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What moved you the most about "Next Stop Marriage"?

? She has a unrequited love for Gong Jian. Speaking of it, she is a very good girl with strong working ability and good looks. But in front of Gong Jian, she is so humble. In the dust. She used the spare key to enter Gong Jian's house, thinking that she could become the mistress of the house, but Gong Jian said, "Isn't the spare key just for spares?" Spare tire. But she would rather be his backup, begging for that moment of tenderness. In love, who has never loved someone who doesn’t love him/her, who has forged an indestructible body with him, was scarred by him, and then appeared in front of him full of blood and resurrected after being mended. When I saw Qiao Xiaorui, I felt sorry for her and myself. It's not that he doesn't know that he doesn't like himself, it's just that compared to the tearing pain, he is happier curling up in the dream he has weaved for himself. In the dream, he treated me as he imagined, and I was extremely happy. You can call me cowardly and unworthy, but I am willing. No words can compare to the words "I am willing". People need a little thought to survive. Life is already so bitter, why can't you give yourself a sugar-coated medicine? Even if it becomes more bitter after being sweet, I still want to eat it. You say you like a boy, but you don't know if he likes you. Silly boy, I don’t want to lie to you. If you don’t know if he likes you, if you can’t be sure of his feelings for you, then there is no doubt that he doesn’t like you. If you have been deeply loved by someone, you will know that if someone likes you, they can't hide it. His eyes and heart are full of love, his scorching gaze is burning behind your back, how could he possibly hide it.

You are thinking, am I not good enough? If I become better, will he like me? But love is the most unreasonable thing in the world. He will not like you just because you are good enough, nor will he dislike you just because you are not good. You can't escape, you can't forget, you can't control. Gong Jian didn't know that Qiao Xiaorui liked him. Sometimes not taking the initiative was actually a kind of rejection. Men are born hunters, and if they don’t take the initiative, they don’t like it. Gong Jian explained to his mother that Qiao Xiaorui was just his assistant, but asked Deng Caocao to pretend to be his girlfriend. Guan Hao said that the principle of this kind of game is not to be emotionally involved. Obviously, Gong Jian lost. Qiao Xiaorui carefully tested Gong Jian. When a lady's coat appeared in Gong Jian's house for the first time, the woman's intuition told her that there was a ghost. When Gong Jian took off his coat to Deng Caocao because she had a cold and fever, Qiao Xiaorui said, you like her, your eyes can't deceive others, and the nervousness in your eyes when you hold her is something I have never seen before. Qiao Xiaorui was a bystander, and there was nothing like that in Gong Jian's eyes when he looked at her. She knew that the person living there was Deng Caocao, not her. She finally knew that her love for Gong Jian had nothing to do with him. It was just her one-man show from beginning to end. She loves him, so she is willing to let go, fulfill him, and let him pursue his own happiness. So when Gong Jian was about to leave the city, it was Qiao Xiaorui who chose to tell Deng Caocao about it.

In the past, she loved very selfishly, and even played some tricks sometimes; now, she loves very selflessly, so much that as long as you are happy, it doesn’t matter whether I give you anything or not. She is magnanimous and open-minded now, but I miss her selfish love, the one who played tricks for one person. Although she was not so lovable, she was brave, but she makes me feel bad for her now. You have to cry, hate, and feel pain before you let go. Who would want to wake up if they couldn't feel the pain. I remember there was once a boy who, after knowing that I went out to eat with other boys, still bought gifts and asked a friend to give them to me. Although I don't like him, I am still very touched. When you like someone, you don't ask for anything in return, you just want to be nice to them. Changing places, I can't do it myself. I think Qiao Xiaorui never stopped liking Gong Jian, she just stopped asking for his likes. When Gong Jian was in trouble, Qiao Xiaorui was still the first to stand up and help him, but she was magnanimous and sincere. When she saw the man she liked and the woman he liked together, she no longer felt jealous. But a blessing. Loving someone is lonely, because others cannot feel the same joy or pain, and you cannot talk to others; loving someone is great, it makes brave people timid, makes introverts extrovert, and everything becomes incomprehensible. Like myself. I love you and it has nothing to do with you. Whether you love me or not, I will always be there. You love me, I love you; you don't love me, I still love you. I drank glass after glass of wine and got drunk night after night, but I still couldn't wait for your hug. I know, I am like waiting for a ship at the airport, the sun will rise from the west, I can't wait for you. It doesn't matter, I have plenty of time, even if it takes another ten years, it doesn't matter. I don't need you to respond to me, I just want you to allow me to stay with you. Even if you love someone else, even if you treat me with cold violence, I am willing to stay with you, as long as you don't drive me away. Zhang Ailing was so proud, but she was as humble as Sun Lancheng. She said that when she saw him, she became very low, as low as the dust. But she was happy in her heart, and flowers bloomed from the dust. How many people thought they were the protagonists in their lives, only to find out in the end that they were just a supporting role and didn’t even have a single line. The flowers are floating and the water is flowing, a feeling of longing for two places of leisurely sorrow. There is no way to eliminate this feeling, so I just frown, but it is in my heart.

Although Li Qingzhao expresses the melancholy of being separated from her husband, why don't we envy their happiness in being in love?

A person will meet about 29.2 million people in his lifetime, and the probability of two people falling in love is 0.000049. So if you don’t love me, I don’t blame you. How can I bear to blame you? There is such a small chance that it is just my bad luck. So, when Gong Jian said, can I go find Deng Caocao? There was no loss or jealousy in Qiao Xiaorui's eyes, her eyes were bright. I love you, so I want to let you pursue your happiness. If I can't give you happiness, then at least I won't be a roadblock for you.