Faye Wong’s “regret”: After her mother passed away, she resented her father the most because her brother was still unmarried at the age of 54

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There are too many bloody and surprising stories in the entertainment industry. As the singing queen Faye Wong, her story is comparable to a large-scale TV series.

The married life of Faye Wong’s parents was not happy. They were separated for many years. Later, Faye Wong’s mother passed away from cancer. Faye Wong believed that her mother’s death had a lot to do with her father.

So I have been resentful towards my father for many years. As my father gets older, I can only slowly dissipate the resentment in my heart and take good care of my aging father.

Faye Wong was born in Beijing in 1969. Her grandfather was really a prominent figure. He graduated from Peking University and served as a legislator before liberation. He has been living in Hong Kong since then. Faye Wong's father is a coal engineer, and her mother is a soprano singer in the China Coal Mine Art Troupe.

Faye Wong must have been deeply influenced by her mother, and she developed a strong interest in singing.

Faye Wong also has an older brother. One of the siblings takes his father's surname, and the other takes his mother's surname. Before the age of 15, Faye Wong had always followed her mother's surname of "Xia", and it was not until later that she changed her name to Wang.

Faye Wong has grown up with the noise of her mother and father. Every time the two of them quarreled, she would quietly hide in the corner and sometimes cry secretly, just not wanting to listen to their quarrel. .

When she was six years old, her father was sent to work in a cadre school, and Faye Wong’s mother raised her two children alone.

The distance is far away and the noise is gone. For Faye Wong, this may be a blessing.

After all, there is still a male missing in the family. It is not easy for Faye Wong’s mother to raise two children alone. Especially carrying heavy objects is even more strenuous. When storing Chinese cabbage in the winter, Faye Wong's mother borrowed a cart from others. She pulled it in front, while Faye Wong and her brother helped push it in the back.

Faye Wong and her brother are both filial children. During the absence of their father, they have always tried their best to help their mother.

A few years later, Faye Wong's father returned to Beijing. They all said that "a little separation is better than a new marriage." After not seeing each other for many years, the two of them should be less "quarrelsome", right?

But the two people still quarreled often, and the quarrel could lift the roof off.

Finally, Faye Wong's father said: "Who can bear this kind of life? But for the sake of our children, we can't divorce. Let's live separately as before, without seeing each other. Maybe we can still be together in the future. Better.”

Faye Wong’s father applied for a visa and went to live with his parents in Hong Kong.

It was a special era at that time. Many literary and artistic workers were not welcomed and even suffered various kinds of discrimination.

Faye Wong has been very good at studying since she was a child. Her only interest is singing. She originally thought that her mother would support her idea of ??singing, but she did not expect that Faye Wong's mother was firmly opposed to it.

Because her mother is a literary and artistic worker, in a special era, only she knows the hardships and hardships of literary and artistic workers, so Faye Wong’s mother does not want her daughter to bear these pains and follow her old path.

Perhaps Faye Wong’s mother and Faye Wong’s father were born with opposite opinions. At this time, Faye Wong’s father was particularly supportive of his daughter’s literary and artistic career. At that time, Faye Wong's father was in Hong Kong, and the Hong Kong music scene was developing extremely prosperously.

After taking the college entrance examination, Faye Wong was admitted to the biology department of Xiamen University. Her father took care of all the procedures for her to go to Hong Kong. So Faye Wong gave up enrollment and went to Hong Kong to find her father.

Her father helped find a teacher, and Faye Wong studied vocal performance with this teacher.

Later, Faye Wong's singing career developed particularly prosperously, and she sang many classic songs, which became popular in the streets and alleys of Hong Kong.

But two years later, Faye Wong received news from her mother that her mother was diagnosed with breast cancer. When the princess heard the bad news, she burst into tears.

Faye Wong wants to return to Beijing from Hong Kong immediately, and hopes that her father can return to Beijing with her to take care of her mother.

The two returned to Beijing together, but what Faye Wong didn't expect was that her father stayed in Beijing for a week and then returned to Hong Kong.

