To my daughter who is about to be promoted to the second year of high school.

How time flies! In a blink of an eye, your one-year high school student has lived. Your initial excitement to your present calmness means that you are slowly growing and maturing. As a parent, I hope you will treat everything with a normal heart.

in grade two, you will divide the arts and sciences into classes. Although your performance in liberal arts is better than that in science, you still chose science. Your reason is that if you choose liberal arts, it will kill people's morale, because liberal arts only need to memorize. Science, on the other hand, is to exert your brain cells to the best of your ability. Listen to your words, I am very pleased, my daughter, she is a student full of fighting spirit!

I hope I can give you a lot of help and support. Be your strongest backing. I can't help you with your studies, but I can give you some advice in life, emotion and ways to deal with things. The following is what I want to say to you. I hope you don't think I am wordy and read the article patiently.

first of all, you should understand that everyone has their own things and their own most important things. As our parents, making money to support our family is our first priority, while as your students, studying is an important thing. How to finish the homework assigned by the teacher quickly and fully grasp the knowledge points taught by the teacher should be put in the first place. High school life is tense, and there are many distractions, but you must remember this, and don't let some chores distract you from your study. I remembered something you told me some time ago, such as the mosquito net in the dormitory. Other female students hung up mosquito nets, but you didn't think there were any mosquitoes biting you, so the contradiction came. They ignored your feelings and insisted on sleeping with the door open, but when they opened the door, mosquitoes came to bite you, which made you not sleep well at night and had to get up early. In this way, your study energy during the day must be limited. And you must hate your roommate in your heart. In this matter, what I want to say to you is that you must let go of this unhappy mood. Next semester, you will change roommates, and there will definitely be new contradictions. Be sure to wear mosquito nets. If others hang them, you should also hang them. In life, try not to make yourself different, which will only isolate you. If others have done something wrong, you should gently point it out and never complain behind their backs. I hope you get along well with your roommates and help each other. One more thing, because of the photo incident, a female classmate suddenly turned against you, although it's not your fault. Obviously, that female classmate misunderstood you, so you don't have to worry about it. Now you two are at odds. There is always a process for people to get to know each other. You can let go of your unhappiness and talk to her more, and the misunderstanding will be eliminated. Maybe she doesn't want to talk to you more, so there's no need to force it. It's that she lost a friend, not that you lost a friend ... There may be many such things, and I think you will take good care of them. Because I really don't want these little things to distract you from your study.

recently, I asked you to do the wrong exercise book, and you were a little reluctant. It seems a bit disapproving. It may be time-consuming and laborious to do the wrong question, but I think it is still worth doing. I think that's what you've learned. Doing the wrong questions is a combing of what you've learned. What you have mastered skillfully, what you have a little knowledge of and what you don't understand at all ... If you do these wrong questions again, you will definitely improve. If you do them again, you will be able to solve them. If you don't understand them at all, write them down and ask the man. Be sure to ask questions actively and overcome your shy personality. Ask boldly. I think any classmate or teacher will be happy to help you. There is really no place to ask. You can ask Baidu, Baidu document, Daoke Baba, etc., or you can watch Baidu video, which contains the introduction of the learning methods of various subjects by the top students in the college entrance examination. Perhaps, you can apply their methods to solve the problems. By other's faults, wise men correct their own. I remember your junior high school teacher said that computers should be tools, not toys, so we should make good use of computers. Even myself, I learned to dance, audio and video conversion, etc. through the computer. Every time I learned one thing, I felt great gains. ) If you solve the problem in this way, you will be deeply impressed. If you encounter these problems in the future, it will not be a problem. I'm thinking that the so-called top scholar notes that are madly circulated on the Internet may be the wrong book for them. If you make the wrong book notes well, you may be a top scholar two years later. Because I believe that miracles can be created!

yesterday, I was thinking about locking my computer. Because you are addicted to QQ chat. If a person often chats on QQ, he can't study and work with peace of mind. Take myself for example, if I chat while working, I often make mistakes, because my attention is all on the conversation, and the more I chat, the more excited I get, and I can't settle down to work at all. Now my habit is to log in to QQ every morning, browse the information, and then quit QQ and work with peace of mind. I believe you can handle this matter well, and I don't want to lock the computer. I believe you will make good use of the computer as a tool.

recently, I like copying. Every word is written properly. I find that copying has many benefits. First of all, through copying, I learned the general content of the article, and most of them were written down. Moreover, through writing, I wrote one by one, and my dry heart calmed down. Learning, on the other hand, must be devoted to state learning in order to be effective. And I read between your lines, and more or less I find some superficial ingredients in you. What do you think? If you are interested, you might as well try it according to my method. Every day, you can copy a short passage of beautiful prose, a poem or two, etc. You don't need to write beautifully, but you only need to write neatly and realistically every stroke. Written neatly. This little thing doesn't take much time. I hope you have a try. You will find that you will be much quieter after a period of time.

The photos of your classmates traveling in Korea are really beautiful. You must be envious, too. Body and soul, there must always be one on the road. Travel is always desirable, but for various reasons, we can't go out to see it all. The body is not on the road, so let our souls go on the road. Buy some books you like to read. Only books can make you strong!

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That's all I have to say, but I haven't finished yet. Maybe a lot of them are sermons. Then forgive mom's pen.