A person’s quality can be seen from his sitting posture prose essay

Sitting posture is very important to a person's overall quality. Sitting posture represents a person's psychological state. And the heart is the general that controls the limbs of the body and the brain. The heart can control everything...

Once I went to the hospital to see a doctor, because an old woman with hemiplegia and some dementia was carried by her children. In front of the famous orthopedic doctor, other patients gave up their seats to this elderly woman. After the famous doctor asked the old woman face to face, he gestured to the old woman to stand up, and the children should not control her. The old woman stood up obediently like a child. The famous doctor raised two fingers and said, "Take two steps forward, just two steps!"

The famous doctor cast an expectant look at the old woman. The old woman really took two steps forward, but the famous doctor still said to her with hopeful eyes, "Take two more steps!" The old woman moved two steps forward. The children were greatly surprised.

The famous doctor turned to his children and said, your mother's disease is not in the bones, but in the heart and brain. The heart controls the brain, and the brain controls action. Heart ischemia means that the heart blood cannot be supplied to the head, and the brain cannot control the bones. It is like a machine. The central part is short of oil. If you put the oil into the secondary parts, and the center does not work, isn't it a matter of urgency? Tendons and other capillaries, ischemia will produce various diseases. This time the treatment at my place mainly started with blood replenishment...

The children and patients nodded in agreement.

The famous doctor prescribed blood-enhancing Chinese herbal medicine for the old woman, and then the children carried the old woman on their backs and walked away happily.

When I got home, I thought over and over what the famous doctor said, "The heart controls the brain, and the brain controls action." Why didn't I remember this knowledge in my mind before? Indeed, you see, when we were children, we wanted to climb a tree. As soon as the signal in the heart was sent, the brain would control the limbs according to the command of the heart, and the limbs would easily climb up the tree trunk under the control of the brain. But now, when my heart is old, when I see potholes on the road, my first reaction is to order my brain to go around them. In this way, the way a person walks, sits, stands, talks, and behaves is inseparable from the heart and brain. Therefore, as early as when the ancients created writing, they created words about the heart: the heart is higher than the sky and the destiny is thinner than paper, there are countless ripples in the heart, the heart is cut like a knife, the mind is evil, etc. The vocabulary of brain: brain, the things stored in the brain...

A few years ago, I gave a friend a book by Yu Dan. My friend said that no one still reads this stuff now, and I can’t read any useful books. . I thought I must be too old-fashioned to keep up with people's thinking nowadays, so I gave the book by Yu Dan that I kept at home to another friend. At that time, Yu Dan's books and speeches encountered opposition from many academic people. Soon, Yu Dan was as hot as a gust of wind. The trend of repeating benevolence, justice, propriety, wisdom and trust also went away.

Once when I went to have my computer repaired, I saw the shop owner’s three-year-old daughter, holding her little hands behind her back, yelling about carrying the rules. I was shocked. After getting to know her a little bit, I learned that the shop owner and his wife were college students, so their The way of raising children is very special. The children are so young, and they are different from the children raised by uneducated parents. The little girl has a very literate temperament and good qualities as a person. I am in awe of a child-like intellectual who can raise such offspring with his own hands.

Later, I read another article in the newspaper: a poor matriarch in Henan Province disciplined her son who was in elementary school to recite the Disciple Rules, but the son failed to honor her in accordance with the Disciple Rules. This parent He beat the child to death.

A college student and a girl from a poor family have completely different knowledge, methods of raising children, and expectations in their hearts, and the results are also different. The once blind Confucius said and the dogmatism that continued Confucius have not been well used in the education of Chinese people.

I personally think that whether in the 1930s, 1950s, 1960s, or 1980s, if our country’s student textbooks always incorporate some of Confucius’ benevolence, justice, etiquette, wisdom, and trust, and the Chinese people’s civility and courtesy , will the overall quality be much better than it is now?

