As long as the in-laws respect each other, there is no need to interact too much or get too close. What do you think?

My cousin-in-law stole the show when my daughter got married. She actually had a homecoming party that outshone the wedding ceremony. I didn’t expect to see her in-laws look disgusted at the homecoming party, which made me feel bad. .

My sister-in-law looked down upon her cousin, who was in the same class as her in elementary school, and said:

"Don't look at how well my cousin is doing now. She has become a billionaire and has hundreds of people under her." Employee, she was always the last in our class when she was in elementary school.

She was the kind of person who was not very good at studying. She was at the bottom of the class every time she took the exam. >

Although she was studying hard when we were playing, her academic performance was really bad.

In the 5 years of primary school, she never ranked higher than the second-last.

At that time, our classmates all laughed at her because she was an embroidered pillow and gave her such a nickname.

Now, classmates still use this nickname for embroidered pillows. Come and call her."

I asked my sister-in-law strangely: "Why did you give your cousin such a strange nickname?"

My sister-in-law said: "Because although my cousin is She is relatively beautiful, but she is the kind of person who uses her hands and feet to learn arithmetic. She is good at everything but loses at the bottom.

So the classmates gave her such a nickname, saying that she is not good at it.

Although she has turned around now, she will never take off this nickname given to her by her classmates.

We will always use this nickname at our class reunions. Call her by the nickname, and now she is happy to accept it. "

My cousin is indeed very beautiful. She is 1.65 meters tall and likes to braid her hair in a bun all year round.

She has a round face, a high forehead, thick eyebrows, big eyes, double eyelids, a small nose, a small cherry mouth, and a pair of delicate ears.

My sister-in-law has a very fair complexion, and her face is red all year round. It is a translucent red color. She does not need to apply makeup or powder at all. It is a purely natural color.

My cousin sister-in-law is much more beautiful than those female celebrities without makeup. I look a bit like Maggie Cheung.

No wonder her classmates call her Embroidered Pillow. Judging from her appearance, she is indeed very beautiful. It is not an exaggeration to describe her as the good side of Embroidered Pillow.

My cousin-in-law found it very difficult after she finished junior high school, so she replaced her father and worked as a salesperson in a supply and marketing cooperative before she went to high school.

My cousin’s shop was a company under the Supply and Marketing Cooperative, called the Photographic Equipment Company, and it was located at the South Gate at that time.

When I was young, I would go to the south gate to play with my friends. Sometimes I would go to my cousin’s company to drink water.

At that time, my cousin and cousin-in-law were already married.

Later, my cousin-in-law found out that the company was not profitable, so she started running air conditioners herself.

At first, my cousin-in-law was running Chunlan Kelon air conditioners.

Later he started operating Gree air conditioners.

In the end, she became the general agent of Midea air conditioners in this province.

Ten years ago, a friend from the tax department, Lao Zhang, mentioned in a chat: "Your cousin's sister-in-law is very good at running air conditioners. Her turnover has exceeded 100 million."

I said: "No way, my cousin just opened a small business, how can the sales be so big?"

Lao Zhang said: "You may not know that, and neither does your cousin." I will tell you this because I am her company’s tax administrator.

Her company’s tax information is reported to me every month, so I know this.

She is now working as an agent for Midea in the city.

I said, "My cousin never told me this. I only know that she sells air conditioners.

But her sales are high." If the profit is 10%, the profit would be over 10 million.

Lao Zhang said: "I heard them say that the profit from selling air conditioners is possible. If they can't reach such a high level, they mainly get rebates.

In addition, the profit of air conditioners lies in the installation of their air conditioners.

Often the profit from selling an air conditioner is only a few dozen yuan, but the profit from installation may be several hundred.

Because most installers will tell you that the air conditioner’s pipe is not long enough, so you need to use theirs.

There are also other accessories and so on, and the profits are quite high.

This area belongs to the manufacturer’s after-sales service, which is generally given to the sales dealer, who is responsible for installation and maintenance.

I said: "It turns out that there are some channels in the air conditioner. I really wouldn't know if you didn't tell me."

Some time later, Lao Zhang told me: " Your cousin-in-law has already taken down the air-conditioning general agent in this city."

