What is the difference between having a son and having a daughter?

In the past two years, there has been a popular saying, "If you love someone, give him a daughter; if you hate someone, give him a son." Although it was meant to be a joke, it hit home. Nowadays, one and a half of the three men love their daughters terribly. Especially when there is a boy at home, every minute people feel what it means to "have a daughter and eat whatever she wants, and a son to have whatever he wants." ".

Some people here often say: "Having a son is fame, having a daughter is blessing." It should be said that this sentence is not quite correct. There are many good sons and good daughters in the world. But one thing we can still agree on is that the more we can understand the selflessness and greatness of maternal love, the more we will be grateful for our mother's love. Therefore, "a daughter is her mother's little cotton-padded jacket" and "a daughter is her father's little lover in his previous life" have become A popular saying that is also recognized by most people.

I am also a daughter. One day, we were chatting about getting dressed, and my mother said that if she likes a piece of clothing very much, she would not want to throw it away even if it is worn out. My pink pajamas, although the hairline is sewn, have not faded, and I still like to wear it. The next day, I went to the street and bought a set of pink, cotton pajamas for my mother. My mother was very happy. She said it was great to have a daughter.

We also have a saying here of "daughter dressing up". It has two meanings. First, it means that a woman is pregnant. If she is pregnant with a girl, the complexion of the pregnant woman will be better and rosy than that of a boy. I don’t know if there is any scientific reason or whether it is true. Anyway, everyone says so.

Another meaning is that when a daughter grows up, she likes her mother to be younger and dress more fashionably. People's clothing reflects a person's mental outlook. Dressing neatly and cleanly is not only a respect for themselves, but also a respect for themselves. Respect from others, I also know that she is more particular about clothes that are decent, neat, and light-colored. Therefore, she buys clothes for her mother every season every year. After hearing a few compliments from others, your mother looks very young and has great temperament. She I will feel happy in my heart and quickly share this happiness with everyone.

My friend’s house is a typical example. His father had been very fond of his sister since he was a child, but he was very strict with him. When he was a child, when he had a fight with his younger sister, his father would grab him and beat him if the younger sister cried and complained. "You are an older brother, how can you beat your younger sister?" Later, he learned to be smart and let his younger sister beat him, and then complained in tears. As a result, his father said, "How old are you, and you still have the nerve to cry after being beaten by her?" From then on, he felt the deep malice of the world.

At that time, I mourned three minutes of silence for this guy. It was really not easy to grow up healthily in such a harsh environment. But later I discovered that it is too common for fathers to love their daughters more. There is a wave of fathers whose emotional intelligence is extremely low when they meet their daughters:

In the eyes of fathers, there is a big difference between raising sons and raising daughters. The requirements for sons will be stricter. They must learn to be independent, brave, and confident from an early age. Once they cry, they will feel like a coward, and they will not feel distressed at all if they are slapped. But the daughter is different. She will subconsciously be more tolerant, even if she cries. My nose feels normal. Boys like to climb high and low since childhood, and are very naughty and mischievous, while most girls are relatively quiet and do not need to worry too much about their families.

In addition, most girls have sweet mouths and will respond positively to others. For example, when they see their father is tired, they will quickly pour a glass of water. And boys may not be very good at expressing their emotions. Oh, I suddenly feel so pitiful. Girls are cleaner and look beautiful if they dress up a little. Boys are different. Their clothes get dirty very quickly and they are always tanned. Sometimes it is inconvenient for a daughter to whisper in front of her father, but she can talk to her mother like a friend. Mother and daughter can talk about anything, and it can also relieve their worries and worries. A mother can talk to her daughter about what she is thinking, and she will listen patiently, then help you, comfort you, and make you happy.

So the daughter is the little cotton jacket of the parents, and the father likes the daughter more.