I heard from a friend who traveled to Taiwan that the overall quality and civility of Taiwanese people are very good. There is not a single cigarette butt, fruit core, or waste paper on the road, and everything you eat is always packed in a spare. Put it in a plastic bag and put it in the trash can properly. The advertisements on the street are all in ancient characters. It seems that the true meaning of the ancestors has been put to good use by a Chinese Taiwanese. Taiwan's century-old trees can be seen everywhere, and Taiwanese people don't pick them up on the road...

China is a huge country with a population of 1.3 billion. It is really difficult to manage the people of the country in such a specific way, even if the Living Buddha Jigong is alive, let alone such a big country. A country has only one king. Country and home, home and country, are all the same. Just like a family, it is easy to manage one child but difficult to manage ten children. Then, we Chinese people must manage themselves and discipline themselves in order to improve their own civilized qualities. If everyone is civilized, which country would dare to discriminate against us easily? Yes, you really shouldn’t complain about students’ textbook problems. You should look for the reasons within yourself. Lao Tzu has laid a good foundation for us, but we have not used it well.

I like civilized, inspirational, enterprising and other positive things. But growing up in a rural area, I really want to absorb the desirable people and things around me, and I have always been contending with uncivilized things. I really want to be a lotus that can emerge from the mud without getting stained, but lotus can only survive in water and will wither if moved to dry land.

I like to watch people and things, and I like to appreciate everyone and everything in the city. But when the romance in my heart reaches my eyes, and my face is full of spring breeze, and I cast an excited pursuit towards the flowers, grass and shade, then Inadvertently, from time to time, an adult man will appear under a small green tree or at a fence, urinating on the spot; sometimes on a driving bus, before leaving the busy city, looking at the high-rise buildings and the beautiful gestures of the traffic police, There will be indecent men urinating in front of me again, and sometimes they will boldly face beautiful women on the moving bus...

I feel blushing and ashamed for such people. Fortunately, I gave birth to a woman. Know how to pay attention to details.

Regarding the subsection, one time, I went out to do errands, and the toilet here was not open to the public. I was eager to relieve myself, so I went out to look for the toilet. There were so many high-rise buildings, spacious roads, and quiet green belts that it made me suffocate. After seeing through it, I called my son and asked what should I do? My son said, "A living person can still urinate to death." But I could only hold it in until the work was done. I took the bus home and became incontinent during urination. I had pain in my lower abdomen. What I ejaculated was light-colored blood, and then... The red blood was gushing out, so I immediately went to the hospital. The doctor said that my lower abdomen was suffocated, and I needed an injection worth several hundred yuan to cure it. At this time, I understood those men who once disgusted me with urinating on the spot. I thought if this city set up some public toilets according to regions and tribes, would these indecent people be less common?

I think even if there are toilets in the city, these phenomena can still not be eliminated, because the education and self-cultivation of the Chinese people from childhood are far from enough.

I like to deal with people. In the past two years, when I was doing haircuts for customers, the most profound thing I realized was a person’s sitting posture. Sitting posture can represent a person’s psychology, a person’s thoughts and moral character, and a person’s personality. Civilized education in the family. From the sitting posture, one can observe the quality of a person.

Sitting posture is first controlled by the brain, and sitting posture comes from habitual psychology. A person, let alone teenagers, because teenagers are initially driven by their parents, and their parents' words and deeds are their children's model teachers. Children like to imitate their parents. When you go to school, you will imitate your teacher. As a teenager grows up, you will have opportunities to learn, do, and change.

However, old people often say that from the age of three to adulthood, parental guidance and education are the most critical. Regionally speaking, children in the South are particularly sensible. Regardless of whether their families are rich or poor, their ability to be independent is directly related to the influence of their parents since childhood. This is something that parents and children in the North should learn from.

When a child from the South sits on a barber chair, he will stand up straight. Everything he says and does is like an adult, and his level of civilization will make you feel amazing. They are descendants of the same country, but they are completely different from each other. This is really what the old people say, nine sons from one mother are different! I am proud that our countrymen have such descendants.

