"The relationship is good or not, you will know after a trip." Why travel can test the friendship between friends?

There is a popular saying recently that friendship is not strong and love is not strong. You can know by traveling together that the person who said this must be experienced. This is very reasonable.

First look at the three views

In the process of traveling, you will encounter many things you have never experienced and see many things you have never seen before. At this time, two people's consumption concept and world outlook will start to dominate and dominate your interaction with people. If you have a harmonious view, you will agree with the way you treat people, and the concept is the same. However, if the three views are inconsistent, they will despise each other and treat people with things. Of course, quarreling is inevitable.

Second, look at the pursuit in your heart.

For example, two people go mountain climbing, some people enjoy the beautiful scenery around them with pigs, and some people seek to climb quickly. After deleting the feeling, all the other mountains are dwarfed under the sky. At this time, two people pursue different things and need to do different things. Chasing scenery along the road is slow and enjoyable, and chasing scenery at the top of the mountain is fast. In order to reach the peak, two people have different speeds and different paths. They are likely to go their separate ways.

Third, let's see who is willing to compromise.

If two people are controlling personalities, and both like to plan routes and dominate trips, then disaster will come. No one wants to take a step back, and they all hold their own opinions and think that their plans are the best. If two people are arranged personalities, it is also impossible. If two people travel without goals and no one gives advice, the beauty and comfort of travel will disappear. At this time, we need a controlling personality, an arranged personality, a planning route and a quiet listening.