Gu Jia said that 8% of husband and wife's life is dull. How to find romance in dullness?

We often talk about an old couple, which means that when two people get married for a long time, they will gradually become dull, because they will return to life after all. But after all, marriage is a marriage, and we should look for some romance in the plain life. If the days are calm and there is no turmoil, it may make two people lose confidence in each other's marriage, so marriage also needs to be managed with care.

one: take a trip once in a while.

After marriage, both parties are more around the family, around the children, and fall asleep every day when they are busy, but they ignore that there is another person beside your pillow. As a husband and wife, we should also take a vacation for ourselves, take time out to live alone, whether it is far away or near, spend time only for two people, rediscover the previous romance, face the sea, spring blossoms, and believe that two people will find their sweet feelings again.

two: full of sense of ceremony.

A sense of ceremony in marriage is essential, which may be a bouquet of roses from Chinese Valentine's Day or a necklace for a birthday. These are all the sense of ceremony in marriage, and many people don't pay much attention to it after marriage. In fact, this is the most important thing. Ritual sense can better maintain the feelings between two people, since there is love, it should be expressed. Don't just talk and don't do it, it will make each other lose confidence.

three: go out for dinner and go shopping together.

When we are in love, we often go out to eat and go shopping together, but rarely after we get married. In fact, this is a good opportunity to improve our emotional gentleness. Two people go shopping together hand in hand, have dinner, go to a movie and buy some delicious food, and it's time to fall in love again in an instant.

Marriage originally comes from life, but too quiet life can make people very boring, so it requires two people to run a marriage together, find the beauty of life in ordinary life, and occasionally have a little romance, so that you can feel that marriage is still very happy.