells you to go ahead with a smile. Such a man is not generous, but he doesn't care.

When your girlfriend tells you that she has a close male best friend. Are you anxious to get angry? Of course, men know men best. How can a man be innocent when approaching a woman, unless he is crooked. But if you tell your girlfriend this, it will definitely not go well. She will think that you are being petty and make men bigger, and then they will quarrel, and then you will have to cajole her. Not a good deal.

A male best friend is actually a "spare tire". Many men have also been male best friends for others, so naturally they don't trust the male best friends around their girlfriends. , many girls don’t save spare parts intentionally, but they have a weak personality. When they are in love, they still think about Xiao Jiujiu, saying that she is their best friend.

Look at what this gay bestie looks like. If he is curvy, it will be nothing. Or something like this...

Brother Hao

Pure friendship between men and women existed before, but it was definitely not a "best friend" or "beauties" relationship. The so-called "best friends" are actually the ambiguity between them, but the degree is different.

He likes her, but she doesn't like him.

Sometimes we have done this ourselves, we like a girl, but she doesn’t like you, so we just follow her silently if we don’t want to give up. Girls, on the other hand, think it's nice that someone likes them, so they become "boy besties." This kind of "best friend" is always waiting to take over. If your relationship is a little conflicted, he will immediately accompany your girlfriend to drink and talk, and send warmth. You pretend to be the bad guy, he pretends to be the good guy. It may become green over time.

Such a "boyfriend" is actually not attracted by his girlfriend, but women are emotional, so to get rid of him, they must magnify his shortcomings and solve them naturally. Or you go find a beauty and let your girlfriend try this feeling. Of course, it is possible that the two of you break up and it ends, or you may know that what you did is wrong and start to keep a distance.

Girlfriend is someone else's backup

This possibility is not "boyfriend", but that his girlfriend likes him and he doesn't like her, but it's okay if someone likes her, that's it Communicating. And she would choose you as the second best choice, but this is not safe, because the other party may wave to his girlfriend and run away. All you can do is either give up or let her really fall in love with you.

Love is selfless internally and selfish externally. That’s why we don’t allow “best friends and beauties” to appear. If you really cherish this relationship, keep your distance from your friends of the opposite sex. If the relationship between you is truly a pure friendship, then you should not let the other person enter your love.