Only with your heart can you achieve something.

I wrote this article because of something that happened to me yesterday.

Like-minded friends in our writing group have created a special topic, one of which is "Jian Yue Tourism &; I am in charge of sports. As an editor, my job is to collect articles related to travel and sports written by literary friends. The task is not heavy, but it is important to have a serious and responsible attitude and meticulous spirit.

Time flies, the project has been established for more than a month. The editor-in-chief suggested that the responsible editors of each section write a summary about their own columns, with the intention of reviewing the past and looking forward to the future, hoping to make our special topic better and better.

Although I am lazy, I never dare to neglect my task. Sitting next to the computer, I knocked it hard and sent out more than 2000 words. Then I sent it to the group and said happily: I finished the task! But soon the editor-in-chief sent an opinion that my writing was ok, but it was far from the usual level and needed to be revised! The editor-in-chief is very polite, but I guess his inner subtext must be: What a mess! It's simply unsightly! Take it and rewrite it!

People who like writing have a common fault: every article they write is like their own children, and how to read it is so pleasing to the eye and so beautiful! I am no exception. In addition, several articles written before were over appreciated by everyone, and I was a little complacent for a while. Now when I hear the voice of criticism for the first time, I feel a little unhappy, as if I were accused of being ugly and unlovable in person, and I was more or less unhappy.

So I urgently need to find another person to confirm the quality of that article. At 9 o'clock in the evening, my husband came back from work. Before he put down his shoes, I quickly grabbed him and said, help me look at this manuscript. How is it written? As my writing "guidance" teacher, senior internal reference and loyal reader, Mr. Wang has an absolute say in every article I write. I always trusted him.

Mr. Wang sat on the sofa and began to read this article. I quickly politely handed over the freshly brewed Pu 'er tea. I observed that he looked at me three times through his glasses while reading, which made me very uneasy. It seems a little bad! Mr. Wang finally put down his mobile phone and asked me: What exactly do you want to express when you write this article? Why didn't I get it? Obviously there is a suspicion of patchwork! I felt guilty for a while and said, it's a summary! What don't you understand? He adjusted his glasses and said, "Since it is a summary, we should review our previous work, then check for missing parts, learn from experience, continue to do well, analyze the reasons for not doing well, and put forward the next work plan. I didn't see this in your article? " Then he looked at me and asked, did you really write this article with your heart?

I was speechless for a moment and tried to defend myself forcefully, but there was nothing I could do. When I think of every article published before, I have revised it no less than ten times. Only when the sentences are fluent, the expression is clear, the punctuation is correct, and there are no typos, can I enjoy and encourage myself. When writing this article, I was really anxious, and even a little disapproving. I feel it is difficult to write a summary, almost enough! The final result of such careless work is to betray you.

You really need to do good things with your heart.

Last week, my daughter took part in the "Central Plains Qualifier" exam held by the Olympic Mathematics Class. One week before the exam, the teacher sent the knowledge points and difficulties to the WeChat group in the form of video lectures, asking parents to let their children watch it carefully, review it carefully, find out the weak links in their learning process and strengthen it.

I showed my daughter the video and request sent by my teacher, and she said disapprovingly, Mom, I don't need to watch it. I already know those topics! I took her words with a grain of salt and said, are you sure you don't need to review? I hope you can take this exam seriously and don't do so badly as you did last time! My daughter was a little unhappy when she heard what I said. She said, is it not an exam? What's the big deal? Don't worry! I believe I can do well in the exam. Then it's time to read extracurricular books, and it's time to go downstairs and play with friends. I'm really worried to see her heartless appearance.

The exam came as scheduled. My daughter goes to the examination room at 8 o'clock in the morning and comes back at 1 1 o'clock. I cried as soon as I entered the door, saying that the exam questions were too difficult, all of which were unheard of, and the estimated results were not ideal. I think I am an educated mother, and I can do it without saying anything. But my husband stopped me from losing my temper. He took his daughter to sit down and asked her, why didn't your mother let you review well before? My daughter cried and said, I thought the teacher would give us the questions we had learned! Who knows it's all unheard of in books? Where can I do it? Teacher Wang said, why don't you watch the lecture video sent by the teacher? It is full of difficulties and knowledge points. And teachers and mothers have repeatedly reminded you. Tell the truth, what is the main reason for not doing well in this exam? My daughter bowed her head and thought for a moment, saying, I didn't study hard, just wanted to play ... My husband touched her head and said, I wish I knew my mistake. No matter what I do in the future, I must work hard. As long as you work hard, you won't feel so guilty even if you don't do well in the exam. The daughter nodded and said, I remember my father, and I will never do it again.

