I really want to travel, but I can't live without my family. What should I do?

I believe many people have problems. At different stages of life, they will be entangled in different things, some things can be put aside, and some things can't be ignored.

Tell me about my experience. One year, my friends and I were going to travel, and everything was ready, just waiting to step on the gas pedal and go out. But my mother was suddenly hospitalized, so I can only say sorry to my friends, some of whom are actually new acquaintances. Thank them for understanding me.

Really, travel can be suspended, but not with parents. Maybe some people want to spend time with their wives and children. I won't feel too depressed if I am trapped by things at home.

I saw many people traveling with their children or sick parents on the Internet. I think this family should be the happiest in the world.

If you can't go out because of your parents or children, you can discuss with them and have an unforgettable trip together. Maybe we can take our children on holiday, so that we can not only exercise their abilities in all aspects, but also broaden their horizons and grow better.

If you can't control the things you encounter, and you can't have any expedient measures, then handle them with peace of mind. I think it's very thoughtful of you. All the beautiful scenery will be left for you.

I have a friend whose old father has cancer. He put aside his career and hobbies, took care of his father wholeheartedly and accompanied him through the last journey. His father is satisfied, and so is he, because there are no regrets in life. He gained a lot when he resumed his interest.

When you choose to stay at home and deal with things, you will remember this choice with no regrets all your life. If you feel that things at home are not important to you and choose to leave without regrets, then the bad reviews of your family should also be without regrets.

Therefore, stay with your family when they need you most, and they will not hesitate to give up their plan to stay with you in the same situation.

Therefore, there is no need to rush in life. Every footprint you leave is meaningful and has a story, which is no worse than that on the trip.

Lao Tzu said, never leave home and know the world; Look at heaven without peeking. It is far away, but it knows very little. Knowing that a saint can't do it, he doesn't see it.

Stay at home and know what's going on in the world. You can know the changes of the sun, the moon and the stars without looking out the window. The farther you go out, the less you know. So saints can understand the truth without action. You can understand the principles of nature without looking. You can achieve something by doing nothing.

That sentence, far away, knows very little, much like what is said in English. The more you learn, the less you know. The more we learn, the less we know. That's the truth. The more you learn, the less you know. Every time I open a door, I find there are too many things I have never seen before.

Travel is the same. The more places you go, the more places you will find. You will also find that traveling is an endless task. I can't finish it anyway, so I can only do my best. Don't force yourself. Besides, what you see now is basically human heads.

Since economic conditions are limited, it is impossible to take Wan Li Road, so study at home in thousands of books. How much can make up for the lack of Wan Li Road.

In addition, make efforts to make money now to prepare for the future trip to Wan Li Road.

Thank you for your invitation and trust!

1. It's normal to feel under 30. Everyone may want to get rid of the bondage at some point, especially when the work life after marriage is not very balanced. At this time, the idea of getting rid of it is easy to expand, and it is reasonable to want to go out and take risks.

2. It is true that when we were young, everyone probably didn't have enough money to travel, and finally we had spare money in our pockets, and we found ourselves in an embarrassing period of "being old and young". At this time, no matter what you think, you should put family first. Even though it is often said that career comes first, personally, without a stable family as the backing, how can you succeed easily?

3. From your statement, you can understand "entanglement", so you can judge that "your subconscious still thinks that family comes first". You are a kind and considerate person, but at this time, reality and dreams have a short-term conflict, so if you are depressed and self-harm, you might as well negotiate with your family and go out for a week in a short time. Chances are, you will turn back halfway, because when you see others in pairs during the trip, you will naturally think of your family and your responsibilities. Don't go too far, it's easier to leave some room for yourself, so as not to want to return it right away.

Many people think that marriage and family are a burden, mostly because they are used to the warmth of the family and ignore the happiness they have already got. When you calm down and think about it, you will find that you have gained a lot. Those who live in daily necessities, soy sauce and vinegar tea, and have been baptized again and again, will eventually turn around and say to themselves as they grow older, fortunately, they have not given up their family, a small world that you have loved and hurt thousands of times.

Friends, everything has a solution, communicate with your heart, and believe that those family members who love you will give you the warmest answer!

I wish you happiness!

Many things, opportunities are not without, the key is whether you fight for them.

A lot of things can't be done. Since you have this idea, you should choose a relatively free time, such as winter and summer vacations and weekends. You can also take your children and your wife to travel.

When family members have different rest time, they can also choose to travel only with their children. Bring some special products back then, or make an appointment to travel together next time.

The most important thing in life is happiness. Traveling together can bring happiness and happiness to your family. Isn't a person's initial pursuit to hope that people around him are still happy? Since there are pursuits and dreams, why give up for various reasons? Finally, when you are old, you really have no chance.

See if you can find a way to get away, arrange everything at home, or find someone to take care of it and make time for your trip. It would be great if you could. If you can't keep too many things at home, you have to put aside the idea of traveling for the time being and make other arrangements when conditions permit in the future, so as not to bring inconvenience to your home.

There will always be regrets in a person's life, and a life with regrets is perfect! Maybe we can't do what we want to do most in the best years, or maybe you have no time when you have money, but you have no money when you have time. Many things always run counter to our wishes, and there are always endless things around us, so let it be. In short, everything is always unsatisfactory, which makes us miss our best years and do what we want to do most!

Life is short, and years are fleeting. Doing what we want to do may be our greatest wish, and we will not waste the afterlife. We always hope that everything is so perfect, but the fact is always not so perfect. We should study while we are young, find a job after graduating from college, get married and have children after the job is stable, and take care of his life and study after giving birth to the child. When children become independent, they find that they are no longer young, and their parents are already white-haired and have worked hard for most of their lives.

