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"I finally slept with my best friend's boyfriend ..."

Don't talk about the past, just talk about the reasons.

Ask questions:

He was my best friend's boyfriend at first. That night, he wouldn't let me go home on his birthday, saying that everyone wanted to have a good time. When the time comes, everyone will get a room outside and give me a separate room, and then I will agree.

Only later, inexplicably, it became that I shared a room with him. After going in, I was even more embarrassed to find that there was only one bed. At that time, I drank too much, so I didn't care and fell directly on the bed. I had sex with him in the middle of the night ...

The next day we still got along as before, not too embarrassed. After going out for dinner together, he still wouldn't let me go home, so we stayed in the hotel for another two nights. When I woke up on the third day, he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I'm a little surprised. He said that he broke up with my best friend in the middle of the night before.

I was a little touched at that time, at least he didn't have two feet on both sides. And then we were together. In the meantime, we had a quarrel. Later, I ate and drank too much with my friends, called him and said I missed him and made up again. But then it was off and on.

He is a playboy, and there are always different ambiguous objects around him. I can't believe he showed me pictures of those girls and told me that people were dead set on him. He told me this as soon as we were in bed. I got angry, got dressed and left, and he didn't come after me.

Usually, I am very inconsiderate. When I snore, he must wake me up and go out to order together. If he arrives first, he must eat without me. When he goes shopping fast, when I tell him to slow down, he will be impatient ... all kinds of details and feel very tired.

But the more so, the more I feel that I can't let him go. I think he treats me differently from others. He still has me in his heart, but I don't know how to express it, do I?

Instead of asking me for advice, you might as well answer these three questions yourself:

1. Did your best friend evaporate from drinking? You are allowed to share a room with your boyfriend?

He didn't break up when he had sex with you, did he? Isn't this cheating?

You and your best friend's boyfriend seem to like women other than your girlfriend?

Combining the answers to these three questions, it is obvious that the truth can be drawn:

Presumably, this man is either very good-looking, rich at home, or very skilled. I met you intentionally or unintentionally when I was dating your best friend. I don't want you to go home on your birthday. I guess you must be keeping it from your best friend. As for you saying that he didn't have two feet on both sides, you are right. He set foot on several ships at the same time. Why are there only two?

Any of the above charges can be branded as love rat, but he took them all, which shows that this is the best among the dross and selfish enough.

Similarly, you are not a good person. I don't know how you define the word "best friend" Do you think girlfriends are sharing everything, including men? Then I really cried for your best friend.

The more painful you are in your feelings, the more you can't let go, and most of you haven't eaten enough. So I'm not going to persuade you to let go. You just have to hold on to it, and when you feel pain, you will let go.

By the way, I remind you that how a relationship begins is likely to end. He can betray your best friend for you yesterday and betray you for another woman tomorrow. You should be prepared.

You know, some people are just sex friends, not girlfriends, even if they have had sex a hundred times.

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