Damn it, they actually have a circle of friends!

Text/There is a Beauty in the North

1.

Thanks to the powerful WeChat,

Since having it, I have found that life is full of The possibilities are endless.

It helped me understand that the world is huge.

In my circle of friends, there are places where I travel every day.

To be fair, I really like these beautiful people.

Thanks to them, I am such a closed-minded person.

I have actually seen so many niche luxury places.

I feel that life far away is suddenly very close to me.

Fiji, Mauritius, Iceland, Dubai, etc.

In just two months, I played them all on Moments.

Others went to countries I had never heard of.

Although I don’t know exactly where it is,

but when I hear the name of this place I have never heard of,

I feel inexplicably the person who went there. So awesome,

So tasteful, so high-end.

2.

Of course, the existence of the circle of friends made me realize that the world is really small.

Many times, people I thought were out of reach turned out to be friends on WeChat, especially when they liked them in Moments.

There are many times when you may feel:

What? How could they know each other?

How come they know each other? ! ! !

At first you are just surprised, but after you think about it carefully,

A lot of joy and embarrassment will come to your heart little by little...

< p> Later, you no longer dare to post casually on Moments,

No longer dare to comment or like anyone casually.

This society is too small and terrible.

I think I am in a small, closed space where I can run around as I please.

Who would have thought that it would not be until much later that you would realize that the walls of the small space you are in are completely transparent.

3.

My high school classmate posted a message on Moments, and I was surprised to find it in the comment area.

My elementary school classmates and high school classmates are actually college classmates.

And they are in the same class, and they seem to be very close.

I commented, do you know each other?

They replied to me neatly,

Damn it, I didn’t expect you to know each other! !

So they took me as the topic and chatted in the comment area for a long time.

I really wanted to ignore their conversation, but the system always reminded me of the Moments.

By the end of the conversation, I just couldn’t stand it anymore. It was really embarrassing.

It’s such a refreshing feeling to see conversations in other people’s friend circles that are all about you.

Besides, I don’t know at all,

How many other friends of mine do they have on WeChat!

Therefore, a new group chat was created and all the women participating in the discussion were brought in.

So through their conversations,

I discovered that they knew many more people than I thought.

The relationships that I thought were indistinguishable are actually related.

Looking at the lively chatting of several people in the group who I thought were strangers,

I suddenly felt that "***friends" on WeChat are really a scary thing.

Many secrets or privacy,

may be leaked among these "***friends".

4.

Have you ever felt that way.

We were having a good chat, and I thought there would be people who would develop further.

Do you have any objections to seeing a like or comment in his circle of friends?

< p> It happens to be left by someone you really hate.

Their relationship seems closer than yours,

Then, you don’t want to talk to him that much anymore.

You don’t have the confidence to say that your relationship is better.

You don’t have the confidence to say what kind of relationship they are in.

You don’t have the confidence to say that they have said anything behind their backs. What bad things do you say.

In addition to knowing that they know each other, you also know that they are friendly.

The rest, nothing is known.

I have had a crush on the girl for a long time,

I finally mustered up the courage to ask for a girl on WeChat.

After returning home, you browsed through the girl’s Moments with joy.

You happily liked the girl’s positive comments.

Then you realize that

there are many buddies you know in her comments,

they are flirting with each other ambiguously.

You suddenly lost interest in her.

5.

WeChat is a magical place,

Here I finally believed and realized the "Six Degrees of Separation Theory of Interpersonal Relationships".

That is, there are no more than 6 people between any two strangers on the earth.

No matter which country we are in, what race we belong to, or what skin color we have, there are only 6 people.

Think about the distance between you and everyone.

It may only be a few dynamic comments between friends.

The secrets between us may not necessarily cease to be secrets anytime soon.

***Same friends are really dangerous, sometimes they are like time bombs.

It will explode on your fragile relationship at any time,

and blow up all the good feelings and heartbeats that you once had.

***What is so scary about having friends with you?

Maybe it’s the unknown.

While you feel incredible,

laugh at the fallacy that the world is too small,

you will also be keenly aware of their unusual relationship.

And here is the key point.

You have no idea what their relationship is.

You only have constant suspicion.

6.

If you are a bit calculating and calculating,

you may pretend not to know.

Deliberately block out the interactions between them, and then learn about him from other people's mouths.

You will find that he is very different from what you imagined.

You know it well, but you still pretend to be indifferent and drift away;

If you are a person who has no scheming at all, you may ask straightforwardly,

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"Do you know each other?"

After saying this, you basically become strangers.

Because you have,

handed over the initiative to him,

giving him the right to inquire about you from other people's mouths.

You also know that in this world, there are a hundred people talking about you.

However, your explanation is of no use. Originally, you were feeling aggrieved.

But it suddenly took a turn for the worse and you became passive and isolated.

How many relationships have died because of ***’s best friends.

If you still don’t understand what I mean,

Let me give you an example more straightforwardly.

7.

You have fallen in love with a girl who is very innocent and beautiful.

First of all, the first thing you should do is to ask,

If any of the gamers around you know her.

Make sure this girl,

is not your brother’s ex-girlfriend and has not been slept with by your friend.

If everyone says they don’t know her, that’s fine.

Your impression of her should still remain very pure, very clean, and very beautiful.

But if you mention this name, everyone will laugh tacitly.

As you talk about how this girl has a good figure and is great in bed,

From then on, this girl will be blacklisted in your mind,

There is almost never a chance to come clean.

Of course, you won’t let her know these things at all.

All she knows is your sudden indifference and indifference,

But she will never understand the reason.

The girl is still the same girl, and you are still the same you.

Obviously nothing has changed, but why does the feeling change?

The reason comes from your *** friends.

8.

Rumors hurt people invisibly.

These people may say that what you said is wrong and that your evaluation is not pertinent.

But you were directly eliminated without even a chance to explain.

This may seem unfair,

But this is what we do every day. We call this human nature.

I saw you liked another girl’s selfie,

You complimented her on how beautiful she is in your circle of friends.

From that moment on, our estrangement began.

She replied: Why are you still awake? You just picked it up and started drinking outside.

Our misunderstanding went deep.

You ask her back, do you want to come?

She said yes, so I broke up with you directly.

If you can’t remember whoever you have on your friends list, you have a pretty good relationship with them.

Although the probability of *** being friends is so small.

But I can always see,

Behind my back, you are still hinting at other people's hearts.

-End-

Good night, you and the world

Having a reason to leave but being willing to stay

is the best kind of love reason.