A few years later, Lao Zhang told me: "Your cousin-in-law is even more powerful now. She has taken over the position in this province. The general agent has taken it.

Now your cousin has acquired 150 acres of land in Xicheng and is building an air-conditioning transfer station in this province. All Midea air conditioners in this province are shipped from this transfer station. ”

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My cousin's sister-in-law has a younger brother named Dapeng. He also didn't get started in school. After graduating from high school, he took the college entrance examination and went directly to work in a department store, where he stood at the counter.

After the cousin sister-in-law successfully ran the company, she called Dapeng to the company and asked him to work in the company.

After less than half a year, my cousin-in-law asked Dapeng to be responsible for the air conditioning business in the city.

One day a friend of mine, Xiao Liu, came over and accidentally talked about Dapeng. He said:

"Dapeng is a child who plays. He used to be a little brother to others. He eats and drinks, has two buckets of snot flowing all day long, and wipes the sleeves with his sleeves until they are shiny. He is a very sloppy person.

Ever since your cousin-in-law made him the mayor of the city. After becoming the manager, all the former friends came to him to eat and drink.

Now that Dapeng is prosperous, your cousin gave him a BMW to drive.

Dapeng ate with those friends all day long, and Dapeng paid for them.

He directly installed air conditioners for them, without even paying for them. /p>

Please talk to your cousin, Dapeng is like this, isn’t he a prodigal?

He is a businessman, and he still doesn’t treat his cousin. It’s all broken.”

I said, “My cousin is helping his brother because of their deep brother-sister relationship.

Dapeng is supported by a noble person.

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I think it’s normal for Dapeng’s sister to support him.

In addition, my cousin’s company has strict rules and regulations.

Maybe Dapeng. The air conditioners given to his friends were deducted from the salary and bonus paid to Dapeng by his cousin's company.

Although I know Dapeng, he may have just arrived as the city's general manager. It's a bit weird.

But Dapeng and Cousin are a family, and I'm just an outsider.

I say those irrelevant things, firstly, to make people laugh, and secondly, there are reasons. It is wrong to damage the relationship between their siblings. Third, it is wrong to make random suspicions.

Maybe Dapeng is promoting itself in this way. Or for advertising, etc., it may be reimbursed by the manufacturer.

My cousin’s company can spend it however she wants. I don’t want to go through this trouble.

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Besides, my cousin has a reason for being so big.

I am always an outsider, so it’s not easy for me to make irresponsible remarks.

My cousin is a college student and looks very talented.

He is about 1.8 meters tall, has thick eyebrows and big eyes, and looks very similar to Zhu Shimao.

My cousin works in the same company as my father. He studied mechanical manufacturing and worked as a technician in the company. After being introduced by my father and mother, my cousin and my cousin-in-law got married and had children.

My cousin is a good person, but he knows nothing about business conditions.

Once my cousin went to his cousin's company and saw three salesmen playing poker, so he couldn't help but go up to manage them, scolded them, and disliked them for working during working hours. Playing is against company policy.

After being scolded by their cousin, these three salesmen were very angry, so they all submitted their resignations to their cousin.

My cousin-in-law and my cousin had a good fight at home over this matter.

Cousin-in-law and cousin said: "Why do you care so much? The three of them are my favorite salesmen.

As long as they can complete the business, they can make money for our family. Money is enough. As for them playing poker at work, that’s just for them to relax, so they don’t have to worry about them at all.”

My cousin said: “Every company must have a system, and our unit is fine. The rule is that you must not play poker at work.

If there is no such rule, and others will not obey, how can this unit still operate? "

My cousin said: "It seems that you really don't know anything about managing people.

There are people who go to and from get off work on time all day long, but they have no effect on the company at all. What use do you have for such employees?

Some employees only come to work for one hour a day, but they can bring you many, many benefits.

He may be irreplaceable by dozens or even hundreds of people. If you don’t use such an employee, do you have a disease in your head? ”

The final result of the negotiation between the two parties was that the cousin could no longer interfere with all the cousin’s business in the company, and the cousin would work in his class.

The cousin felt uncomfortable. I felt aggrieved, and then I ran home to complain to my parents.

My mother enlightened my cousin and said, "Don't go to your wife's company now. If you go, you will only cause trouble for him." Just take care of yourself.