But the fact is that not everyone can get what they want. We like nature and the beauty of the world, but what is the use of having time to like it?

Life is just a few decades, and it is fleeting. We should do what we like in the best years. Then we must plan ourselves well, make plans, study hard when we should study, and make money when we should make money. You know, traveling abroad requires money, including travel expenses, scenic spots, catering and accommodation fees, and all kinds of expenses are inseparable from money.

If you are single, you may not be under pressure, so plan your trip while you have time. Let's go! If you are busy at work, your family is under great pressure, and the mortgage and car loan are overwhelmed, plus the children's study and living expenses, it is not a small expense for you. Where can I have spare money to travel? Then I suggest you don't travel far. Just take your family to the neighborhood on weekends.

Living is a state of mind, no matter what, it is a lifetime, no matter whether you go far away or not! People can't do whatever they want while they are alive. We have a family to take care of, parents to support and wives and children to take care of. Living is sometimes more of a responsibility. For the sake of family, we should learn to restrain ourselves or keep our thoughts secret. Maybe this is our life, and we should learn to adjust and accept it. If your family conditions are good, that's another matter!

Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it. As long as we make good plans and arrangements, it is still possible to arrange family trips once or twice a year. Work and career are always busy. Arrange your work reasonably and start with your family when you have time!

1. Personally, I think this phenomenon is very common: when I was young, I might be busy studying, looking for a job, falling in love and getting married. When everything is stable, I want to go out for a walk, but I can't leave at this time.

2. Family reasons: parents need to be taken care of physically? Or do you have a wife and children? If it is the former, it is appropriate to take care of parents, so it is not convenient for me to give advice. According to the second half of the question, I guess it's because of the latter. After having a family, from the perspective of family, I certainly hope to take care of my family. It's not easy to start a family. From the point of view of family harmony and management, I think you can talk to your partner. Although I am not good at getting along with my family, I think your's ideas need to be exchanged sometimes. After all, it's a long time to be together. If we don't discuss anything, over time, there will be conflicts, which will be fierce. When people get along with each other, they are often dissatisfied with some small things and become bombs. I used to have a friend whose husband would "leave his friend behind" to travel, but he was really super kind to my friend, a good husband and a good father. Of course, every couple will have their own mode of getting along, and the specific problems can only be analyzed in detail. From the perspective of personal growth, I don't think I agree that having a family means letting go of what I like. Life is too short to regret. Try to connect what you want to do with your family from a realistic perspective. Like the friend I mentioned before, he is doing very well in this respect. If you have a dream, you must pursue it. You will never regret it, but try not to hurt your family. There are many ways to solve problems and contradictions. The key is how you can achieve your goal.

Life is not just rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but also poetry and distance. The yearning for a better life, the pursuit of poetry and distance are the rights of each of us. However, in real life, it is not as we wish, how to travel because the money is not enough, the children are too young to be taken care of, and there are too many things in the unit to get away from, so it is not a simple thing to start traveling.

But the simple things in life, as long as you have an ideal in your heart, there will be a way to realize it.

For example, if I want to travel to European countries such as Britain, France and Germany, I can make preparations in advance and collect information from these countries, including detailed information such as routes, scenic spots, food, customs and climate, so as to be aware of it. Then, it is worthwhile to make financial preparations, so it is also worthwhile to get an extra job. When all conditions are ripe, you can start traveling.

Thank you for inviting me! I really want to travel, but my family can't leave. What should I do? Let me share my opinion.

Everyone has a dream of traveling in his heart. How free and relaxed a trip is. As for the question you mentioned, we don't know the specific situation of your family, but during the trip, there are also married people with children (children don't go to school). The family is also very happy by car. It is really something they like, and we will try our best to achieve it. Don't leave regrets for life! Right?

It is not external, but whether you are really happy. In fact, many people are not alive to understand why they are alive. Is it really vulgar to pay for a house, a car and money? The external brilliance is really beautiful, will it really make sense inside? Step by step every day is enough. Throw it away, boy! ! ! Do what you like bravely, and you won't regret it later. Of course, family is very important and we can't let go of too much. It's hard for you to do what you like, and of course we can't be too selfish. In fact, the best way is also the simplest, communicating with family. Or take your family to your favorite distant place. I don't know exactly why you stopped you from moving forward. No matter what I just said or other reasons, the solution is always more difficult than reality. Give your family a peace of mind. Go your own way bravely. I once saw an interview video, all of which were interviewed by elderly people in their seventies. I asked: When you were young, did you regret or regret what you wanted to do but didn't do? The old man replied, I used to like a girl and I was afraid to speak. I was young and timid at that time. Other old people also replied that I wanted to go far away and travel around the world. There were too many reasons that hindered me, so I didn't go in the end. Wait, a series of answers. Finally, the interviewer asked, if you were given another chance to go back in time, would you do it? Everyone replied firmly that I would definitely go. Here, I ended an experience, I opened my heart and boldly realized what I wanted. Otherwise, regret is very sad.

Ask yourself, if life ends here, will there be no regrets? Yes Then why don't you finish it quickly

Me too, Wuxi. I have never been to Yixing, Suzhou, Nanjing or Shanghai. One is busy at work, and the other is that there are too many people on holidays and they don't want to run. The children are too young, and I don't want to leave them with my parents to go out to play. Try hard for a few more years. I'm a little free and I really want to take my parents for a walk.