To say the most perfect woman around me, it must be my colleague Yan Jie. In my mind, she is the best image spokesperson for a good wife and mother. Because she has been so focused on running her own life.

Sister Yan is not only beautiful and elegant, but also has strong working ability. She is considerate and gentle to her family, children and lovers. She is a virtuous woman, and all her thoughts are given to her family except her work. We visited her house. Although the house is not very big, the interior is warm and elegant, and all kinds of knickknacks and decorations are unified and harmonious in tone, style and placement, which makes people shine at the moment and shows the unique aesthetic taste of the owner. And those lush flowers and plants growing in the corner show the hostess's care and care. What I admire most about Yan Jie is her cooking.

Next, these mouth-watering food pictures come from Yan Jie's WeChat circle of friends, and these dishes that can compete with restaurants are all made by Yan Jie.

There is a kind of happiness called eating mom's cooking. I am thinking: Sister Yan's child must be the happiest child in the world! Because she can eat her mother's cooking with love every day. Then Yan Jie's husband is also a happy man. When others are hungry and can only make do with a bowl of instant noodles, he can enjoy his wife's cooking leisurely.

We often say: if you want to keep a man's heart, you must first keep a man's stomach. No wonder Yan Jie and her husband have been loving each other for years. It's okay. They are still holding hands to watch movies and go shopping together, envious of a group of young people in the unit. Sometimes Sister Yan Xihui will invite us to taste her delicious food. A group of cannibals put food into their mouths and said vaguely, Sister Yan, compared with your wife and mother, we can't get married because we can't cook!

At this time, Yan Jie was amused by us. My husband, who is usually serious, is sitting next to Yan Jie at the moment, not talking, quietly looking at his wife, his eyes full of happiness and deep love. ...

In the movie Du Lala's Promotion, an ordinary white-collar worker in Du Lala, after graduating from the English Department of Shanghai University, worked in a private enterprise for two years, and then joined DB Company, an old American top 500 enterprise. She is above average in appearance, straightforward and optimistic in personality and practical in work. When she first entered the company, she made many mistakes because she was not familiar with the rules of the workplace. Later, with her diligence and hard work, she realized her career planning goal step by step-from administrative secretary to the last HR manager.

When she first entered DB Company, she was very good at getting a lot of effective information from Helen, a heartless colleague, so that she had a deep understanding of the new company. When she was in charge of Shanghai New office decoration, she accomplished a task that no one wanted to do well through her constant professional understanding of the company's organizational structure, financial budget and office decoration, which attracted the attention of her superiors.

One of the details that impressed me the most was that when Du Lala first entered the company, he gave a briefing on DB Company in his spare time. No one has ever done such a trivial thing with heart. The briefing she gave was vivid and interesting, which successfully attracted the attention of the big boss and left a deep impression on her. At the company meeting, she praised Du Lala in front of all her colleagues, which made a good start for her future promotion in the workplace.

Attitude determines the level, details determine success or failure. And heart is the best attitude.

Dickens, a famous British writer, usually pays great attention to observing and experiencing life. No matter whether it is windy or rainy, he insists on observing and listening to the streets every day, recording the words and deeds of pedestrians, and accumulating rich life materials for his writing. It is because of this persistence that we can read the wonderful description of the dialogue between characters in david copperfield and see the realistic social background in A Tale of Two Cities. Dickens became a generation of English writers and achieved great success in his literary career.

Intention and seriousness are a person's most precious spirit. It is not only an attitude, but also an ability. Nothing is difficult in the world. As long as you do it with your heart, make it the best and perfect, it will certainly win more and better opportunities for you. Even trivial things in life, such as cleaning, cooking, greeting, paying attention to appearance and so on. It is worth doing well, because it may become the most important thing for you that day.