At that time, Faye Wong asked her father bitterly: "Why don't you stay with your mother in the hospital?"

Her father had no choice but to say: "No matter what I do, it is of no use. I am with her." The person next to me is in a bad mood, so I’d better go.”

Looking at her mother alone in front of the hospital bed, she thought of the years she and her mother had spent together, and the bits and pieces that she didn’t want to remember. cried.

She secretly made up her mind that she would never be like her mother and find a man who didn't love her.

Two years later, Faye Wong and Dou Wei got married. This was the man she carefully selected, but at that time, Faye Wong didn't know what "one person is the same before marriage and the same after marriage."

The marriage between the two was very unhappy, which made her frustrated. Invisibly, Faye Wong followed in her mother's footsteps.

Her mother's condition became more serious, and even doctors said her mother would not survive much longer. A few years later, Faye Wong's mother died of cancer.

Faye Wong felt a lot of guilt in her heart. Maybe she should not have gone to Hong Kong, maybe she should have listened to her mother and went to college, maybe she should have spent more time with her mother.

As much as he resents himself, he resents his father.

Faye Wong attributed all this to the long-term separation between her father and mother. If her father could be more considerate of her mother and take more care of her when she was sick, her mother would not have died at the age of 60.

On the surface, Faye Wong does not have any conflict with her father, but there is a deep gap in her heart.

Divorce and marriage seem to have become the main theme of Faye Wong's emotional life. She and her second husband, Li Yapeng, also divorced not long after. They also gave birth to a daughter, who still lives with her mother.

Both her first husband and her second husband have a daughter. Faye Wong has been living in Hong Kong with her two precious daughters.

Marriage did not bring any happiness to Faye Wong. The only thing left was a pair of daughters.

My brother went to the UK after graduating from university. He heard that his mother had died of cancer, and my sister in Hong Kong had experienced two failed marriages and returned to China.

Faye Wong's brother's development was not very smooth after he returned to China. At that time, he planned to be Faye Wong's agent. After working for a while, he found that it was not very suitable for him and he still wanted to go into business.

Faye Wong gave her brother 500,000 yuan and told him: "You will pay it back when you make money in the future. If you don't make money, I will support you."

Brother's efforts , Faye Wong has been watching it. Since her mother passed away, her only remaining relative was her brother. As for her father, maybe his thoughts were not on the two siblings.

Faye Wong's relationship is not going well, so she is also very worried about her brother. She often says to her brother: "Brother, you must pay more attention to your marriage."

Her brother replied: "Marriage is still good. It depends on fate. "

If the elder brother doesn't take the initiative, the younger sister should pay more attention. So Faye Wong introduced a female singer to her brother. When the female singer heard that she was Faye Wong's brother, she was very satisfied immediately.

After the two people started dating, the woman discovered that although Faye Wong's brother was in business, he didn't make much money. Later, he hinted to Faye Wong many times that he wanted her to help him more in his career, but in the end nothing happened.

Not long after, the female singer broke up with her brother Faye Wong.

Later, Faye Wong introduced her brother to a female university teacher, but due to some reasons, it still failed.

Faye Wong is increasingly worried about her brother’s marriage, and her brother is still 54 years old and has not gotten married.

Although Faye Wong and her brother were somewhat estranged from their father because of what happened to their mother, they still continued to enlighten themselves from the bottom of their hearts and accompanied their elderly father in Hong Kong.

Back then, the father and the mother did not divorce because of their children. They continued their love in name only and tortured each other.

But now Faye Wong will not get married just because of her children, and she will never give in to relationships. She can take up and let go, and she dares to love and hate.

Even if I have children, I still have a strong sense of self and always put myself first. If I get married again, it won’t be because of the children this time.

Faye Wong was the hardest hit by her first marriage, but now she has let go, and said: "The fate of two people has come, and I feel that we will not be happy together, so there is no need to force it. I I don’t want to talk about the beginning and end of this marriage in detail, because I don’t want to talk about other people. In fact, many things are not right or wrong.”

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