Anyway, your wife earns money for your family and does not give the money to others. Why do you worry about it? "

After listening to my mother's words, my cousin quit his job and became a shopkeeper and never went to my cousin's company again.

After a while, my cousin came over. Said to my mother:

"I am practicing Qigong at home now. As I practice it, the results are visible. I feel like I am now meeting with them in Zhongnanhai all day long.

I heard every word they said clearly.

Even when it was my turn to speak, I couldn't say a word. "

When my mother heard what her cousin said, she quickly told her to stop practicing Qigong. If she continued to practice, her brain would be damaged.

Fortunately, my cousin was very good at it. Listening to my mother, this is the end of qigong.

When we heard what our mother said about my cousin, we laughed so happily that our stomachs hurt.

< p> On October 1 last year, my cousin told me that I must attend their daughter’s wedding reception.

So we arrived at the wedding reception as scheduled.

We were completely shocked when we arrived at the hotel, because this is a five-star hotel with very luxurious decoration.

The entire hall at the homecoming party was more grand and luxurious than the wedding. .

We have also attended weddings before, but compared to this one, it was obviously inferior by several levels.

I counted the entire video. There are eight large cameras.

The whole scene is in European style.

TV announcers and actors are specially invited to perform live.

Especially the parents of the bride and groom have to speak.

It is really more grand than a wedding.

The strange thing is that the parents of the groom do not speak, only the cousin of the bride. Instead, they held the speech and gave a toast.

The parents of the bride and groom were standing nearby.

I saw that the parents of the groom had dark faces. The above person showed a very disgusted expression.

So my wife and I said: "Why do I look at the groom's parents and feel very disgusted with this matter. "

My wife said to me: "This is the first time I have participated in such a high-level homecoming banquet. Most people just invite one guest to win over me.

Cousin and sister-in-law, they are having a homecoming banquet this time. I just counted about 100 tables for guests.

This limelight must have overshadowed the bride and groom’s side.

I heard that the groom’s side was from the county, and they attended the wedding in the county.

The groom works in an agency.

The groom’s father is a staff member in an agency, and the groom’s mother may work in a company.

My cousin’s child has just returned from studying in the UK.

The two families are too far apart.

Even the wedding house was bought with money from my cousin-in-law. It is a multi-story house with an area of ??more than 200 square meters. The husband cannot afford to buy such a good house in the city.

If I were my cousin-in-law, I would definitely not hold this homecoming banquet in such a high-profile manner. It would definitely be bad if it was too high-profile.

Because this homecoming banquet is definitely more than a wedding, it will make the other party very uncomfortable.

Therefore, I feel that the other parent’s disgust is normal.

However, this has created a rift between the in-laws and I don’t know what will happen in the future. "

Less than half a year later, my cousin's daughter and her husband divorced.

After my daughter's divorce, my cousin has been hiding at home. She feels shameless to see people. I tend to be a little depressed.

I personally think that in fact, when it comes to marriage, parents only need to do their best to help their children, and there is no need to show it externally.

Just like my cousin. My cousin's sister-in-law prepared a homecoming banquet for her daughter in such a grand way, which looked very grand, but she and her in-laws had troubles.

Because of my cousin's behavior, she made the homecoming banquet a higher priority. A wedding will definitely make the other person’s family feel very uncomfortable.

In addition, it is more appropriate to get married if the two families are very different. There are many problems.

If the children do not interfere with their parents' affairs, they may get along very well after marriage.

However, the hands of both parents are too long, which will cause the children to get along very well. It will have a decisive impact on their marriage.

As long as the in-laws respect each other, there is no need to think about becoming friends.

Because the in-laws themselves do not have any. Blood relationship.

They had no different work and life experiences before.

It was purely through their own children that they had such a relationship.

< p> If the quality of both parties is very high, it would be very good to be able to become a pair of close friends like Yu Boya and Zhong Ziqi that will be passed down through the ages at a glance, but this opportunity is almost impossible

Especially if the parents. Comparing each other will have a huge impact on the children's marriage, and may even cause them to divorce.

Therefore, it is better for the in-laws to keep a certain distance, and there is no need to travel too much.

For the happiness of their children, parents still have to take care of themselves.