For a stereotyped adult, an adult man with inner cultivation comes to a hair salon, asks about the price, sits down, retracts his legs, consciously leans back on the chair, and holds his head straight. , waiting for you to take care of his hair. This dignified sitting posture and motionless, respectful mentality make you feel very comfortable. Most of these people are soldiers from the army. The melting pot of the army has created batches of Chinese people. The army's contribution to society is very great, no less than a famous university. People who come out of the army, their walking, sitting, speaking and behavior, as well as their overall quality, bring us a landscape of elegance and extraordinary temperament. Soldiers have very strict requirements on their sitting posture. It is not artificial, it is essential.

Educated people, the more educated they are, the more civilized they are. Although they have not undergone formal training like the army and seem to be a bit self-taught, they at least have the ability to stand and sit. Know how to respect others.

Then there are businessmen. Businessmen completely understand people when it comes to prices and don’t care too much. The sitting posture varies from person to person, but I still know how to cooperate.

Those who get negative reviews are freelancers, migrant workers, or children who dropped out of school early. From entering the house to sitting in strange and weird postures, they did whatever they wanted without thinking at all. They will not hold their heads straight, but will twist their heads this way and that, making you waste time and effort, but they will be complacent.

Several times I wanted to put a notice in front of the mirror, asking you to sit upright!

From the way a person sits, you can see the quality of a person. For people with good sitting postures, first of all, their brains control them to sit like this, and their brains are controlled by their past thoughts, so they insist on strict requirements for their sitting postures.

I learned my sitting posture from my aunt in the city. My aunt worked in Mudanjiang International Travel Agency. At that time, they often exchanged training in the service industry on walking, sitting, standing and walking. When my aunt is sitting, she always puts her legs together to one side, holds her fingertips on her upper legs, and turns her body slightly to one side. When talking to people, her eyes should be pointed at the Yintang above the other person's eyes. She never talks. Look directly into the person's eyes. My aunt's overall overall quality was very good throughout her life. Even on her death bed, she still left a good impression on us.

My mother’s sitting posture is straight, just like the way women with small feet used to be (but my mother is half a woman with small feet). Her legs are twisted up and down to form a cattail leaf fan, which is a very quaint sitting posture. Although my mother was uneducated, the word "strong" sat in her heart, which gradually made her become very virtuous.

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A person’s sitting posture is very important.

Once, a college student took a picture of a working man on the bus who was sitting on the back platform, hugging his knees, and was very cautious, fearing that his clothes would get dirty, and touching other people. He took a picture with his mobile phone and posted it on the Internet, which caused a sensation. . I admire this wage earner. Although he has a low self-esteem, he first pretends to respect others. He knows how to put himself in a position of his own.

Many people may not even be able to see their own shortcomings and do not want to get rid of them. They are always complacent and complacent about their strengths being recognized by others.

People, no matter what they do, must first put virtue first. Walk with the virtue of walking; use the toilet with the virtue of going to the toilet; eat with the virtue of eating. There was once a person who went to a small restaurant and ate a plate of spicy tofu. No matter how busy the restaurant staff was, he shouted for toothpicks. Can tofu stuff teeth? The waiter brought the toothpicks late, so he made things difficult for him. As a result, the neighbor at the table felt angry and beat him up. The man left with a bruised nose and a swollen face. This kind of people don't know where their place is, and they spend a little money thinking that they really are God.

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From a person’s sitting posture, one can indeed see a person’s quality. The sitting posture is good, the standing posture is good, the language is good, and the overall quality is good. In my eyes, this kind of person, whether local or out of town, boss or wage earner, as long as he comes into the room and sits on the chair, I will respect him and his own performance. Civilized quality, and moral cultivation.

I am not a scholar, I just admire educated and quality people! I have nothing to talk about in terms of civilization, literature, and culture. I just put my experiences and experiences from reading countless people on paper. Maybe you will have some feelings after reading them, which will be helpful in educating your children...