"Model husbands" are all trained

Teacher Zhao in the previous article has a “model husband” that everyone envies and an ideal marriage status. People who don’t know may envy Teacher Zhao for his good life while lamenting that he is not as good as Zhao. Good luck, teacher. I think the reason why I am unhappy is because I have not met a "model husband" like Teacher Zhao's family.

Don’t you know that a “model husband” is not born, but cultivated? Just like a comment from a Jian friend, a woman who has a "model husband" must have superb husband-taming skills and be good at training. Yes, she must be a wise woman, a master at handling intimate relationships, and has a high emotional intelligence that ordinary people don't have.

Let’s just talk about Teacher Zhao, who has an average appearance and a carefree personality. In her own words, she is clumsy, can’t cook, and is extremely lazy. On the surface, she doesn't seem to be a good match for such an excellent husband. So how did she find such an excellent husband?

Of course, this is just a humble statement. A good marriage must be mutual giving and mutual achievement based on love. It is impossible for one party to give blindly and the other to enjoy blindly. Even if one person is willing to give all the time, such an unequal relationship cannot last long.

I remember one time during a chat, Teacher Zhao mentioned that when they first met, her husband was not the "model" he is now. Instead, he was a stupid, poor boy who only gave Teacher Zhao a book as a gift when they first met. The reason why he is so good now is because of her training.

For many years, Mr. Zhao’s husband has indeed been the one doing the shopping and cooking, but other things such as cleaning up the house, creating a relaxed and happy atmosphere for the family, and other spiritual civilization construction have all relied on Mr. Zhao.

Colleagues who have been to Mr. Zhao’s home know that although their home is not luxurious, everything is warm and comfortable. Teacher Zhao claims that he is a literary young man who likes reading. The house he keeps at home is artistic, fresh and filled with a scholarly atmosphere.

Although Teacher Zhao is relatively "lazy" himself, he is good at discovering the strengths of others and is good at praising others. Teacher Zhao is not rigid about trivial matters and is easily contented. She never picks on the things that her husband is given to do, but encourages them. With Teacher Zhao's praise and encouragement, her husband naturally became more and more diligent and capable.

Another point is that Teacher Zhao is a master of calculating and living. You can buy relatively high-quality things for a small amount of money. Therefore, although the couple's income is not too high, they can live a bright and carefree life.

In Teacher Zhao’s words, they are just poor and happy. Others are trying their best to find connections, get projects, evaluate professional titles, and then take vacations to travel abroad. Teacher Zhao and the others never blindly follow the trend, and are content to live the life in front of them. After doing their jobs well, they enjoy the joy of traveling around by car.

It is Teacher Zhao’s wisdom in being lazy and showing weakness, grasping the big ones and letting go of the small ones, as well as her wisdom in appreciating and praising others, as well as her contentment and contentment mentality, which makes her a successful person on the podium and a good person when she comes down. He is a model husband who knows the kitchen, loves life with a sense of style, is good at photography, playing table tennis, loves his son and dotes on his wife.