Boyfriend insists on traveling with female colleagues. Should we break up?

First of all, from the question you asked, the main keywords are boyfriend, female colleague, travel and breaking up, while the hidden keywords are solitude, change of heart, cheating and not loving me.

Judging from the combination of these keywords, I guess you should ask a series of questions in your heart, such as:

During the time when I was a boyfriend, he actually went out to travel alone with his female colleagues. Did he change his mind?

Is it possible for him to cheat when they travel together?

I clearly told him my feelings, but he insisted on going regardless of my feelings. Does he not love me anymore?

Will he say yes immediately when I break up with you?

……

In fact, you have clear answers to all kinds of questions, but you are still trying to convince yourself. Convince yourself with his previous excellent qualities.

Love is actually a wonderful thing, and the authorities are fascinated. Unless it's still not in my heart.

So you asked this question.

Let's analyze your boyfriend's mentality.

In your boyfriend's relationship with you or boyfriend and girlfriend, he still ignores your feelings or opposes traveling with his female colleagues. Suppose two people travel alone, then his mentality is either to escape or to like. Escape is to escape from your space, like is to like the feeling of being with that female colleague all the time. Whether to break the contract or not is actually a contest of weight in his heart. In his heart, he feels that he would rather make you unhappy than that female colleague. Obviously, on the balance in his mind, he is inclined to the female colleague. Of course, this is just a hypothesis. This assumption is that this female colleague has no interest relationship with him, no bearing relationship at work and no family relationship.

My boyfriend obviously changed his mind, at least not as much as he loved you, cared about you and cared about you. There are two possibilities. First, he likes this female colleague. Second, he is tired of you.

Let's analyze your mentality again.

Women and men have a reverse trend in love. The more difficult it is for girls to extricate themselves in the process of love, the longer it takes for boys to extricate themselves. This is the trend of most love affairs.

You still like your current boyfriend, but what he did this time made you disheartened. You have recalled a lot of his past, both good and bad, but when you think about it recently, you will find that most of them are bad. So your heart hurts, too. You want to break up, but you don't have the courage to mention it. You're afraid of losing him. In fact, you are afraid of changing your present life state because of losing him. So you came up to ask questions.

Combined with the state of you two, we can see that you haven't had a heart-to-heart conversation for a long time. I suggest that if you still want to develop, solve this problem first. Sit down first, let's open our hearts and say something, and we can choose to drink a little wine at night.

You can talk with the following questions. After the conversation, try to answer the following questions yourself:

1. Did he include you in his life plan?

2. Can his itinerary planning with his female colleagues verify his change of heart or derailment?

3. What other obligations has he not fulfilled as your boyfriend? Can he compromise?

4. Does he want to break up?

5. Do you want to break up?

These questions can basically determine what you think in your heart, and then you can do whatever you want. Emotional things can't be slapped, and there is no need to be too entangled. As long as life is positive, there is nothing wrong with loving another person. Good luck, good luck. Smile, hahahaha.